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Infamous

Who Was Carolyn Bessette Kennedy, Really?

26 Feb 2026

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Chapter 1: Who was Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and why is she significant?

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Campsite Media.

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Welcome back to Infamous, a Campside Media and Sony Music Entertainment production. As you may recall, we had Glynis McNichol, a wonderful author and journalist, come on to talk about Carolyn Bessette Kennedy and JFK Jr. around the 25th anniversary of their plane crash.

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But now, if you are paying some attention to what's out there on the internet or if you watch Hulu, you may have noticed that Ryan Murphy has out a new multi-part series about their love story. John, I want to introduce you to Carolyn Bissett. Carolyn, this is John Kennedy. It's actually called Love Story. And I wouldn't say it's been tearing up the airwaves.

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Like people are interested in it, but not loving it entirely due to some of the writing, some of the sort of canned characters. But what is totally undeniable is love. I believe the actress, Sarah Pidgeon, who plays Carolyn Bessette Kennedy, does a fabulous job and really looks like her. I actually think the JFK Jr.

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actor, who people have been saying is not great, is gorgeous and looks just like JFK Jr. I'm loving him. And the entire thing is like some wonderful rose-flavored spray of the 1990s, from the sets to the costumes. Everybody is smoking all throughout the entire thing.

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Carolyn Bessette Kennedy is wearing, you know, a sort of olive green slip dress and going to the Roxy nightclub in New York and flirting with an underwear model and then getting into a cab and saying, you know, you can come with me if you want. It's just this incredible experience of love.

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luxuriating in the time before Sex and the City, like right before Sex and the City, right before Y2K, right before 9-11. So we're going to replay the episode that we originally recorded with Glynis, but she is also here to tell us what she thinks of the Ryan Murphy love story TV miniseries. So Glynis, Glynis, tell us all your thoughts.

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I wish we could time travel back through the screen to some of those places. I think it's funny because some of the reviews have been kind of harsh, but my sense is from people watching it that they're really enjoying it. And there has developed such a cult of Carolyn following, you know, in the last few years that

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the expectation was it was going to be terrible because initially those, those shots from set of her outfits and her hair were so terrible. But, Apparently, Ryan Murphy took all that criticism. They fired the costume designer, got a new one, sourced all the actual clothes, and then Sarah Pigeon got rid of her wig, and they've done a really good job with her hair.

Chapter 2: How does Hulu's 'Love Story' depict JFK Jr. and Carolyn's romance?

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Yeah, yeah. And I think for people who follow this, it has allowed people who are interested in her to just become... like obsessive, almost like true crime, but for her appearance. And so they've really done a good job of replicating that on the screen. They've really got the transition from before she meets him, she was much more casual.

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Her hair was close to brunette and she wore it very wavy and unkempt. And there's sort of this march in her appearance that I've always been fascinated by of her getting you know, thinner and blonder until her hair's like white blonde and her eyebrows basically disappear. And she stopped speaking entirely.

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At the time when, after they got married, Carolyn was, you know, highly criticized in the press. Like they were brutal on her. So sexist. It was so critical. She was treated as sort of a money digger who was not a serious person and maybe stupid, you know? And I think the reality of it

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which people who lived at the time or people have paid attention was that she was, you know, a highly successful career girl who landed in New York from working at a mall and a pretty middle-class upbringing with a single mom who got remarried and sort of had this incredible dreamy New York downtown life.

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Like the, the media and sort of the world at large didn't have a vernacular for that version of Manhattan. Cause you know, Manhattan was still a little, sealed off that sort of downtown Manhattan culturally from sort of the world's perception of it.

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And then Sex and the City, of course, lands in 1998, just prior to the plane crash, and suddenly gives the world a real language for this New York that she was occupying prior to her marriage. I mean, she really was the Carrie Bradshaw before Carrie Bradshaw, right? She's downtown fashion... smoker, social life, successful woman who lands her Mr. Big.

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And we never get the sort of post Mr. Big until the movies and sex in the city, but we really saw a pretty brutal version of it play out in their marriage. She suffered enormously from that marriage. She like went from this very vital, successful woman to a person who locked herself in in that Tribeca apartment.

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And this show, the first few episodes, it's been really interesting to see them tap into the truth of what her life, or some version of the truth, at least, of what her life looked like pre-marriage, which never got conveyed in the media at the time at all.

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Because you have, you know, basically he's sort of riding around Tribeca, you know, in his bike with his, like, backward Kangol hat. He may have been called the sexiest man alive, but tonight he was just plain embarrassed. Strike three and he's out of his job as assistant DA. What's next for the famous heir? And she's, you know, almost like a louche character, right? Yeah.

Chapter 3: What are the criticisms of the 'Love Story' miniseries?

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Like she's her own Cinderella story separate from him. She's, you know, she's, you could make an entire, which by the way is sex in the city to some degree, right? There's a real through line here. And Michael Bergen, who's the underwear model in real life, dated Candace Bushnell. You know, I didn't know that. Oh, yeah.

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She wrote this very famous New York Observer piece about dating Michael Bergen.

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Oh, my God.

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Funny. Yeah. So I do think she strikes me as someone who. Like culturally, you're conditioned to. to want she's, she's always dated powerful men. The most powerful man shows up. They I'm sure had a shit ton of chemistry. And like, are you going to say no to that? You're being like, this is a huge life, but it's like you caught the prize and then you couldn't handle the prize.

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You know, that the prize was not what you signed up for. And yeah, What do you, what do you do? I don't know. Like it's, she literally never left the apartment. I mean, she left it like five times. It's just, and it's terrible when you see those photos of her after the marriage, she's almost unrecognizable to the person she was photographed in, in 1994, 95. Like it's clearly,

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taking such a toll on her. And she switches from wearing, you know, Calvin Klein outfits to almost exclusively wearing Yoji, how do you say his name? Yamamoto. Yeah. Who's this very strict Japanese designer. It's like she created this armor for herself. It's funny to call this love story because I think she's the real life version of happily ever after is rarely serves women.

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And this is a prison.

Chapter 4: How did Carolyn Bessette Kennedy's style influence the 90s fashion?

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And we didn't get that in sex in the city because they, pushed it all the way to the last episode and then really sold out that episode.

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What do you think would have happened if they hadn't died and they were still alive? I mean, you think it was an inevitable divorce? Do you think he would have gone into politics?

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Oh, I think the reason Hillary was holding off announcing, she spent all of 1999 doing these sort of trial balloons, should I run for Senate? And it's because Daniel Moynihan, the iconic senator, said, from New York had announced his resignation and they were waiting to see if JFK Jr.

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was going to throw his hat in the ring, that there was a sense that George had been sort of his political launchpad. And now that he was married and, you know, and the seat opened up in New York, was he going to throw it in the ring? And so there was a lot of people sort of holding their breath. So I think, but could she have handled being a political wife?

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I think the real question is the first time she was photographed smiling was like six weeks before they died. Like there was this sort of sense that maybe she was a little bit coming out of the fog, but also they were reportedly living apart at the time that the plane crashed. So I think either they get divorced and he finds a more

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you know, classic political wife who wants to take the back seat and she becomes, you know, sort of like an extraordinary New York character who, I don't know, goes on Real Housewives at some point, who knows, or, or she, you know, throws in and they make a, they move to I don't know, a building with a doorman so she doesn't have to walk outside and be yelled at by people constantly.

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Hard to say, but it is a great slice of life. So everybody, please thank Glynis for coming on to talk to us about this.

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My favorite topic.

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This new miniseries, this new sort of almost lifetimey, but like very, very chicly designed miniseries. love story and stay tuned to hear our conversation from a couple of years ago about JFK Jr. and Carolyn Bessette if you can't get enough of this story. Thanks again. These days, life is busy, schedules are packed, and taking care of yourself can feel like a full-time job. But who has the time?

Chapter 5: What challenges did Carolyn face in her marriage to JFK Jr.?

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They took her apart piece by piece. They had a picture of her face in this Newsweek spread where they went over her eyebrows and how much weight she would have had to lose and all of this stuff. She's up for sale almost. But at the time, I was just like, how do I get these eyebrows? I didn't have any conception of how problematic all of this was.

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I was just literally like, wait, how do I look like this? My memory of seeing her on the street once was at I first only noticed her hair. Then I realized who she was. I was walking behind her and I was walking quickly because we're in New York. And she kept turning her head over her shoulder to look at me in a very nervous way.

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And when I figured out who she was, I thought, oh God, she thinks I'm chasing her. She had so much anxiety that before I even knew who she was, I was like, I'm making this woman anxious. And I crossed the street.

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So the reason that she's coming in for all this scrutiny, which, of course, was disgusting, is because he was America's number one hunk. I mean, when he failed the bar exam, which everybody was shocked that he failed because.

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Twice.

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He failed twice. Twice. Twice. I'm getting to that. But, you know, his entire family, not only was his father president, but, like, everybody in his family is lawyers. He goes to take the bar exam, fails. The New York Post says on the front cover, the headline is, the hunk flunks again. But he was the hunk. I mean, he dated... Madonna. He dated Daryl Hannah.

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Wasn't it that Sarah Jessica Parker, once she got famous on Sex and the City, was like, hey, knock, knock, JFK Jr., are you ready to date me now? But he was this guy who had been raised in this life of privilege, but he was now an outdoorsman. He loved to kayak. He was always on his rollerblades. He was biking. He was sort of this interesting melange of masculinity from back then.

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He was also a partier.

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But not a big partier. I think it's hard to conceive of the degree of attention he lived under because he's got the Jackie mystique, whereas this Caroline Kennedy Schlossberg definitely has the Kennedy sort of straightforward New England about her. But he was gorgeous. Here's the thing. He was completely gorgeous. This isn't sort of like a made-up, like, oh, he's good-looking enough.

Chapter 6: How did media portrayal affect Carolyn Bessette Kennedy?

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I remember seeing him on the street, and I realized it was him before her because... He was eye-catching. He was just a gorgeous guy and he walked with such confidence. And I also know, I never met him at where I waited tables, but he used to come into where I waited tables and the night chef in the kitchen didn't know who he was and was always like, oh, he's such a nice guy.

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He just likes to sit at the bar and talk about basketball scores. And he rode his bike everywhere. And I think there was a sense of weirdly one-of-us-ness in New York, but also possessing that Hollywood-esque mystique. And you think of Ethel's Kennedy kids who struggled with drugs and addiction, and some of them had very tragic lives.

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He was the little boy everyone cleaved onto when he saluted his father, who grew up into this gorgeous creature. He seemed to be very good natured about it all. I can't imagine growing up in that kind of microscope. It could really curdle you. You see this with the royals. And he tended to conduct himself sort of good-naturedly, like a kind person that everybody wished well.

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I mean, he's living in Tribeca. He is no doorman. He doesn't use a personal driver. He's sort of out on the street. You're even seeing him. He's so much in the city that you're looking at pictures of Carolyn picking up a piece of poop from their dog. Like, that's the level of coverage.

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That would run on the front page of the New York—can you imagine? Like, I remember picking up the New York Post one morning— And there was the news and then the sidebar was a photo of Carolyn scooping their dog named Friday's dog poop. And it was just like, man, we were so obsessed. And also Tribeca then was not what it is now.

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It was still not a no man's land necessarily, but he was an early arrival down there. He was a bit alternative.

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Yeah. Right. He did feel like alternative and they did feel like New York and America's premier couple at the time. John F. Kennedy is elected as the 35th president of the United States. It is the climax of one of the closest, most dramatic elections in American history. So now my wife and I prepare for a new administration and for a new baby. So tell me about the tragic Kennedy clan.

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It's just a cursory look. JFK, his older brother, died and a plane crash during the war, I believe. And his younger sister had a lobotomy. And Robert Kennedy and Ethel's children, the eldest one died of a drug overdose. The other one who had an affair with the babysitter died on the ski slopes. So I think you see...

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In that family, the fractures of expectation and attention and beauty and privilege in all the sort of ways that it's not healthy. And I think what you see in John who experienced similar increased degrees of attention and tragedy in their lives from a young age, a stableness. And I guess Jackie was largely credited for that, which I'm sure she deserved to be.

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