What’s YOUR Dating Superpower? Discover the 7 Attractors that Make Women Want to Date You
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She left me for a handsome guy on a Harley. Something you don't want to hear on your honeymoon is, oh, hey, I think I saw your wife on the back of this guy's Harley. Welcome to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm a dating coach for men. I help successful, established guys flirt with confidence, get dates, get a great girlfriend, and do it all by being authentic. No sketchy pickup artist moves needed. Here's my question for you. What is your dating superpower? You might not know what they are. You might not have even thought you have dating superpowers. If you're like a lot of successful, established guys, you're actually struggling with women and dating. You're not sure how to talk to women, or how to connect, or how to meet them. Or maybe you're just not confident when it comes to talking to that gorgeous, classy woman, especially if you're shy or introverted.
There's a really good chance that this is the one area of your life that's not working. And today's episode is about how to identify the seven dating superpowers And if you just activate any one of these, you're going to start having some really fantastic changes and improvements in your love life. Okay, anybody on our side hiding any shocking and fantastic abilities they'd like to disclose? I'm open to suggestions. And if you get two or three or more going for you, all the better. You do not need to know all seven or be good at all seven, but you need at least one of these dating superpowers. Ideally, maybe two. One or two is plenty. So who am I? If you're new to the podcast, I'm the real life Hitch, if Hitch was a skinny, shy ginger who used to suck at dating.
I coach men who struggle with dating. I help them get confidence. I help them get matches, find love, get great girlfriends, help them approach women. And if you struggle with dating, dude, I've been there. My heart breaks when I see a guy struggling with self-doubt, with loneliness, with feeling like this is just that one part of life, that one puzzle piece of life that's not working for you. So I know what that's like. I know what that's like. So before I get into these seven dating superpowers and how to them in short-term ways, let me share a little bit about me because I bet my story resonates with you. I'll bet we are on the same page here in a lot of ways. I know exactly what it feels like to feel lonely. Once upon a time, I was lonely and dateless well into my 30s.
I could not approach women. I struggled on the apps. I once went six years without a date. I was frustrated. I felt isolated. I just felt like I wasn't that guy who women went for. And when you believe you're not good enough, when you're this skinny, nerdy ginger who I've just felt like wasn't that cool, muscular, handsome guy who women want, I thought I was too shy, too introverted, just too nice. That just made me feel like I was less of a man. So my low point was I actually married the one woman The one quality woman who wanted to be with me, I married her. I didn't want to, but I did. I was settling. And she actually dumped me nine weeks after our wedding. She left me for a handsome guy on a Harley. Something you don't want to hear on your honeymoon is, oh, hey, I think I saw your wife on the back of this guy's Harley. Not a good scene. I joked at the time that Our marriage was over so fast that we fought for custody of the wedding cake.
But I was joking through the tears. Basically, I felt rejected by all women at that point. It really hurt. And what hurt most was this thought that maybe love just wasn't in the cards for me. Maybe I just wasn't meant to find somebody. But basically, I had a realization. I decided this is not how my romantic story is going to end. So after I brushed myself off, I got back up on the horse and I said, okay, it's time to take action. So what I did is I spent about five years training with some of the top dating experts in the world, learning the art of male-female connection. I literally traveled the world, New York, London, Stockholm, Barcelona, New Zealand.
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