Sex With Emily

How to Turn Sexual Fantasies into Reality

10 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Eager to transform your hottest sexual fantasy into reality? Then today’s throwback Ask Emily show is for you! I'll be taking calls about fantasies ...

Masturbate (All May) with Emily

07 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s my favorite month of the year: Masturbation May! On today’s throwback show, I’m honoring the month of self-love and giving you a brief hist...

Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 2

03 May 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today, I continue my conversation with my friend, YouTube personality, public speaker, and author Matthew Hussey. We chat about his latest book, Love ...

Best Of: Sex & The Senses

30 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to sex, a lot of us find ourselves getting in our head about the way it “should” go down. “I should look a certain way.” “They...

Find Your Person & Lead Your Love Life w/ Matthew Hussey Pt. 1

26 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Listen in on my conversation with my friend Matthew Hussey. You may know him as the inspirational YouTube personality, author, and public speaker who ...

Sex And Emily Pt. 2

23 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today, I continue my candid convo with my friend Falguni, answering all your hottest and most personal sex questions. From my experiences in threesome...

Best Of: Climax with Cannabis

19 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Happy 4/20! While direct research is still in development, there's no denying the potential benefits of cannabis for enhancing your sexual experiences...

Sex And Emily Pt. 1

16 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Buckle up: Today’s show is one you’ve all been waiting for…and spoiler alert, it’s all about me! I sat down with my good friend Falguni to fli...

Why Gut Health is Sexy w/ Tina Anderson

12 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s gut-busting episode I dive deep into the tango between your belly's bacteria and your sexual wellness. And who better to guide us through...

Communicate Your Sexual Needs

09 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s 2024, and there’s no denying that everybody has sexual needs. However, it can be really difficult to articulate them and share them with your...

Pleasure Mapping & Full-Body Orgasms w/ Dolly Josette

05 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today I revisit my conversation with Dolly Josette, the PleasureMuse who turned the world of breathwork into the ultimate erotic adventure! Imagine un...

Best Of: Love, Lust & Lexapro

02 Apr 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Mental health and sexual desire – do you have to choose between one or the other? It's a conundrum that's more common than you think, and it's a top...

Best Of: Secrets to Happier Sex w/ Dr. Amen

29 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It's commonly said that the brain is the most significant sexual organ in the human body. But is it possible to manipulate our brains to enhance happi...

How to Send Your Best Sext

26 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Sexting: it’s basically the foreplay of the 21st century - a steamy, sultry way to turn up the heat without even being in the same room. But let's b...

Creating The Love You Desire w/ Mark Groves

22 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Looking to connect with your partner on a whole new level? Lucky for you, today’s episode with human connection specialist Mark Groves will give you...

Best Of: Where Did My Orgasm Go?

19 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

WARNING, WARNING: Your climax has exited the premises. Ever wondered why achieving orgasm can feel effortless with one partner but challenging with an...

How to Have Honeymoon Sex Forever

15 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Weddings: They're like a beautiful blend of tradition and flowers, but let's be real – Is married sex worth all the hype? Let's face it, folks. Marr...

Magic Life Hacks & Micro Intimacy w/ Liz Moody

12 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today I’m joined by Liz Moody, the best-selling author and podcast host who shares insightful tips to help transform your life in all different aspe...

AITA For Being Pushy About My Fantasies?

08 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Listen up, assholes! Relationships and sex dynamics can be pleasure-filled and intimate, and also complicated and messy. Today, Producer Erica and I a...

Underestimated: The Wisdom of Teenage Girls w/ Chelsey Goodan

05 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today, I had a candid conversation with Chelsey Goodan, also known as the Teenage Girl Whisperer, about empowering teenage girls in today's society. C...

Best Of: Sex Up Your Love Language

01 Mar 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered if there's a way to spice things up in the bedroom AND reignite the spark between you and your partner? Well, today I'm about to help yo...

How to Raise Good Humans w/ Dr. Aliza Pressman

27 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today I teamed up with the brilliant developmental psychologist and host of the Raising Good Humans podcast, Dr. Aliza Pressman, for a rollercoaster r...

Best Of: You're Kinkier Than You Think

23 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When you think of BDSM and kink, I’m sure leather and whips come to mind. But what if I told you that there’s much more to kink than that? Today, ...

Manifest Your Best Sex Life w/ Gabby Bernstein

20 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

In today's episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with #1 NYT Bestselling author Gabby Bernstein. As a spiritual leader and motivational speaker, Gab...

Hotline Calls: Squirting, Toys & Threesomes

16 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

We all want to grow and become better versions of ourselves. And no where is that more true than our sex lives. That’s the mission of today’s call...

Seduce Yourself: Solo Sex Tips

13 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the season of love - self love! That’s right, this Valentine’s Day, I’ve got all of you singles covered. In today’s Best Of episode, yo...

AITA for Watching Porn While in a Relationship?

09 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered: Am I the asshole for watching porn without my partner knowing? Am I the asshole for feeling a little misled about our sex life before w...

Orgasms, Explained.

06 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Orgasms are one of the most pleasure-filled parts of sex. But what’s actually happening in your body when you have one? Today, I’m breaking down t...

How to Bounce Back from a Sex Slump w/ Dr. Emily Nagoski

02 Feb 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I’m bringing you all into a LIVE conversation I had with renowned sex educator and researcher, Dr. Emily Nagoski, during a recent event in New York!...

The Do’s and Don’ts of Valentine’s Day

30 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m here to make sure it’s your best one yet. First, I get into some common Valentine’s Day myths and things...

Hotline Calls: I Can’t Stop Thinking About My Ex

26 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s Best Of episode, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex With Emily Hotline. We get into: how to handle it when your partner ...

Best Of: Stop Blocking Your Sex Life

23 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from...

Hotline Calls: I Can’t Trust My Partner

19 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

To feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. So today, I’m taking some of my favorite Hotline calls on trust and how to repair it. What happens if...

Hotline Calls: Is My Kink Normal?

16 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I’m answering my listeners’ most personal sex and relationship questions LIVE today. Can you only orgasm with straight legs? I’ve got positions ...

AITA for Wanting Less Sex?

12 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Sometimes, in our sex lives and relationships, it can be easy to wonder: Am I the Asshole? Don’t worry, because in today’s episode, Producer Erica...

Hotline Calls: I’m Kinky, But My Partner Isn’t

09 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Today I am bringing back LIVE Hotline Calls! Not only that, holistic psychologist, author, and my newest friend, Dr. Scott Lyons, joins me back on the...

F These Dating Myths w/ Damona Hoffman

05 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

Burnt out from dating? Do you feel like you’ll never meet “the one?” In today’s episode, celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman dispels common ...

Best Of: More Foreplay, More Orgasms

02 Jan 2024

Contributed by Lukas

I dive into the psychology of foreplay and how to get aroused with specific (and quite sexy) pre-game tips. I also talk about what to do if foreplay a...

Your Top Sex Questions of 2023

29 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I’m answering your top asked sex questions of 2023 and taking a trip through the hottest moments of the year. It’s the last episode of 2023, and t...

Have Better Sex in 2024

26 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I’m always encouraging you all to set goals for yourself in your sex life and relationships, and there’s arguably no better time than in the New Y...

Hotline Calls: I Fantasize About My Partner with Other People

22 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Is it okay to get turned on thinking about my partner with someone else? How can we maintain intimacy amid financial stress? Is it possible to be a fe...

Best & Worst Sex Advice of 2023

19 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Some sex and relationship advice is better than others. Today, Producer Erica and I review some of the most trending sex and relationship advice from ...

The Top 3 Sex Positions & How to Make Them Better

15 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Today, we’re diving into a topic I know you all love: sex positions! Today, I’m answering your juiciest positions questions before breaking down...

Hotline Calls: I’m Tired of “Vanilla” Sex

12 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s Hotline show, I take your calls about having sex talks like: How to relax into oral sex and give your partner tips to make you scream. Or...

How to Spice Up Your Masturbation Routine

08 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Solo sex is an integral part of being sexually healthy. But how do you spice up your masturbation routine? And how do you get rid of shame surrounding...

Hotline Calls: Why Masturbate When I Can Have Sex?

05 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever felt like orgasming with a partner is like solving a Rubik's cube blindfolded? Well, you're not alone. Today, Producer Erica and I dive headfirst...

AITA for Wanting Sex More than My Partner?

01 Dec 2023

Contributed by Lukas

From cheating to sexless marriages, we’re back with another juicy Am I the Asshole? episode. Today, Producer Erica and I let you know if you’re be...

Best Of: Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed

28 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s Best Of episode, I’m talking all about fantasies. Specifically, the ones you, the Sex With Emily community, shared with me! From threes...

How to Give the Gift of Pleasure

24 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Holiday season is near, and the Sex With Emily 2023 Holiday Gift Guide is here! We’re all about giving and receiving here, particularly when it come...

Sex Over the Holidays: From Hooking Up to Breaking Up

21 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

‘Tis the season… for more sex! Today, Producer Erica and I dive into the reasons why people have more or less sex over the holidays, how to mainta...

Hotline Calls: How to Not F*ck Up Your Threesome

17 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Hotline is ringing, and we’re answering! Producer Erica and I answer all your juicy questions, from discomfort around a partner’s sexual histo...

Reverse Kegels & Painless Sex w/ Lauren Roxburgh

14 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

One of the most important pillars of sexual intelligence is embodiment. Today’s guest knows a thing or two about connecting with your body for a bet...

Best Of: 3 Hacks to Boost Your Sexual Confidence

10 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Confidence is something we all struggle with at times, particularly in our sex lives and relationships. From feeling insecure about our bodies, to not...

How to Have Shameless Sex w/ Amy Baldwin & April Lampert

07 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I get asked all the time: what makes great sex? Well, today’s guests would argue that the best sex is shameless sex. Amy Baldwin and April Lampert, ...

Am I The Asshole? My Partner Doesn’t Like Oral Sex

03 Nov 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approa...

Hack Your Dating Life w/ U Up?

31 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Does dating ever feel like a second job? You’re not alone. Today, Jordana Abraham and Jared Freid of the popular U Up? podcast share tips to hack ...

Toxic Relationships & Drama Addicts w/ Dr. Scott Lyons

27 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

([TW // mentions su*c*de] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through 47:00-48:00.) Do you (or your partner) start figh...

Best Of: Why Do People Cheat?

24 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’...

Best Of: I’m In a Relationship. Why Masturbate?

20 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’re talking solo sex in the context of a relationship. In this Best Of episode, I’m addressing some of the most common questions I get on the su...

Hotline Calls: Fake Orgasms & Anal Sex

17 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

If you’ve ever faked an orgasm, this episode’s for you. On today’s Hotline Calls show, Producer Erica and I answer your sex questions, starting ...

How to Make Missionary Kinky

13 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Missionary is a tried-and-true classic. It’s the position many of us think about when we think about sex… which is also why it gets a bad rap. Hat...

Hotline Calls: Chastity Play & Anal Rimming

10 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all experience sexual highs and lows, but what do you do if your “low” is a literal low libido? And your “high” might result in a penis inj...

Queefing, Lost Erections & Other Awkward Sex Probs

06 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Awkward sex: it happens! People lose their erections. Oral sex gets ouchy. Orgasms are MIA. Don’t panic -- you’re in the judgment-free zone! I’m...

Hotline Calls: I Saw My Partner’s Porn History

03 Oct 2023

Contributed by Lukas

You’re in my Hotlines today, and Producer Erica and I are taking your calls! Today’s theme: conversations you need to have with your sex partners....

Am I The Asshole? I’m a Pillow Princess

29 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We’re back for another AITA episode! This time it’s all about sexual mismatches. First: they’ve got a 12-year age difference, and she suspects h...

Uplevel Your Orgasm w/ Susan Bratton

26 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Orgasms are learned skills. So says bestselling author and sex expert Susan Bratton, who teaches couples and individuals to have more collaborative, o...

Best Of: Orgasms & Oral (No Penetration Required)

22 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

So many of us follow a sex script that’s been handed to us. But is that script actually serving you? In this popular Best Of episode, I give you per...

How Often Should You Have Sex? & Other News

19 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered how often happy couples have sex? Or the little-known key to sexual satisfaction? In today’s Sex In The News episode, I reveal new res...

Hotline Calls: Cuckolding & Kinky Sex

15 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What are your sexual fantasies? No matter how unique (or not) your fantasies are, they teach us something about our needs. On today’s Hotline Calls ...

Am I The Asshole? I Wanted More Sex, So I Ended It

12 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to "Am I The Asshole?" for sex and relationships! New to Sex With Emily, we weigh in on your AITA questions. First up: their marriage is on th...

Hotline Calls: Are We Sexually Compatible?

08 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Are you and your partner sexually compatible? That’s the theme of today’s Hotline Calls show, as my Producer and I break down these couples' sex a...

Why Do Couples Stop Having Sex? w/ Esther Perel

05 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating contemporary thinkers on sex and relationships. A psychotherapist and two-time bestselling author, she’s...

How to Use Toys During Sex

01 Sep 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Sex toys have exploded in popularity in the past few years, but there’s one situation where they still tend to be forgotten: sex itself. Using a toy...

Stop Having Sex In the F*cking Dark w/ Tara Schuster

29 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

“Low self-worth makes authentic sex impossible.” So says bestselling author Tara Schuster, who broke out with her runaway bestseller Buy Yourself ...

Hotline Calls: My Partner’s Into Bad Boys & I’m the “Nice Guy”

25 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

The Sex With Emily Hotline is open! On this episode, I’m joined by my Producer, Erica, as we talk about disappearing erections, prostate massages, a...

Fingering & Handjobs: The Art of Hand Play

22 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Two of your most powerful sex accessories? Your hands. Hands set the tone of your sexual energy. For example, caressing their cheek while you make out...

Hotline Calls: Rough Sex & Rim Jobs

18 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s Hotline Calls time! And we’ve got one common theme: trust - the foundation of hot sex. Because when you trust yourself and the person you’r...

Performance Anxiety & Performative Sex

15 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes w...

Best Of: Secret Orgasm Hacks

11 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

This is how an orgasm works. It’s a symphony of mind, nervous system, blood flow and muscle spasms, all syncing up to give you oh-so-wonderful sensa...

Hotline Calls: How Do I Initiate Sex After a Dry Spell?

08 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Initiating sex, dry spells, and mismatched libidos: the Hotline Calls are open, and your sex questions are answered! Today’s sexual concerns are esp...

Best Of: Are You Benefitting from Your Friends With Benefits?

04 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

([TW: SA] If you would like to skip this portion of the episode, please skip through: 21:25-22:00) Let’s talk friends with benefits. Somewhere betwe...

Sex + Life in Your 50s w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin

01 Aug 2023

Contributed by Lukas

It’s time to debunk the toxic myths around sex and age. Does sexual satisfaction drop off as you get older? Absolutely not! In fact, the data tells ...

Hotline Calls: My Partner Doesn’t Orgasm

28 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When you’re not turned on by your partner, should you open the relationship? What does it mean when they don’t finish during sex? In today’s Hot...

New Ways to Play: Pain, Temperature & More

25 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Bored in bed? It happens. Sexual boredom doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with your relationship – but it is a cue that you’re ...

Best Of: How Sleep Affects Your Sex Drive w/ Dr. Michael Breus

21 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Your sleep affects your sex drive: we know this. The bottom line: if you know the right sleep hacks, you can have much better sex. In this fascinating...

Butt First, Try Solo Anal

18 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk solo anal. You may be looking around right now, wondering why anal play is so trendy, and thinking to yourself: “is this actually for m...

Best Of: Solo Sex Secrets

14 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Solo sex (aka masturbation) is legitimate self-care. Better sleep, less stress, glowing skin, heightened immunity – and let’s not forget orgasms (...

Eat Your Way to Better Sex w/ Dr. Will Cole

11 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How do your meals affect your sex drive? Are your hormones interfering with your pleasure? And real talk…does alcohol make it harder for you to orga...

Best Of: What Turns You On?

07 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to turn ons, we’ve all got our preferences. Maybe you love a deep, sexy voice. Maybe a wicked sense of humor. But there are five sexu...

Porn: Can You Learn From It?

04 Jul 2023

Contributed by Lukas

([TW // mentions SA, r*pe] If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 21:30-22:25, 51:30-52:05.) Porn gets a bad ra...

The Art of FaceTime Sex

30 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the w...

Do You Have a Praise Kink?

27 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelieva...

Best Of: How to Build Sexual Tension

23 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk teasing. Do you know how to build sexual tension? Maybe you’re dating and want to be a cute flirt. Or maybe you’re in a long term rel...

Sexy Stories: Pegging & Partnered Orgasms

20 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

I’m introducing a new series today that you literally helped me create: Sexy Stories! You share your juiciest, most personal success stories with me...

Feeling Kinky? Try These Positions

16 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart...

Answering Your Questions, Loveline-Style w/ Dr. Drew

13 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Remember Loveline? The call-in show hosted by Dr. Drew to get your love and dating questions answered? Well, it holds a special place in my heart beca...

Up Your 69 Game (& Other Oral Sex Tips)

09 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’...

Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All

06 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

How did you discover who you were as a sexual being? Are you still figuring it out? Your desires, your sexual turn-ons, your overall attitude towards ...

Best Of: How to Squirt & Find Your G-Spot w/ Deborah Sundahl

02 Jun 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Good news: every vulva owner can learn how to squirt. But it does take practice, and on today’s Best Of show, I’ve got sex educator, author, and f...

Non-Penetrative Orgasms w/ Violet Benson

30 May 2023

Contributed by Lukas

Violet Benson started her now-famous Instagram account @DaddyIssues_ while working through issues of her own. On today’s podcast, she opens up about...