Jillian Turecki: 3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You’re Making (Stop Chasing Love That’s Not For You)
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What are the three biggest dating mistakes?
Hey everyone, welcome back to On Purpose, the place you come to become a happier, healthier, and more healed. Today's guest is Jillian Turecki, a relationship coach, teacher, podcast host, and speaker with over 20 years of experience helping people transform themselves and their love lives. As the founder of the Jillian Turecki Coaching, she offers transformative workshops, retreats, and coaching that blends psychology, yoga, and somatic practices. Her teachings, influenced by diverse spiritual traditions, connect ancient wisdom with modern relationship dynamics. Jillian's first book, It Begins With You, has nine truths everyone should know. The nine hard truths about love that will change your life. And it's going to be out on January 14th. Make sure you go and grab a copy if you're trying to figure out your love life right now. Please welcome to On Purpose, Jillian Tarecki. Jillian, it's great to have you here.
Wonderful to be here. Thanks for having me.
Of course, of course. I'm so fascinated by love and relationships. And my last book was all about love and relationships. So whenever I get to sit down with a fellow coach and a fellow author to learn more and understand more, I'm a huge fan of the videos you post on social media. And I think you're doing such a great job of speaking about really, really interesting things when it comes to love. But I wanted to start off with asking you, because this is, I always try to get a sense of what our audience is worried about and concerned about and challenged with. And one of the big things that keeps coming up is, what are the three biggest mistakes I'm making in dating right now? Like, what am I getting wrong about dating? That seems to be the top question.
So there's a few things. One is it shouldn't just be the apps. I don't tell people get off the apps. Sometimes I say get on the apps. But if you just focus on that, that's going to burn you out and it's going to exhaust you and you're meeting a bunch of strangers. So that's like another mistake that people make is that they're impatient.
Why is relying solely on dating apps a mistake?
It's not every day that you meet someone who you want to build a relationship with. Like, it's just not that easy. But you have to get out there. You have to be proactive. Look, there are people who are sitting around on their couch waiting for like that person to fall onto the couch next to them. And it's not going to happen that way.
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Chapters
6 chapters
1
What are the three biggest dating mistakes?
1:55–3:58
2
Why is relying solely on dating apps a mistake?
3:58–9:10
3
How does the fear of rejection impact dating?
9:10–20:36
4
Why do we chase people who ignore us?
20:36–36:21
5
When does honesty become oversharing in relationships?
36:21–56:45
6
How can self-reflection improve your dating life?
56:45–1:19:54