Tiny pep talks for everyday problems
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You're listening to Life Kit from NPR. Hey, it's Marielle. I want you to think about the last time you knew you had to do something or you wanted to do something, at least in theory.
Why do tiny pep talks matter for everyday hassles like a rainy walk with the dog?
But then the moment came and you just didn't have the juice. You got scared or you started to doubt yourself. You lost motivation. Friend, I believe what you needed in that moment was a pep talk.
I have to give myself a pep talk every single time I parallel park. And I live in Chicago, so I am constantly parallel parking. And every single time, without fail, I have to... talk myself down, remind myself I can do it, remind myself that I've done it before, that I'm capable, and I don't think that will ever change. I think I'll just never get used to parallel parking, and I will just have to keep being used to giving myself the pep talks.
This is Paula Skaggs. She and fellow writer Josh Linden wrote a book together called Tiny Pep Talks, and it's full of motivational speeches for life's small but still daunting moments. The moment when it's terrible outside, but your dog needs to pee. Or when you're really bad at something that you've never tried before. Or when you have a little crush. The point of a pep talk is encouragement, of course. And it's also a simple act of support.
Really just the concept of you're on their side. You're in their corner. You're their friend. You've got their back. And they can do this.
On this episode of Life Kit, how to give a good pep talk. After writing a whole bunch of them for the book, Josh and Paula have tips for us. And by the way, they say you can give pep talks to yourself, too.
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Oh, hey there. I'm Brittany Luce. And I don't know, maybe this is a little out of pocket to say, but I think you should listen to my podcast. It's called It's Been a Minute, and I love it. And I think you will too. Over the past couple months, over 100,000 new listeners started tuning in. Find out why. Listen to the It's Been a Minute podcast from NPR today. What made you want to write this book?
Josh and I met doing improv comedy here in Chicago, where we live. And over the pandemic, we, like everybody else, were like, what are we going to do with all of our now spare time? And the theaters were closed. And we ended up creating a conversation card game called No Wrong Answers. And we jokingly, quote unquote, guarantee that there are questions you've never been asked before, like which serial mascot would be the best kisser? Well, which one do you think? The number one answer we get like far and away is Tony the Tiger.
Oh, yeah.
Nine out of 10 times.
I totally forgot about him. I was going to say the Trix rabbit.
How does Paula Skaggs describe the need for a pep talk when parallel‑parking in Chicago?
Oh, that's a good one, too.
Yeah, and it's not who you're going to spend your life with. It's really just who would be the best kisser for you.
Yeah, I'm not marrying the Trix rabbit.
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Chapters
4 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:01–0:41
2
Why do tiny pep talks matter for everyday hassles like a rainy walk with the dog?
0:41–4:10
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How does Paula Skaggs describe the need for a pep talk when parallel‑parking in Chicago?
4:10–14:15
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What inspired Paula and Josh to create the Tiny Pep Talks book during the pandemic?
14:15–15:47
Speakers
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