Ruwando Podcast
Episodes
Why Amoebas Wiggle: The Role of the Ego and Unifying the Unconscious
28 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
What is the point of an ego?Many spiritual folks demonize the ego as this thing to 'transcended'. But the ego is one of the most important (an...
081 Lt. Col. Dave Grossman: On Combat, On Killing
13 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Lt. Col. Dave Grossman is a retired Army Ranger and the author of On Killing, On Combat, and a number of other books on the psychology of violence. Hi...
080 Dr. Steve G. Jones: Is Astral Projection a Thing?
08 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Steve Jones is a clinical hypnotherapist and has been on TV a lot. I brought him on to speak on Astral Projection: the subjective act of leaving t...
Father Wound & Secondary Father
07 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The Father Wound are insecurities that come from the shortcomings of our primary role model. Many myths show slaying a father figure (i.e. Luke Skywal...
079 Brett Jones: StrongFirst, Kettlebell Training
01 Apr 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Brett Jones is the chief instructor at StrongFirst, accomplished strongman. We speak about strength from the cellular level all the way up to the mind...
Medusa & the Son of Swords: Overcoming the Dark Feminine/Mother Complex
24 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
The Mother Complex is an early obstacle in the individuation of masculine consciousness. It affects one's ability to relate to the Feminine aspect...
Completing Psychological Adolescence
03 Mar 2020
Contributed by Lukas
How to evolve out of 'boy psychology': How individual consciousness correlates with collective, manic pixie dream girl/great mother, dark tria...
078 Matt Bowden: Adventures with Drugs and Manifestation
19 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Matt Bowden is a musician and visionary who created safe alternatives to drugs in New Zealand. He is featured in a VICE documentary on the legal drug ...
Infinite Play: Coming of Age in the Matriarchal Cult of Orgasm
14 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This is the opening chapter to my memoir on my time in the sex cult. To keep up to date with the book and to learn more, make sure you're on my em...
077 Om Rupani: Masculine Resilience
12 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Om is a D/S instructor who has been on the podcast quite a few times. I recently watched the Red Pill documentary and wanted to speak with him on the ...
Cult Psychology Principles and Tactics
11 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We speak about the Dark Arts... How cults/advertisers/propangandists shift collective reality; How to recognize and avoid unconscious negative influen...
Follow Your Passion and the Money Will Follow Is Not the Full Story
10 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This was originally a Facebook post that many people on an artistic path found useful. Enjoy. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out informatio...
Colossus vs. Wolverine: 2 Strategies on Experiencing Emotions
07 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Article from 2018. Common ideological battle in men's development. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.Advertising Inquiries...
When Kali Trampled Shiva: A Parable for Men About Difficult Women
06 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Recording of my most shared article from last year. I referenced back to it recently after listening to a bit by Jordan Peterson on how "there'...
076 Jordan Luke Collier: Subjective vs. Objective Beauty
05 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata. We philosophize on beauty as a heuristic for navigating life.Access my 5+ years of content archives for ...
Drive Your Own Bus: On"Self-Love" and Filtering Reality Properly
04 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
"Self Love" is a phrase thrown around a lot, but it means something different for men and women. This episode covers what Masculine self-love ...
The Virtue of Male Aggression
03 Feb 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Article from early 2018. This one got me kicked off The Good Men Project for being "too volatile." My archived content now available free when...
The Devils Inside Us: How Sexual Archetypes Help Individuation
30 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This is one of my denser articles, so I thought it would be good in audio format. We dig into the rape fantasy and how it reveals opportunities for he...
075 Christina Berkley: Orgasm, Money, Potatoes
29 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
“Money is like potatoes,” she said.Christina Berkley helps coaches build stunning practices and edge-walkers live stunning lives. I met her that t...
Reshaping Emotional Patterns, Trauma
27 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
One of the most frustrating things is when you intend to do one thing, but end up doing the opposite. This happens a lot in emotionally-charged situat...
074 Matt Cone: The Abundance Model
22 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Matt Cone is a philanthropist and philosopher. I met Matt on a retreat in Thailand 2 years ago. He shared something called 'The Abundance Model...
073 Iain Armstrong: Taoism and Kung Fu
15 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
Iain Armstrong is a Kung Fu master in Thailand and the lineage holder of Nam Yang Kung Fu originated in Shaolin. We speak on Taoism, the mind-body con...
Alchemy of the Psyche: Anima & Animus in Intimacy and Creative Expression
14 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
We all have a masculine and feminine aspect to our psyche. The ability to integrate theses archetypes directly our intimate relationships and creative...
Individuation vs. Collective Unconscious
07 Jan 2020
Contributed by Lukas
This episode was inspired by some synchronistic events: a coaching conversations, ponderings on my new tattoo, and an essay by Carl Jung.Video version...
Sex Transmutation, Explained
31 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Napoleon Hill's term for "channeling sexual energy" is often talked about, but rarely in a way that is practical. In this video I speak on...
On Fearing Beauty, How to Handle Involuntary Response
24 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Men often fear beauty because it puts us into an involuntary state-- one where we can't easily control our emotions or reactions. But the involunt...
Your Personal Development is a Genre of Entertainment
17 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Your Hero's Journey is the best story there is. In this episode I speak on how to invest your attention to get the most momentum in the movie that...
Hacking Synchronicity:
09 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
"Reality is a like a woman. She either moves towards you or runs away from you, depending on how you engage with it."'Synchronicity' i...
072 Leslie Selene: Witchcraft and Initiation
04 Dec 2019
Contributed by Lukas
“Sex is the poor man’s meditation.” ~ Leslie SeleneLeslie Selene is a spiritual medium, meditation teacher, and author. She was introduced to me...
071 Melanie Curtain: Dear Men, Sex Research
27 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Melanie Curtin is a writer, sex researcher, and the host of the podcast Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships.She shares some of her in...
On Dating Multiple Women, Open Relationships, and Growth as a Dude
26 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
One the most common dating goals I hear from guys is "I want to date multiple women who are all okay with it". Even if it's partially ego-...
How Emotions Affect Arousal Response: Between Couples & For Individuals
24 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of this week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Our ability to feel physical pleasure is affected by how we process emotio...
Before you try 'Jelquing'... Truth About 'Male Enhancement'
23 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of last week's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Does jelquing work? Kind of, but not in the way you may expect. Here what ...
Finding Direction, Psychogenic Sexual Dysfunctions, Penetrating Sensual Plane, Reality Dominance
18 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We got some seemingly disparate topic requests in the forum.masculineunderground.com this week: finding life direction, psychogenic premature ejaculat...
070 Summer Engman & Micah Rodrigues: Devotion in Relationship
13 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Summer is my former radio co-host, business partner, and a long time friend. Last time she was on the podcast (Ep. 050) she shared some enlightening p...
My 2nd Year in the Matriarchal Sex Cult
11 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
My second year in the matriarchal sex cult was much different that the first. (Catch Part 1: https://youtu.be/4Rni2uDd4Wc)I took some of the tactics I...
The Vulnerability Trap: How to Recognize Real Openness
07 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand vulnerability. It is not a set of specific actions o...
069 Solla Pizzuto: Taoist Sexual Secrets
06 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Solla Pizzuto teaches about healing and sexuality from both Taoist and Tantric perspectives. She coordinates the Meeting of the Masters retreat in Chi...
My First Year in a Matriarchal Sex Cult
04 Nov 2019
Contributed by Lukas
I was in a matriarchal sex cult for two years in my early 20's. The journey turned out to be one of the most meaningful experiences of my life, te...
Masculinity and Failure: How Men Should Use Hardship
31 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Most people misunderstand masculine vulnerability. Men need to be vulnerable, ...
068 Karen Lorre: Chronic Pleasure
30 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Karen Lorre teaches meditation and coaches people to healing through pleasure. She speaks with me on how to alchemize bad emotions, how materializatio...
Hacking Abundance: How Giving Actually Creates More
24 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.Abundance and Generosity are not the same thing. Abundance, despite all the va...
067 Olive Persimmon: The Coitus Chronicles
23 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Olive Persimmon is the author of The Coitus Chronicles: My Quest for Sex, Love, and Orgasms, where she documents her wild adventures in trying to get ...
Bottoming: When Feminine-style Influence Masculine Power
17 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.com.I made a bad move with some cops recently... I was being too "masculine...
066 Jacqueline Buckingham: Huge Pussy Life
16 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jacqueline Buckingham is an actress and entrepreneur, among other things. She’s the creator and star of The Box with Jacqueline on Amazon Prime (sea...
Feminine Emotional Realities, Mother Complexes
13 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Weekly Q&A in http://forum.masculineunderground.com2:49 Jordan Peterson and Camille Paglia misunderstanding Feminine Conflict5:10 Subjective vs Ob...
Dating Your Partner's Archetypes
10 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit Youtube.Ruwando.comWhen you date someone, you're also dating their archetypes.Carl Jung coined...
065 Brianda Agramonte: Super Trip Talk
09 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Brianda is the host of Super Trip Talk, a podcast on the Gotham Podcast Studio network. We talk psychedelics, mental health, dating, sexuality, and sp...
Joker movie, Incels/MGTOW, Masculine Pain, Status/Dominance
06 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Recording of Live call in the Masculine Underground FB Group [forum.masculineunderground.com]The Joker Movie shook me quite a bit. Many people don'...
How to Handle Women's Emotional Reality
03 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Audio version of today's video. To watch visit youtube.ruwando.com.'The Masculine' (testosterone-fueled characteristics) exists to handle...
064 Frank Mondeose: Spiritual Playboy
02 Oct 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Frank teaches sexual shamanism and recently retired from sensual entertainment events. He and I speak from his home in Montreal on layers of reality p...
Sexual Shame, NoFap pros & cons, Arousal Control into Self Expression
29 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Repost-- the Wrong recording was published last week. Sorry about that!FB Live from the Masculine Underground group: http;//forum.masculineunderground...
063 Guy Shahar: Tantra Speed Date
24 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Guy Shahar is the founder of the Tantra Institute of NY that teaches workshops around the world and runs Tantra Speed Date. We go way back and talk ab...
Paying for Women, Text Game, Sexual Performance Mindset, Sexual Shame
22 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
1:32 Paying for women on dates, providing, screening golddiggers, what to look for8:32 Text game, communication tempo, how to know what to text, subco...
062 Brittnee Bond: Cape Town Adventures
18 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Brittnee and I talk about man-woman stuff outside of South Africa's parliament.BrittneeBond.comRemoteCollective.com#Feminism #Gender #SouthAfrica ...
Puer Aeternus: Evolving Beyond The Infinite Child
16 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Recording of the FB live in the Masculine Underground FB Group.There was a delay on the comments so I didn't see the questions that came in... But...
061 Jordan Luke Collier: Ars Amorata
11 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Jordan is the head instructor of Ars Amorata and men’s coach. We go deep into attachment theory for men in dating, the spirituality of beauty, and s...
On Topping, Bottoming, Being Felt
08 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
The second weekly discussion in the Masculine Underground Facebook Group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/569093646766486/)(I'm a week late postin...
060 Brittnee Bond: From Cult to Community Builder
04 Sep 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Brittnee Bond is a business consultant and world traveler. She was born into a cult. Now she travels the world helps empower women in life and busines...
059 Richard Peard: Confidence Culture feat. viz: Aron
31 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Richard Peard teaches confidence. Richard did nightclub security for 10 years and has many stories of trials by fire. He has a ‘cult’ (but a good ...
058 Practical Taoism & Masculinity feat. MJ Fitzpatrick, Aron
24 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
How does surrender integrate with masculinity? MJ Fitzpatrick speaks with us taoism in practice, the dark masculine, ‘coachability’, moving beyond...
057 Multi-Orgasmic Man: Johnathan White and Will Blunderfield
17 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
A man’s authentic power is in his body. Johnathan White of (Sexual Kung Fu YouTube) and Will Blunderfield (Urban Yogi Podcast) speak about the physi...
056 Dark Archetypes and Jungian Psychology feat. Tim Jack
03 Jul 2019
Contributed by Lukas
We dig into the practical side of Jungian archetypes. Tim challenges my recent article on rape fantasies.Tim Jack is a YouTuber and host of the Seattl...
055 Ken Blackman: Penetrating Powerful Women and Stuff
19 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Ken Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples. I met him when he was the Head Instructor and “Master Stroker...
054 Om Rupani: Conscious Dominance & Male Leadership
05 Jun 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Om Rupani is a Dominance and Submission instructor. He’s been on the podcast a bunch. We speak about culturization of males (and females, sexual arc...
053 Elliott Hulse: Masculine Initiation
29 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Elliott Hulse is a strongman, creator, entrepreneur, and holder of men’s initiation. We speak about masculinity, rites of passage, metaphysics, and ...
052 Dr. Robert Glover: Nice Guy Syndrome, Archetypal Masculinity
22 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Robert Glover is the author No More Mr. Nice Guy, a book that was already culturally impactful, and is possibly now more important than ever. We c...
051 Hans Comyn: Seduction, Honor, Creation of Beauty
15 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Hans Comyn is a scholar, seducer, and full-time traveler. He went from an academic career in sociology to a path of inquiry into the art of seduction,...
050 Devotion, Bali, Night Kings feat. Summer Engman
08 May 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Summer is a photographer and all around creative cat. We used to host a radio show about dating in Brooklyn. Now we meet in various parts of the world...
048 Steve Mayeda
17 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
I saw Steve speak back in 2012 when I was first training to be a dating coach. He made an offhand remark that helped totally shift my life trajectory....
047 Cycle and Sexual Wellbeing feat. Iris Josephina
03 Apr 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk about women’s bodies. Iris Josephina (@cycleseeds) and I speak about the natural cycles, in bleeding, in birth, in society. Don’t thi...
046 Sex and Happiness feat. Laurie Handlers
27 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Laurie Handlers is a teacher of tantra, life, and of course, sex and happiness. We speak about her awesome life, including how she met Wilt Chamberlai...
045 Senergetic BDSM feat. Lord Vesper
20 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
I met Cazembe Abena (@lordvesper) at his workshop in Phoenix, AZ. We speak on the transformational aspects of BDSM; archetypal psychology, West Africa...
044 The Male Hero’s Journey feat. Joe Ducard
13 Mar 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Do guys just want to get laid? From the outside it’s easy to judge men who want to learn “how to seduce women.” But few non-men recognize that a...
041 Status Signal and Terror Sweat feat. Joseph Teskey
30 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Psychotherapist Joseph Teskey and I speak about how perceived status affects physical expression. We speak about the reality of status and some of goi...
040 Mind Control feat. Joseph Crown
23 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Joseph Crown is a hypnotist and mind control expert from TaoOfTheCrown.com. We speak about erotic hypnosis, hypnosis in healing, and some techniques t...
039 Pain and the Hero's Journey feat. Tim Jack
16 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Tim Jack and I dig into our personal lives dating lives. He also gets me to share some scary things about my childhood. See acast.com/privacy for priv...
038 Zan Perrion: The Art of Beauty
09 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Zan Perrion is legend in the world of dating advice. I first read about him in The Game when I was a wee lad. We speak about his philosophy on transce...
037 Marc Carlin: Hypnotic State
02 Jan 2019
Contributed by Lukas
Marc Carlin is a hypnotherapist from New York. We speak about the subconscious, building confidence, and hypnosis in persuasion. Get his free guide to...
035 Attraction Training: the "Darker" parts of the female psyche
19 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Om Rupani is a Domination and Submission teacher and the author of Prerequisites to Ecstasy. We talk about his take on "Attraction Training" f...
034 David Lion: The Two Hero's Journeys
06 Dec 2018
Contributed by Lukas
David Lion is the founder of the Evolving Men Summit, a series of discussions on masculinity. You can access them all here: goo.gl/CevsTq. We speak ab...
032 Dr. Charles Ryan: The Virility Paradox, the Influence of Testosterone on Bodies and Minds
27 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Charles Ryan is an oncologist and the author of one of my favorite books of the year, The Virility Paradox. We ground from abstract principles aro...
031 Q&A Feat. Tim Jack
26 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Tim Jack has questions for Ruwando about dating, developing confidence, and self-help being a genre of entertainment. We also cover the problems with ...
030 Consensual Dominance & Masculinity Feat. Om Rupani
12 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Om Rupani and I talked about consensual dominance, especially as it pertains to masculinity. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information...
029 Joseph Teskey: Attachment Theory
09 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Are you more ANXIOUS or AVOIDANT? How do you see Attachment Theory show up in how you relate?Attachment Theory is probably the most useful model for u...
028 A General Theory of Love, book discussion
09 Nov 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Tim Jack and I discuss the limbic system, how your personality and thoughts regulate to other people, parental upbringing on your psychological profil...
027 How to be a Life Coach feat. Tim Jack
26 Oct 2018
Contributed by Lukas
One of my clients interviews me about being a coach. It wasn't meant to be a podcast but it got me so inspired I had to publish. See acast.com/pri...
026 Om Rupani: X Magic
14 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Sex magic! What is it? We're about to find out! This is a fun conversation I have with my friend Om Rupani See acast.com/privacy for privacy and o...
025 Anders Wallace: Masculine Subcultures
06 Aug 2018
Contributed by Lukas
Anders Wallace is a sociologist studying the subculture of men looking to development themselves through relating to women. He did a multi-year study ...
-12 Harrison Schultz: An Activist's Life
27 Dec 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Harrison Schultz is an activist and PhD candidate. He was also a key player in Occupy Wall Street. We speak about his take on society and the monetary...
024 Rachael Maddox: Sex After Trauma
30 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Rachael Maddox is a Trauma Resolution Educator and Author of Secret Bad Girl and the upcoming Sex After Trauma.We speak about overcoming trauma, traum...
023 Layne Cornell: Bipolar and Alive
30 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Layne Cornell is the founder of Bipolar and Alive. We talk about the cross of mental health and spirituality. I sought him out because I've been g...
021 Gavin Robert McGowen: Dry Fasting & Interstellar Blends
13 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Gavin Robert McGowen is the founder of Interstellar Blend and an expert on dry fasting. I've been on his 22/2 fasting protocol for a month. Use co...
022 Gavin Robert McGowen: Shadowbanning
13 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Gavin Robert McGowen is the founder of Interstellar Blend, herbal blends for vitality. This is part 2 of 2. We talk about Shadowbanning, how social ...
-10 Neal Goldsmith: Psychedelic Healing
06 Nov 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Neal Goldsmith is a psychotherapist and the author of Psychedelic Healing. We speak on microdosing, sexuality, and other fun things. This is a throwba...
020 Chris Bale: Masculine Intent
30 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Chris Bale is the founder of Masculine Intent. We speak about masculinity (obviously.) After this conversation I felt a shift in my view of myself. Se...
018 Carlotta Mastrojanni: Modern Medicine Woman
16 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Carlotta Mastrojanni is a filmmaker and shamanic midwife. She speaks about her work with women on "womb-healing," birthing practices, and how ...
017 Summer Engman: Taking the Leap
09 Oct 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Summer is a filmmaker, coach, and writer, one of the top columnists on Elephant Journal. She's been traveling the world nonstop since 2015. See ac...
-09 Michael Ellsberg: Creative Madness, Manic Depression
25 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Michael Ellsberg is the bestselling author of The Education of Millionaires. We had this conversation after he wrote a piece about his bipolar 2 after...
014 Nikki Armytage-Foy: Electric Woman
18 Sep 2017
Contributed by Lukas
Nikki Armytage-Foy is the founder of Electric Woman, a company focused on women's growth. Nikki and I speak about the challenges for femininity in...