How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
How to Read Women, Know What to Say, and Get Her Asking YOU Out: Hayley Quinn’s Secrets to Attraction
05 Feb 2025
What are Hayley Quinn's tips for not being creepy?
The fact I would say to anybody who's having that dialogue with themselves, is it creepy? Am I going to be creepy? How do I not overstep boundaries? The fact you're thinking in those terms, I think inherently means you're not the creepy guy. You're so unlikely to be that guy.
In fact, you're probably so far over in the other direction that you're not communicating intentions and women just aren't seeing you. And that is a big shame.
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I am here to help you learn to flirt, gain self-confidence, and get a great girlfriend, all by being authentic. No sketchy, toxic pickup artist moves needed. And today I have a really special guest who's going to help you meet your future girlfriend. My guest today is Haley Quinn.
Haley is the leading UK dating coach, and she's a real superstar in this world of dating coaches. Haley coaches both men and women. and she has transformed countless lives with her approach to finding love. She's the founder of HaleyQuinn.com, that's H-A-Y-L-E-Y-Q-U-I-N-N.com. She's got master classes, she's got coaching, she's got virtual coaching, it's all there on her website.
And she's also written a really great book called Do This, Not That Dating, which has 75 plus tips for difficult dating situations. And that's something you should definitely check out. One last thing. Her TED Talk has gotten over 3 million views. That's 3 million more views than my non-existent TED Talk.
So get ready for an action-packed episode with lots of insight from a true shining light in this world. Oh, wow. We're almost out of time, Haley. But thank you for being here.
Thank you for the long introduction. I enjoyed my 30 seconds of flattery there. Now I want to crack on and get the good work done.
Let's do a two-part episode. The first one is your introduction. The second episode is just advice. Anyway, so I was reading your book yesterday. Actually, I was listening to it. I think I've forgotten how to read. because all I do are listen to audio books and podcasts. But I was listening to your book, Do This, Do This, Not That, Dating, and I was really struck by something.
So I'm gonna read a quote to you from your book. You wrote, quote, rejection isn't a reflection of your worth, but a redirection towards someone who's a better match. and then a quote a few sentences later reads, just because the front cover of the book isn't exactly what a person wants in terms of them meeting you, seeing you, that doesn't mean the content of the book is bad.
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