2932: Using the Rupture Ratio to Decide What You Want by Keith Wilson on Relationship Metrics

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2932: Keith Wilson offers a practical tool called the “rupture ratio” to help you clarify whether you truly want to repair or release a relationship after being hurt. By rating your desire to stay or leave on a scale from zero to ten, he reveals how your daily reactions and choices quietly move you toward reconciliation or separation. His framework brings surprising clarity to emotional chaos and helps you identify exactly what promotes healing, and what pulls you further apart. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/hello-love/using-the-rupture-ratio-to-decide-what-you-want-6ac33c46238c Quotes to ponder: "Getting hurt sucks. You’ll want to move on. Before you can, you’ll need to know where to go. What is it that you want, exactly?" "Pick a number from zero to ten that expresses your interest in staying in the relationship, versus the desire to leave." "What matters more than where you are on the scale is what way you are heading and the direction you are moving." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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