Stealing My Best Friends Crush | Am I The A-Hole?
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What is the premise of today's 'Am I The A-Hole' episode?
a listener production. This is Happy Hour with Lucy and Nikki. And if you're easily offended, then this might not be for you.
I remember when he texted me, he's like, are you driving? And I was like, yeah. And he goes, pull over. And I was like. Safety first.
God. Holy fuck, this is super cool memory.
I'm like, are you driving? Pull over. And I was like, oh, fuck, all right. And he's like, he's chatting in Toronto.
It was like that night, the boys were keeping him away from Nick. He shat in a drawer. Holy! Cheers, babes. Welcome to Happy Hour with Lucy and Nicky, the real life shit you only discuss over a drink. But before we start, a little disclaimer.
So today we are here for Am I the Arsehole? Been a while. It's been a hot minute. You know what, guys? We're not even going to give this a long intro because you know the drill. Let's get straight into it.
Okay, story number one titled Phone on D&D. Hey girls, long time listener. I have an am I the a-hole situation for you. So I met this guy about two weeks ago. We hit it off straight away. He seemed really nice. We're both from the same small town and we actually met working, sorry, walking home one night. Turns out he lives just around the corner from me and we also have mutual friends. Over the next couple of weeks, I went over to his house for dinner a couple of times and everything seemed normal. Then one weekend, I was having a quiet night in because I wanted to wake up early and go to the gym. He'd gone out drinking with friends. At about 1.30 in the morning, I woke up to a bunch of missed calls from him.
I text asking what was up and he replied saying, come pick me up. I asked where he was and he said the local pub, which is literally a five-minute walk from his house. Instead of replying, I just turned my phone on, do not disturb and went back to sleep. About 20 minutes later, I heard a car pull up outside my house. I jumped out of bed, peeked through the blinds, and it was him. He'd shown up to my house in a taxi. I panicked, jumped back into bed, pulled the covers over my head and pretended that I was asleep. He knocked on my door for about 15 minutes and called me 17 times. Oh. Oh, honey. I just ignored it because, honestly, I'd only met him three times. I just didn't want him turning up at my house at 2 a.m.
He eventually left.
Oh.
Oh, imagine the head noise he'd have the next day. Oh, brother.
Speaking of the next day, the next morning I text him saying, sorry, I fell asleep last night. He replied saying it was all good and that he was embarrassed for calling me so many times and I said, it's okay. But then I asked, did you come to my house last night? And he replied, no, my friend and I just went straight home in a taxi. But I literally saw him outside my house. It immediately gave me the ick. I didn't reply for a while. But later that day, he asked if we were going to hang out again. And I said, honestly, I didn't think so because it made me feel awkward that he came to my house and then lied about it. And he said, oh my God, I forgot that I came until my friend reminded me. I'm so sorry.
Let me make it up to you. But I just can't get past it.
How does the first story highlight the complexities of modern dating?
Firstly, he lied about it. Secondly, I think it's weird to show up at someone's house at 2am when you've only met them a few times. But at the same time, we were a couple dates in and both thought we had something going on.
Yeah.
So, girls, am I the a-hole for ghosting him after this? Oh, this is a tricky one. Because I see both sides.
As a little lady who's dabbled in this field herself of... Of what? Just like... Not of rocking up in the houses. It's like, what are you alluding to? No, no, no, no, no, no. But of early days dating. Yeah. It has... The ability to, especially when there's alcohol involved, to send you... I've never done anything to this nature. I don't even think I'd even call someone if I was like this. But it has the ability to send you a little bit neurotic. I would say. So in the sense that I do feel... sorry for this guy because he's obviously just been like, fuck yeah, me and this chick are vibing, gone out with his mates thinking, oh, fuck, I can call her.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What is the premise of today's 'Am I The A-Hole' episode?
0:02–3:05
2
How does the first story highlight the complexities of modern dating?
3:05–8:56
3
What are the hosts' thoughts on ghosting after a date gone wrong?
8:56–10:17
4
How does the second story explore friendship dynamics and romantic interests?
10:17–12:11
5
What advice do the hosts give about navigating feelings in friendships?
12:11–13:03
6
How do the hosts address the balance between honesty and hurt feelings?
13:03–16:16
7
What insights are shared about handling awkward situations with friends?
16:16–49:16
Speakers
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