The problem with ‘bringing your whole self to work’
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What does 'bringing your whole self to work' really mean?
Welcome to McKinsey Talks Talent, featuring McKinsey leaders and talent experts, Brian Hancock and Brooke Weddle. I'm Lucia Rahilly. Being your true self at work might sound like a liberating and even a productive idea, but author and psychologist Tomas Chamorro-Premusic warns against it.
What people want is that you bring your best self. And yeah, sure, if you can identify with your professional persona so that it doesn't feel totally alien, that's good for you. But what's rewarded at work is pro-social, competent behavior that serves others, not your ego.
Today we'll hear about his new book, Don't Be Yourself, to help us figure out just how real we should be in the workplace. Demas, welcome back to McKinsey Talks Talent.
How does authenticity impact workplace behavior?
It's great to be back. Great to see you all.
Congratulations on your book, Don't Be Yourself, such a timely and fun and insightful read. So this research challenges the prevalent mantra, as you describe it, of authenticity in the workplace, that folks should figure out who they are and bring that true self, if such a thing exists, to their professional lives and their professional relationships. What exactly does authenticity mean in this context?
Authenticity is usually celebrated or even worshiped, I would say often misunderstood and rarely defined. And it is important to start with some proper definitions.
What historical context led to the rise of workplace authenticity?
So we see our behavior as authentic if it is aligned with our values or if it's aligned with the person we think we are, so with our identity. And we see other people's behavior as authentic when it seems genuine. In fact, quite sort of obscure but beautiful and very simple definition of authenticity by Abraham Maslow, you know, the guy who gave us the pyramid of the hierarchy of needs, is that it's sort of a zero phoniness. That's his definition of authenticity. And by and large, you know, these definitions have cascaded how most people think about the implications of authenticity at work, Don't worry about what people think of you. Just be you, be a real you, bring your whole self and always be true to your values.
And what do you think catalyzed the rise of this imperative that became really part of corporate mantra, as you say, to bring your whole self to work?
So actually, the beginning of authenticity is quite well-intended and well-meaning.
What are the potential downsides of being your true self at work?
In the 1990s, William Kahn introduces the concept of employee engagement, which now everybody knows. And he defined it as the psychological degree to which you identify with your work persona. So imagine. If you think you or your professional self is an integral part of your identity, you will work hard, you will be engaged, you will love your job. And, you know, your manager won't need to be breathing behind your neck and telling you, hey, hey, hey, be productive. Then we create better workplaces. Then we are able to offer people a career that has meaning. And then the extreme, maybe an extreme distorted version of that is like, oh, you know, just be you. And, you know, your need for self-expression kind of,
can override your obligation to others.
How can adaptability in behavior enhance leadership effectiveness?
And if you don't find that you identify almost in a cult-like level with your job, you should quit because there's something wrong with what you're doing. And you can see how it starts in a good place, but then like all ideas, when you lose nuance and they become too radical, they become diluted and very incoherent or nonsensical.
When HR talks about bringing one's whole self to work, who is the intended audience? It almost seems like we're talking about it in terms of employee engagement, driving productivity, but there's a power factor to it as well, yes?
The idea is that, hey, if you're part of an outgroup, a minority, or a diverse kind of employee, manager, or leader, we shouldn't put pressure on you to conform and become like the normative group or the in-group, right? And so it was a very... I think, naive but good attempt to improve inclusion because diversity without inclusion doesn't work. If you bring people who are unrepresentative of the norm, it's not enough bringing them, you actually have to help them succeed or remove any barriers.
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Chapters
8 chapters
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What does 'bringing your whole self to work' really mean?
0:03–0:56
2
How does authenticity impact workplace behavior?
0:56–1:39
3
What historical context led to the rise of workplace authenticity?
1:39–2:43
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What are the potential downsides of being your true self at work?
2:43–3:28
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How can adaptability in behavior enhance leadership effectiveness?
3:28–5:42
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What are the four authenticity traps to avoid in the workplace?
5:42–7:06
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How does AI influence our understanding of authenticity?
7:06–8:43
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What practical advice can HR leaders take from this discussion?
8:43–24:00