Struggle Talking to Women IRL? My 3 Openers (90% Success Rate!) Fix that Instantly (Part 2 of 4)
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How about a 90% success ratio for an opener that she responds to well? Would you take that batting average? I know I certainly would. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you confidently flirt with women, get dates, and get a great girlfriend. And do it by being authentic. No pickup, manipulation, silliness, and nonsense. Welcome to part two of my special four-part series on meeting and attracting women in real life, just in time for Valentine's Day week. If you're tired of relying on dating apps, and if you want to finally meet women out in the world, organically, naturally, confidently, this series that you're listening to is your roadmap.
This is part two of four. In part one, we talked about the mindset the confidence, the internal beliefs, and the mind you have to have in place. Now it's time for the fun stuff. What to say, how to talk to women, how to flirt, all the really good stuff. That's what we're going to get into for the rest of the series, frankly. And if you're like I used to be, then I'll bet that you see beautiful women all the time. but your brain just locks up. You'd love to talk to them, but you overanalyze things. You see that gorgeous girl at the gym, or a stylish woman at the bar, or a woman at a party, and you think, oh, I want to go meet her and talk to her, but what do I say? Should I be funny? Should I compliment her?
Should I say some smooth line that I heard on this YouTube channel? Should I ask her a question? No, don't do that. That's question mode. And basically, you start playing mental chess, trying to find the perfect thing to say. And before you know it, she's gone. She's moved on. And then you're kicking yourself. So if that sounds familiar, I used to feel the same. I struggled with dating until my late 30s. I had a lot of self-doubt. I'm a very shy, introverted guy, naturally. I was stuck in my head all the time. And I think you're a lot like me in that regard. You're probably, you get stuck in your head. You're not sure what to say. And that hesitation can really kill the attraction before it even starts. It keeps you from even meeting women.
Or if you do talk to women, then chances are you're in your head and you're not really present and showing her that confident self. So after today's episode. you're never going to second guess yourself again about what to say. Because I'm going to give you three simple, natural, authentic ways to start conversations with women anywhere. And to do it without awkwardness, without overthinking, and without using planned, weird, scripted pickup moves. And also without being somebody you're not. You're going to be able to do this by being really genuine, really yourself. And your problem here is, your very likely problem with why you don't approach women, other than the mindset issues we talked about in episode one, is that you're probably trying to think of the perfect thing to say, the perfect thing to say that won't get you rejected.
What I'm going to teach you today is what I call my natural approaching method, which is three simple ways to open a conversation with a woman anywhere and to do it effortlessly. And to do it in a way that will help you approach really cute, attractive women anywhere. And that I would say is 90% rejection proof. What I'm going to teach you today is about 90% rejection proof. What I mean is once you practice this, a little bit of comfort, your approach opener will be received well, somewhere between positive and super attracted 90% of the time from women. Maybe 10% of women will be mean or cold or dismissive. But how about a 90% success ratio for an opener that she responds to well? Would you take that batting average? I know I certainly would.
And how can we get you to a 90% approaching success ratio? At least in terms of the defining approach success by she responds well. Because as you're going to see, we're going to remove the thing that women reject. I've removed the thing that women reject. They reject creepiness. They reject vulgarity. Or they reject social awkwardness when a man comes up to her.
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