Get Ready to Love, Love, LOVE the Dating Apps! 6 Profile Fixes for More Matches Fast (Part 2 of 4)
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Why am I not getting good matches on dating apps?
What that means is you're missing several of what I call the 12 essentials of an irresistible dating profile. There are 12 core essentials that pretty much all or most need to be there for you to get maximum number of good matches. Once I dialed in all 12 of these essentials, I started getting tons of really good matches. My clients and I have literally gotten thousands of matches. And we've been on hundreds and hundreds of dates combined. Actually, I've been on hundreds and hundreds of first dates. And so have my clients. And actually, I met my girlfriend, my soulmate, Jessamyn. I met her on a dating app. So yes, the dating apps can and do work, and they can work for you. You just have to do it the right way.
And so this is part two of a four-part series I'm doing here on the podcast. And I'm going to walk you through in detail the first six of the 12 essentials. I'm going to give you the foundation of an online dating profile that converts. And by the way, if you missed part one, feel free to go back and check out the last episode where I give you the full 12-point checklist of all 12 essentials. It's just a good, quick CliffsNotes version of these 12 things. It's a great way to troubleshoot your profile. What you might want to do is go back and listen to part one and say, oh, wow, I'm missing four, five, six of these 12 essentials. And then you're going to know what to work on. And then come back and listen to this episode because right now I'm about to go deep in really practical ways so that you can have the first six of these essentials handled. Okay, so before I give you the first six essentials, let's zoom out for a second. Your dating profile isn't some group of photos and a few prompts. I mean, at least your profile shouldn't be that.
Your dating profile, think of it like a story. Your dating profile is a story that you're telling women. And the title of your story should be something like, I'm a good guy. I'm a great catch. and a date with me would be fun and flirty. That's your story, or some variation of that. We want women to look at your profile and hear your story. I'm a great guy, I'm a great catch. A date with me would be fun and flirty. If a woman feels that, takes in that story when she sees your profile, you're gonna get a ton of matches. But let's be honest, right now that's not the story your profile's telling. Your profile is probably telling a story like, here are six random photos I found on my phone. Please like me. That might be your story.
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Chapters
6 chapters
1
Why am I not getting good matches on dating apps?
2:02–6:59
2
What makes a great first photo for dating profiles?
6:59–15:39
3
How can I improve my dating profile photos?
15:39
4
What are the essential qualities of a dating profile?
6:08–22:20
5
How do I create an authentic and attractive smile for my profile?
22:20–34:15
6
What should my second dating profile photo look like?
34:15–39:55
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