Say This, Get the Date (No Flaking!) How To Never Run Out of Things to Say (Part 3 of 4)
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How can you keep a conversation flowing naturally with women?
And knowing that you are more than enough for a woman. What you say is enough for a woman because it's coming from you, a really great guy. You don't need great game because you're a great guy. Ooh, I just made that up. That was pretty good. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am dating coach and bestselling author, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently meet and attract wonderful women in real life and do it without weird tricks or cringy pickup moves. Okay, so you've got her attention. You just broke the ice with this wonderful woman. Now what? She's smiling. You said hi. Now you're in a conversation, but suddenly your mind goes blank. What do you say next? How do you not run out of things to say?
How do you keep her interested? What if the conversation dies? Most guys struggle with this. They either freeze up, or they ask boring questions, or they ramble, or they have a really long, awkward pause, and then she just slinks away. And the result is no numbers, no dates, no chemistry, no success. But not you. not after today's podcast episode, because this is part three of my four-part special series here for Valentine's Day week on how to meet women in real life. And if you missed the last episode, please go back and check it out. I taught my natural approaching method, so you know exactly how to break the ice with women anywhere in a way that works so, so well. But let's be real. Just breaking the ice, just approaching isn't enough. you have to keep the conversation flowing. You've got to create some kind of connection. You've got to ask for her number, set up the date. And if you don't do these things the right way, then all this time and effort you put into talking to the woman, she'll lose interest or it will fall flat. So today I'm going to give you
I'm going to give you kind of a three-step plan that you can follow. Let's call this a three-step roadmap, a three-step roadmap to make your conversations feel natural, authentic, flirty, much more effortless, so that you can turn that approach into a phone number, into a date, and eventually into getting a great girlfriend. And also, I'm going to break down the seven biggest mistakes guys make when talking to women, post-approach, and I'll teach you how to fix those mistakes. And by the way, please stick around until the very end of the episode today, because at the very end of the episode, I'm going to talk about one of the most common dating questions and problems I hear about from guys, which is, how do you talk to women at the gym? How do I talk to her at the gym without being that creepy pickup guy who's bothering her mid-squat?
So I'm going to give you that tip at the very end. So that'll give you a reason to stick around to the very end. Okay, here's your three-step roadmap to flirty, authentic conversation. Okay, so you walk up to that woman. You use the natural approaching method from last episode. And you've opened in a strong, positive way. You've got her attention. And now you're thinking, now what? Well, the now what is you follow these three simple steps. Step one is you explore the topic that you used for your approach opener. Step two is you simply exchange names. Introduce yourself, get her name, give yours. And step three is you discuss a second topic. And that's really all you have to do. And then all you're going to do is take out your phone, And get her number.
And then you're going to send her a dick pic. And send her a nice dick pic. Send her something classy, like Robert Mapplethorpe might have taken or Annie Leibovitz. Send her a nice dick pic. Don't send her a dark. OK, no dick pics. I'm kidding. That's a joke, obviously. Everybody knows you don't send a dick pic till after the first date. Come on. No, but all jokes aside, basically what you're going to do is you're going to, and I'll break all this down in a second. Step one, you explore the topic that you used to approach her. Step two, then you exchange names once that conversation topic runs its course. And step three is you switch to a second topic. And then after you talk about the second topic, you simply take your phone out
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