From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s Eve
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Why is Ryan Seacrest a topic of discussion?
And we're almost at New Year's. New Year's is very close. New Year's is, as this episode is dropping, New Year's is 11 days away. And it's coming fast. And if you're like many single men, you might be looking at a long, lonely New Year's Eve. You know? Just you and Ryan Seacrest watching the ball drop. Not to mention watching your romantic hopes drop. More like New Year's Rotten Eve. Am I right? Oh, and a little side note here. Here's a quick 30-second rant. I hate Ryan Seacrest. I can't stand Ryan Seacrest. He's so bland. He is the exact opposite of being an authentic, real, raw person. He's just so bland in the middle of the road. And does he have to host every show in the world? Does he have to host Wheel of Fortune and his talk show and his radio show and American Idol?
He's everywhere. Scientists say that 75% of the earth is covered in water. The rest is covered in Ryan Seacrest. Okay, end of rant. Basically, the holidays are here and loneliness is really something that's pretty brutal for a lot of people, especially men. You know, a lot of men really struggle with loneliness. I know I did, which I'll tell you about in a second. There's a recent poll that came out by Pew, which said that one in three adult men are romantically unattached, which is a record high. And an amazingly astounding 63% of men between the ages of 18 and 30 are single, compared to 34% of women 18 to 30. So 63% of men compared to 34% of women. And I know all about being lonely.
What are some mindset tips to overcome approach anxiety?
I spent a lot of lonely Christmas Eves, a lot of lonely New Year's Eves with my parents. I barely dated in my 20s and well into my 30s. So I had a lot of lonely New Year's Eves at home alone, drinking. There was one New Year's Eve I drank. I'm sober now. There was one New Year's Eve I drank two bottles of wine. And drinking alone by yourself, not my best moments from the past. I'm 700 days sober now, by the way. But back in the day, I really struggled with loneliness, and it took a toll. I drank too much. It just hurt my confidence and made me feel kind of hopeless. Now, I changed all that. I've been a dating coach for 12 years now. And as a dating coach for men, my mission is to help single, lonely men connect with wonderful women and find love.
And today I want to give you 25 tips, practical tips, so that you can be with a wonderful woman on New Year's Eve and get your midnight kiss. Because one of my favorite ways to kick off finding a great girlfriend for a guy, is what I do is I play wingman for my clients in New York City. We go out on the town and I help them chat up women in bars and lounges. And New Year's Eve is actually the best night of the year for a single guy to go out and make sparks fly with women. Got the festive energy, got bustling bars, lots of parties, and it's a great night to meet women and have that maybe, just maybe, a midnight kiss. And so this episode is dropping just 10 or 11 days before New Year's Eve. There's still time.
There is still time for you to be spending New Year's Eve with or to meet an incredible woman on New Year's Eve and have that first kiss at midnight. Okay, I'm not saying it's going to be quite as lovey-dovey romantic as, you know, what's that famous scene in When Harry Met Sally? When Harry... confesses his love for Meg Ryan.
What are effective openers to use with women?
How about this way? I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend a day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes, and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why is Ryan Seacrest a topic of discussion?
0:37–2:28
2
What are some mindset tips to overcome approach anxiety?
2:28–4:38
3
What are effective openers to use with women?
4:38–5:01
4
How can you stop fearing rejection?
5:01–8:06
5
What is the 'Z Pattern' technique for romantic tension?
8:06–8:52
6
What are the best first-kiss moves for New Year's Eve?
8:52–15:59
7
How to dress to impress on New Year's Eve?
15:59–20:31
8
What are the key tips for approaching women successfully?
20:31–29:30
Speakers
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