Chapter 1: What unhinged questions are answered in this AMA?
We are back for another AMA and you guys keep submitting the most unhinged questions. Oh, I'm not okay. How do you feel about men eating food in bed? I have a lot of feelings about a man just being in my bed at the moment. What do I eat in a day? I don't think anyone believes me. How does your family decide when information is public versus private?
How do you find the courage to leave an unhealthy relationship? Well, What are my thoughts on aging? As soon as I can be frozen and preserved, sign me up. Would love to know what motivated you to go to therapy. I think I was bullied into therapy and I did it just to get everyone to shut the fuck up.
I love that you guys keep submitting the best, sweetest, supportive questions and comments and I absolutely love doing these, so please don't stop.
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Would I survive a zombie apocalypse? I can survive a lot of things, zombies are not my jam. We are back and I'm so excited for another AMA and Ask Me Anything on Chloe in Wonderland. The first AMA, I had so much fun.
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Chapter 2: How does your family decide what information is public versus private?
You guys sent in the craziest, most unhinged, sweetest questions. And I want to get back in that energy. I have so many more. So let's get to this solo Ask Me Anything. Oh God, this is a long... I could have a whole episode based off of this question. What's your biggest pet peeve? I have to pick one? I could honestly do an hour on all of my pet peeves because there's a long, long running list.
It just, the older I get, the more things I keep adding, but I would say my biggest pet peeve is someone who does not have the basic manners and not about treating people nicely when I can see you. Like, I just want you to be a good, well-rounded person all the time. And especially to people that can't do anything for you.
Like I hate when people treat people that they think can get you through a certain door, like do something for you. They treat them kindly. No. Treat everyone as equals and kind. That is my big thing. Manners. Tips on how to be the best auntie to your siblings' children. So I love the role of an aunt. I love being a mom. I love all of that. But I was an auntie first.
And I think being an aunt is the best training wheels to being a mom. You get to dabble in everything. some parental responsibilities, because I do think it takes a village to raise a family. So being that village for one of your siblings is a really crucial key. I think you are the therapist to your sibling, but also you're that authoritative figure for your nieces and nephews as well.
But then you're also the really fun person that they get to go to and maybe tell certain secrets or feelings too that they might not want to tell their parents. I don't know. I think some of the tips is when I have my nieces and nephews, I like to do fun things. And whether that be baking or cooking,
toilet papering someone's home or spraying someone with silly string I like to have some of those tricks up my sleeve because when you're a parent you're exhausted all the time so you might not put the effort in to spraying someone down with silly string because you know number one I don't want to clean this shit up number two my kids are going to want to do this all the time and
And you're just tired at the end of the day. But when they come to your house, your nieces and nephews, they will just think you're the fun, cool aunt. So I love doing that kind of stuff because I'm a big kid at heart anyways. What do I eat in a day? I feel like I talk about this, but I don't think anyone believes me. I am not the best eater. Like I eat fine, but I just love snacks.
I'm a huge snacker. I call myself a grazer because I love to graze throughout the day. But I also don't have this profound worldly taste palette. I like the kids menu and I like a lot of fried food, pastas, that kind of stuff. And I would rather just kick my ass in the gym. It's all about balance. But I'm a big water drinker. I don't really drink anything else besides water.
Is there power in trusting the universe? There definitely is power in trusting the universe, but it's so fucking scary to do that. I think our brains are sort of wired to have this self-doubt. And with that, it's really hard just to trust the timing of your life. It's really hard to have faith in the universe. It's hard to have faith in general, but you have to. So yes, it's okay.
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Chapter 3: What tips do you have for being a great aunt?
Have I had any paranormal encounters recently? And would I be willing to go someplace you know is haunted? I feel like I'm having a paranormal experience right now. I feel like I'm always having some paranormal experience. Kylie, myself, my mom, and Scott, we were at Kylie's house because Kylie has a ghost in her house. So we were just filming with that ghost.
He didn't really want to be seen though, but that's a whole thing. At my current home in my closet, there's this, I had this coat. It's, it was that spotted coat. Like I have a rod that will stick out that you can like hang your dry cleaning out. So it's, there's nothing blocking it from moving. It's just like a, an isolated rod. I don't know.
And I had a coat hanging there and it's this heavy shearling coat. And the coat just started spinning back and forth. And I was like, and I remember saying, hello. I don't know why I say hello to everything. And obviously nothing talked back to me. That was just my initial reaction. And it just kept spinning. So I had to, I touched it and it stopped and I was like, okay.
And then I remember looking around to see if there was air. It's such a heavy coat. If the AC was on or anything, there's not a chance. I'm not in a wind tunnel that this would be happening. And I stopped it. And it stopped. It stopped for like five minutes and then it started again. And I remember I was like, okay, well, that's not good. Do we Venmo each other? Oh my gosh.
Me and my sisters do not Venmo each other, but we always take turns. Like no one, I would never like go with one of my sisters and expect them to always pay. Like we always rotate. It's just never a thing. Everyone's really respectful with each other. And then even if, okay, the perfect example at my kid's school, all my siblings, all their kids, we all go to the same school.
And on Fridays it's spirit wear and they have like a little shop and it's like spirit wear clothes and they only accept cash or whatever. And Kim, like I had to get her, like she didn't have any money. So I was like, oh, I'll get it for you. You're fine. And she's like, oh, I'll pay you back. I'll tell my business manager to give you the money. I'm like, Kim, it's fine. Like we're good.
And we're always good. And I didn't get it back. But then later, she's like, oh, let me buy this for you since you got me that stuff. Like we're always aware of someone else spending money. We don't take advantage. It's just, I think we're, dare I say, normal in that regard. Like we're respectful of each other. I'm not like, Kim has it. She's a billionaire. Like that's, no. Money is money.
What are my thoughts on aging? Aging? As soon as I can be frozen and preserved, sign me up. I mean, I don't mind my number. I do not care about aging when it comes to the digits. I can be 104. If I look like this, then I'm great. I don't care what that fucking number says. It's more aesthetically, I am very vain and I want to look a certain way. And I have no problem saying that.
Talk to us about the time around your baby shower for True. What was going on through your mind, your heart, and your thoughts? Oh, wow. So deep. My baby shower for True, I was so excited to be pregnant. It was my first time being pregnant. I wanted a baby for so long. And because I am Who I am, like I'm so controlling. I'm so particular. I like things a certain way.
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Chapter 4: How do you cope with body image issues during pregnancy?
And I think your kids would prefer you being off of your phone, down on your hands and knees, playing with them, coloring with them for 30 solid minutes, as opposed to three hours of you just being there, but not interacting with them or being on your phone texting, because that's not real time with them.
So I think the most present you can be, and if you only have 30 minutes a day, I promise you if you're present, that's all you need to do. I respect that people need to work and time is of the essence and we have so little of it, but also your kids are only little for the shortest amount of time in their lives. And then after that, they're not going to want to really hang out with you like that.
Not the same way they did at two, three, four, seven, eight years old. Eventually they're going to be teenagers and too cool. And then they get a car and You know, you don't know when you have that quality time with them. So for me, routine, structure, those things also make your kids feel safe. And they remember the routine of something.
They remember family dinner every night because of the repetition. How many big parties did you have as a kid? Like, oh, when I was four, my mom threw me this huge party. But you don't remember it. Because yes, it was this huge opulent thing and that was so nice. But you do remember, like I remember my dad doing the peak and pit with us at dinner every night.
I don't remember every peak and pit, but I remember the consistent structure of one significant thing. And that was the peak and pit. And now that's a tradition that we do together at dinnertime. So those things... those things matter in my opinion. And then of course I work and I prioritize my family, like my sisters and my mom and all that.
I'm not the best with balancing friends, but that's something I try to work on. And I also know that my kids are young and they're going to be young for a short amount of time. And anyone that's really my friend will hold on until
you know, my kids are older, but I do have, like, I'm just not going to dinner weekly with people, but like once a month I do things with my friends, birthday trips, all that stuff. I do make an effort, but I used to have dinners a few times a week with my girlfriends. I don't have time to do that these days or the energy. I do have time.
I don't necessarily have the energy and I would rather be doing bedtimes with my kids than going to a pointless dinner. But if it's an event, a birthday, something significant, I'm always there and I always show up. So I think it's just picking and choosing what makes your heart happy. And there's no right or wrong in that.
Some people, like I have a few friends, they're better parents when they have more of a social life. When they're with their kids too much, they become short-tempered,
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Chapter 5: What are your thoughts on men eating food in bed?
Sometimes your head knows things before your heart does and it takes a minute for your heart to catch up and that's okay. When you know, you know when you're fed up with something, you're going to know. And you just have to go back to faith and believe that things will get better and probably so much better when you leave that toxic stuff behind.
would love to know what motivated you to go to therapy. I think I was bullied into therapy and I did it just to get everyone to shut the fuck up because it was everywhere I turned. Someone was like, you gotta go to therapy. And I will say, I'm not opposed to therapy. I was opposed for so long because I always had really bad therapists.
And then Kim introduced me to her therapist and I actually loved her. She is great. We connected. I don't know why, but I just started telling her everything at the very beginning. Maybe because Kim was seeing her and I felt
safe with that I was like okay if you're seeing Kim I can be honest and tell you everything and yes you should be honest with your therapist but I've been burned by so many people and I've had therapists sell stories to the press before and it's been really horrible and toxic so I was so distrusting and
I think the referral was really a big benefit for me, just knowing this is a safe space and finding the right therapist. I think a therapist can ruin you or completely transform you. So you just be careful and make sure you find the right one. What advice would you give to a teenager who is insecure and wants to lose weight? It's so hard because being a teenager is honestly the worst.
The bullies, judgment. I don't know if your child is on social media or not, but that's a really tough place to be. The comparison is horrible. I didn't have social media and my teenage years were miserable because I was chubby and all people that adults did was compare me to my sister's. So it was a really tough position for me without social media.
I can't imagine a kid having social media, even no matter what their body shape is. But I know for me, my parents never focused on, when I was that young, on me losing weight. But they always had me in sports. And so I don't think I was a great athlete. I think now that I'm older, I was like, oh, they were trying to keep me active because I was a chubby kid.
And I think if you position it that way, like, obviously, I don't think the parents are thinking that. your teenager is chubby, but if she or he is having an insecurity, I think even you should rewire their brain and be like, you're beautiful. Always have those encouraging things. But if they want to get healthy, there's a way to do it. And that would be by being active.
I wouldn't really focus on food. I mean, there's things you can cut out like sugary drinks and stuff like that, but I also think food is risky and giving kids a food complex too early. I think everyone should have a healthy relationship with food and positioning anything from a health standpoint and with balance, I think is great. Would I survive a zombie apocalypse? Probably not.
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Chapter 6: Have you had any paranormal encounters recently?
And my knee, I think there's a photo of it online. My knee had literally a softball size waterbed of fluid and we had to get it drained. Don't even know how that happened. Don't know how I fell up the stairs. That was gross. Trust me, I'm sure there's so many because if anything happens, it's me. I wasn't injured, but I remember I had a car. I was parked at Dash and I guess... It didn't.
It was an older car and it was a Tahoe that was like over 15 years old and it wouldn't lock in park, which I didn't know. And it rolled off the cliff and it was dangling, teetering off the cliff by its back tire. I remember Malika was like, your car's hanging off the cliff. And I was like, you're fucking kidding me. And she's like, of course, this is you. Of course, your car would do that.
And I remember the tow company had to come and pull it. It didn't fall off the cliff, but it was fucking teetering. I don't know how it didn't. I actually do. You know, that parking like concrete triangle thing. I think the back tires were stuck on that, but it was like hanging. It was crazy. I just remembered that. Would you ever want to act in a TV show?
I get asked to act in a TV show and movie all the time. Never say never, but it's just not really what I care to put my energy into at the moment. I would like to say no, but then, you know, things backfire. So never say never.
What do you look for when making new friends?
What?
Oh my God. Oh, my God. Sorry about that. Oh my God. I have no idea. I cannot imagine making a new friend. Oh my God. Like, hi, what's your name? Like, I just cannot. Could you imagine if I'm just like making new friends? Like, cannot oh my god I'm not okay and I do not know how to make new friends I'm not okay okay it's not that funny you guys
either people won't talk to me or they're so far up my ass. So I just never know what to do. But thinking about making new friends is just silly to me. Kim is so great at making new friends. Like I wouldn't think she would be, but so many of the mom friends I know from school are through my sisters and they're the nicest people. But I'm like, how did you even...
get to the point of like discovering that they're so nice. I'm just so not trusting. And so I wait until I'm introduced through my sisters. How do you stay positive on hard days? Well, you need to allow yourself to have a hard day. You sorry for myself or just sad for no reason. I get those melancholy moments. I feel like that's normal and natural, but I don't stay in a dark place.
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