"Staying at home isn't for everyone"
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What did the opening listener email ask about stay‑at‑home mothers?
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Oh, you can send me an email to Liveline at RTE dot IE and I read just such an email at the start of the show about stay at home mothers. If you miss that, don't worry, because this is a voice note that we got in. Take a listen.
Hi Karen, just wonder what people's opinions are regarding stay at home mothers and those particularly leaving professional careers to wear their young children. Just thinking there should be more emphasis understanding from the government side, especially for the young children regarding ages zero to three. and how beneficial it is for a parent to be at home with them in those ages. they have better brain and emotional health and when we have healthier adults in twenty or thirty years. I think things like potty training and different milestones are maybe rushed in order to please a crasher of preschool. And I think the role of parent at home with young children maybe should be emphasized more. People would see it as an inconvenient truth, maybe.
to even have this conversation, but it's very difficult to even have the conversation amongst friends because women can't When? And When you're trying to squeeze in a job plus rare children and the house. I think it's just another example of it being man's world. And I just think there's always gonna be something that has to give and usually that's the children. So I just wanna see what your listeners think.
So what do the listeners of Lifeline think? O eight seven four eight four double eight double eight Catherine Walsh is on the line. Catherine, what do you think of this issue?
Hi Kieran, listen, thanks very much for having me on. Um, well, I'm actually a mother of four and I gave up my job about f for thirteen, fourteen years ago at this stage when my eldest son was born, um, Connor, he's now come up on fourteen. So I made the decision to stay at home now, thankfully with the support of my husband. Um, and I'm really glad I spent that time here with them and you know, I really I'm sad to think that so many m you know, mothers and fathers in turn is there's a lot of really fabulous stay at home fathers out there as well. Um the feel so disheartened now. Um, you know, personally like I was involved in a s association back like ten years ago when, you know, the national childcare scheme was in its infancy.
Um and at the time we were campaigning to extend the subsidies that were then g you know directed towards crashes and registered child minders. to include parents to stay at home themselves if you know that was their choice. Actually what we wanted was the subsidy to come to the parent and then the parents to use it either on a child you know, on a registered childcare or to keep it for themselves. Now we're nearly ten years on. And I think little by little, you know, the value of the stay at home parents, you know, as it's not kinda being rewarded financially, it's become more difficult and more difficult for families. And sadly that's been reflected, you know, at the school gates when you're standing there and might be the only, you know, one of very few parents left because everybody else is kind of being forced
back in really by eco economic necessity for so many uh into the workplace. And you know, I don't know, is it making ev anybody happy really at the moment? We're all in a bit of a rat race.
Yeah, I dcause it strikes me and um sorry, there's there's a number of issues, but just the two of them, it's it's there's the cost barrier, but then beyond that as well, there's the slightly more abstract issue of um expectation. And we got a little bit of that in the voicemail. You know, the sense maybe of a bit of embarrassment or something and telling people, No, I'm packing in the job to stay at home.
How does Catherine describe her personal experience of giving up her career to stay home?
Yeah, there's a j a judgment I suppose sometimes by people. Sometimes I wonder is that coming from a place where, you know, sometimes when you make a decision with, you know, any sort of parenting it comes at you know, some people feel that's a judgment on their uh their decision.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What did the opening listener email ask about stay‑at‑home mothers?
0:00–3:30
2
How does Catherine describe her personal experience of giving up her career to stay home?
3:30–6:58
3
Why do many people feel judged when they choose to stay at home with their children?
6:58–9:10
4
What is the ‘invisible job’ of stay‑at‑home parenting and how many tasks does it involve?
9:10–12:13
5
How much unpaid work do Irish mothers perform each week compared with other countries?
12:13–14:55
6
What role does gender play in the judgment and pressure around stay‑at‑home parenting?
14:55–18:49
7
How do societal expectations and economic necessity influence the decision to work or stay home?
18:49–21:34
8
What conclusions do the hosts and callers reach about choice and support for stay‑at‑home parents?
21:34–24:23