2975: Why Do Women Have to Change? Why Do Men Get a Free Pass? by Evan Marc Katz on Dating Dynamics

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2975: Evan Marc Katz unpacks the common frustration that women are expected to change in relationships while men seem to escape scrutiny, revealing that advice is shaped by who actually seeks it. By reframing dating as a matter of personal standards and choices, accept or leave, he challenges listeners to focus on what they can control to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/why-do-women-have-to-change-why-do-men-get-a-free-pass Quotes to ponder: "Dating advice is for the person who asks the question. It is not for the man who is the cause of the “problem”." "You can’t change men, you can only change how you react to them." "If you’re going to be a girlfriend, you need to accept ALL of your boyfriend, warts and all, just as you’d like him to accept you." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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