Sex With Emily
Episodes
Eat Your Way to Better Sex w/ Dr. Will Cole
11 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How do your meals affect your sex drive? Are your hormones interfering with your pleasure? And real talk…does alcohol make it harder for you to orga...
Best Of: What Turns You On?
07 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to turn ons, we’ve all got our preferences. Maybe you love a deep, sexy voice. Maybe a wicked sense of humor. But there are five sexu...
Porn: Can You Learn From It?
04 Jul 2023
Contributed by Lukas
([TW // mentions SA, r*pe] If you would like to skip these portions of the episode, please skip through: 21:30-22:25, 51:30-52:05.) Porn gets a bad ra...
The Art of FaceTime Sex
30 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever used FaceTime for sex? Maybe you’re traveling and want to stay connected to your partner. Maybe you’re dating and want to test the w...
Do You Have a Praise Kink?
27 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What feeling are you chasing in bed? No, I’m not talking about orgasm. I’m talking about an emotion, like feeling worshiped, praised, or unbelieva...
Best Of: How to Build Sexual Tension
23 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk teasing. Do you know how to build sexual tension? Maybe you’re dating and want to be a cute flirt. Or maybe you’re in a long term rel...
Sexy Stories: Pegging & Partnered Orgasms
20 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I’m introducing a new series today that you literally helped me create: Sexy Stories! You share your juiciest, most personal success stories with me...
Feeling Kinky? Try These Positions
16 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How do you take a classic sex position and make it kinky? On today’s show, I’m telling you exactly how. Inspired by the positions chapter in Smart...
Answering Your Questions, Loveline-Style w/ Dr. Drew
13 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Remember Loveline? The call-in show hosted by Dr. Drew to get your love and dating questions answered? Well, it holds a special place in my heart beca...
Up Your 69 Game (& Other Oral Sex Tips)
09 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s 69! It’s one of those sex acts where you tend to be a full-on lover or hater. But no matter what camp you fall in, chances are that if you’...
Dating Younger Men, Canceling Threesomes: Emily Tells All
06 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How did you discover who you were as a sexual being? Are you still figuring it out? Your desires, your sexual turn-ons, your overall attitude towards ...
Best Of: How to Squirt & Find Your G-Spot w/ Deborah Sundahl
02 Jun 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Good news: every vulva owner can learn how to squirt. But it does take practice, and on today’s Best Of show, I’ve got sex educator, author, and f...
Non-Penetrative Orgasms w/ Violet Benson
30 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Violet Benson started her now-famous Instagram account @DaddyIssues_ while working through issues of her own. On today’s podcast, she opens up about...
Squirting Setbacks, Threesome Hangups & Other Sex Anxieties
26 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We all have fears around sex, whether we’re aware of them or not. Maybe you’re worried someone’s not going to like your body, or that if you and...
Slut-Shaming & Self-Blaming w/ Elise Loehnen
23 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Author Elise Loehnen has thought a lot about women and desire. In her new book On Our Best Behavior: The Seven Deadly Sins and the Price Women Pay to ...
Love Bombing, Breadcrumbing & Modern Dating
19 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It can be difficult to meet new people and cultivate relationships, especially when looking for romantic partners. But don’t let that hold you back ...
Bondage, Threesomes & Golden Showers
16 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
All sexual fantasies have one thing in common: they trigger an arousal response inside our bodies, laced with erotic flavor. But how do you actualize ...
Best Of: Sex Positions Made Easy
12 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
You shouldn't have to be an Olympic gymnast to have sex. But let’s be honest – certain positions can be hard! So inspired by the Positions chapter...
Resentment, Gratitude & Sexual Intimacy
09 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When resentment builds up in a relationship, it compromises our sexual connection. We feel taken for granted, unappreciated, and unseen. Most of all, ...
Easy Ways to Spice Up Your Sex Life
05 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We all need to mix it up sometimes. Has your masturbation routine gone stale? Is sex with your partner too predictable? With creativity and a little t...
Bisexuality & Polyamory w/ Boyslut Zachary Zane
02 May 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever wondered if there’s more to your sexuality than you ever realized? Or relationship models that challenge everything you’re used to? Men’s ...
Let’s Talk About Sex (w/ My Mom)
28 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Yes, it’s true: I’m talking with my own mother today about sex. A ton of you have asked me how I got into the sex education business in the first ...
How to Initiate (If You Never Do)
25 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There’s often someone who initiates the sex, and someone who says “yes” or “no.” These roles can work long-term, but what happens when sexua...
6 Roadblocks to Sex & How to Clear Them
21 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s holding you back from having good sex? Is it self-confidence? A problem with your partner? Are you under so much stress that it’s impossibl...
High Pleasure: Cannabis + Sex
20 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s a new day in the world of cannabis and sex. So many of you have asked me for this show! While wide scale research is still thin, there are many...
Want Better Sex? Stop Believing This Myth
18 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s a common stereotype you’ve heard about sex? Maybe it’s that “guys just want one thing” or that “once you have kids, say goodbye to ...
Life Is Short: Get a Sex Toy
14 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
There’s a lot to be said for sex toys. For one, they stimulate nerve endings much deeper than hands alone can reach – and that’s true no matter ...
My #1 Tool to Spice Up Your Sex Life
11 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever used a “Yes, No, Maybe” List for sex? It’s a menu of sex acts that prioritizes consent and communication among sexual partners. It...
Bottoms Up: Anal Sex For All
07 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When you think about anal sex, what comes to mind? Does it make you feel turned on? Nervous? Like something you want to try or do more of, but you’r...
Best Of: Oral Sex Master Class
04 Apr 2023
Contributed by Lukas
How do you give incredible, life-affirming oral sex to a vulva owner? While every body is different, I’m here to tell you that these are the techniq...
The Key to Sexual Confidence
31 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What does it mean to be sexually confident? In my opinion, it comes from a sense of security in who you are, what you bring to the table, and knowing ...
Masturbation Parties & Solo Sex
28 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
In my opinion, masturbation is one of the healthiest self-care practices out there. But so many of you tell me how ashamed you feel about masturbating...
How Do I Tell My Partner…?
24 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Sex is inherently vulnerable, which is partly why it’s so hot. But how do you take the extremely vulnerable – even awkward – step of telling a p...
Sex Party 101
21 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been to a sex party? Are you curious about what goes down in one, and if it’s something you’d like to explore? Are they held in dung...
The Vagina Episode
17 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
The vagina is a beautiful place. But from orgasms to vaginismus, do you know your way around a vagina and how to properly care for it? Whether you wan...
Best Of: Best Blowjob Ever
14 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Want to give 10/10 pleasure to a penis? Whether you’re giving or receiving oral sex to a penis, this episode is for you. From where to start as an a...
Squirting, Spandex & Kinks
10 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever been into something so strongly, you couldn’t stop fantasizing about it? Maybe it’s getting spanked or tied up, to name a couple com...
Porn & Your Sex Life
07 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk about porn, people. In my opinion, porn isn’t inherently good or bad – it’s your relationship to it that matters. Sexy media can be...
Are We All A Little Non-Monogamous?
03 Mar 2023
Contributed by Lukas
I’m getting more questions than ever about non-monogamous relationships, but is it right for you? Today I’m taking your calls about what it takes ...
Moregasms For All
28 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
While I believe orgasms are not the end goal of sex, who can blame themselves for wanting one? Whether you’re having partnered or solo sex, orgasms ...
Unblock Your Sex Life
24 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
What’s holding you back from your best sex? Are you worried you’ll be judged? Is emotional trauma rearing its ugly head? Or maybe you just want to...
Secret Pleasure Points
21 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Exploration is sexy. You don’t have to know everything about sex to be hot in bed, but if you’re curious? That’ll blow their mind. So let’s lo...
Why Don’t I Ever Want Sex?
14 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Here’s the truth about getting turned on. It’s a thousand times easier to feel sexual with others, if you’re already in the habit of getting sex...
Make Every Day Valentine’s Day
10 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
It’s almost Valentine’s Day, but listen. Whether you’re a romantic or a cynic, there’s one thing we can all benefit from on this holiday. No, ...
Best Of: Just a Little Kinky
07 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Do you dress for the occasion? And by “occasion,” I mean sex. Because wearing things that make you feel hot can make a huge difference. That’s w...
Sex Life Hacks You Won’t Regret
03 Feb 2023
Contributed by Lukas
A stale sex life can cost us much more than our orgasms. When we stop physically connecting with our partners, we grow resentful, distrustful and unin...
Oral Sex Essentials
31 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Why are there so many hang ups around oral sex? For starters, many of us don’t know how to give it, or receive it. So how do we bring amazing, orgas...
I High-Key Fantasize About…
27 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever stumbled across a surprise fantasy? Something you didn’t realize turned you on…but here you are. It’s super hot, and now, you can’t stop ...
Mental Health = Sexual Wealth
24 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
We all have personal demons. Whether it’s anxiety in your relationship, dissatisfaction in your sex life, or something hurtful from the past that’...
Penis Problems? Not Anymore
20 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Real talk: penis problems are more common than you think. But don’t let shame stop you from healing - both inside and out. Today, we’re normalizin...
Porn, Orgasms & A Kink On the Rise
17 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Consuming your own ejaculate: a kink on the rise. Whether it comes from porn or curiosity, a ton of you have asked me about it in the last few years. ...
Unlock Your Hidden Orgasms
13 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Just how many pathways are there to your best orgasm? It’s more than you realize. Today’s episode is all about creative ways to climax, so you can...
How Sexually Compatible Are You?
10 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Ever feel like your relationship is on cruise control? Do you continue to have the same conflicts, stale sex routine, or toxic dynamics and want to br...
More Orgasms & Spicier Sex in 2023
06 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Your sexual needs are key to your sexual satisfaction and overall wellness. And when you’ve got a need that just can’t be met, I’m here for you....
Find Your Sexual Voice w/ Lake Bell
03 Jan 2023
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to your sexual style, have you ever thought about your voice? Do you moan? Slow things down? Pitch up or down an octave? Actor, writer ...
The Hottest Episodes of 2022
30 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As the year comes to an end, what are the biggest revelations you’ve had when it comes to pleasure? What is something new you’ve learned that has ...
Hotline Calls: The Do’s and Don'ts of Non-Monogamy
27 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Are you considering opening up your relationship? When and how did you decide to do so? And did moving away from monogamy change your perspective on s...
Better Dates, Better Sex
23 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Variety is the spice of life – as well as vital to your sex life. But how many times have you turned to your partner on Friday night and said: “ho...
What Makes Oral Sex Hot w/ Alex Cooper
20 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Alex Cooper, host and creator of “Call Her Daddy” knows a thing or two about the pursuit of a more fulfilling sex life. From transcendental oral ...
Mismatched Sex Drives: Here’s the Fix
16 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Mismatched sex drives: it’s one of the most common issues longterm relationships face. Frequently one partner has an insatiable appetite for sex, wh...
Like Your Body, Love Your Sex Life
13 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We’ve all heard of “body positivity” - the idea that we should celebrate the skin we’re in, rather than emphasize how we think others see us. ...
Your 2023 Sex Goals (& the Toys to Get There)
09 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
As we wind down the year, what are your pleasure goals? Do you want to explore your body? Incorporate a new pleasure ritual? Try out a new toy? Today ...
Masculinity, Masturbation & Marriage w/ Larry Hagner
06 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the question married men often ask themselves: why is my marriage just OK? How do I get the spark back? And when did our sex life become so med...
Dating Smarter w/ Dr. Helen Fisher & Dr. Justin Garcia
02 Dec 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dating - for most of us, it's a necessary evil. We fear rejection, don’t know where to look for our people, or simply feel it's a hopeless waste of ...
The Sex Lives of College Students
29 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What do you wish you knew about pleasure when you were in college? Maybe it's how to please yourself? Or the signs of sexual incompatibility? Or maybe...
Hotline Calls: Why Can’t I Orgasm?
25 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How’s your orgasm lately? Do you wish it was more intense? More frequent? More predictable with a partner? Orgasms don’t have to be a thing of mys...
Ask and You Shall Receive (Oral)
22 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Getting the sex we want: it’s easier said than done. Sharing your needs with a partner can be difficult and awkward. But what if we feel undeserving...
Love, Lust & Lexapro
18 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Mental health and sexual desire - do you really have to choose between one or the other? While antidepressants like Lexapro can be lifesaving — all ...
Someone Cheated. Now What?
15 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Infidelity - it’s one of the most painful emotional experiences out there. But once the pain heals, it can also create enormous opportunities for gr...
Hotline Calls: How to Squirt & Find a Third
11 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We all strive to be lifelong learners - as the world and people around us change, we need to adapt and evolve to keep up. And nowhere else is this mor...
Oral Sex Secrets
08 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Got hangups around oral sex? You’re not alone. While oral sex can provide abundant intimacy and pleasure, lots of us struggle with giving – and s...
Sex Toys for Penis Owners
04 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Life is short, so why not add sex toys to your pleasure routine? Vulva owners seem to understand this, but today I’m talking toys for penises. Wheth...
Ask Emily: Oral, Orgasms & Anal
01 Nov 2022
Contributed by Lukas
First comes love, then comes anal. Isn’t that how the song goes? On today’s best of show, we’re talking your sexual firsts: your first dating ap...
Your Top Sex Fantasies, Revealed
28 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Sexual fantasies are not only normal, they’re a key component of your sexual health. But why are we attracted to certain fantasies? And is it normal...
How to Have Game: The Dating Show
25 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So what’s the hardest part about dating? Meeting people? Making conversation? Figuring out if there’s enough chemistry? How do you have dates that...
Sex + Creativity w/ Liz Goldwyn
21 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
We’re all looking for better ways to have sex. But what if I told you the thing holding you back is your own beliefs around sex and sexuality? My gu...
I Love My Partner, But My Coworker Is Hot
18 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Got relationship drama? Don’t we all. On today’s Best of show, I’m helping you navigate choppy relationship waters, to get to the other side saf...
The Lube Show: The Wetter, the Better
14 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you know me, you know that my dream is to have a bottle of lube on every nightstand. But why? Enhanced pleasure is one reason. And on this episode,...
Just the Tip(s): How to Please a Penis
11 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
When it comes to penis parts, do you know which ones are rich with nerve endings? Which areas need a gentle touch? And which can handle more force? On...
Hotline Calls: Should You Break Up?
07 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
It’s the question everyone has asked themselves at least once. Should I break up with my partner? Relationship success depends on so many factors - ...
Squirting Is My Love Language (& Other Ways To Play)
04 Oct 2022
Contributed by Lukas
So you want to try a new kink? Well, you’ve come to the right podcast. On today’s Best Of show, I answer your questions and help open your mind (a...
Are You Quiet Quitting Your Relationship?
30 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Quiet quitting: the act of leaving without leaving. At a job, it’s refusing to stay late, not seeking out extra projects, and only doing exactly wha...
Real Men Do Kegels (And Other Tips for Edging)
27 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s train our orgasm muscle: the pelvic floor. We all have one. And like our other muscles, strengthening it can yield physical benefits. In this ...
All Bi Myself: Jen Winston on Bisexuality
23 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How do you know if you’re bisexual? In honor of Bisexuality Visibility Day, author Jen Winston helps me answer just that. In her book Greedy: Notes ...
Manifest Your Partner (It Worked For Me)
20 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s manifest our dream partners and our best sex. Because listen: if our romantic lives aren’t aligned with the people we actually are, we have ...
My Orgasm Has Left The Building
16 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you fake orgasms? Be honest. Whether we feel pressured to end the sexual experience, or simply don’t know how to orgasm with a partner, faking it...
Your Sex Language w/ Dr. Jen Freed
13 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What’s your sex language? We all have one. And once we’re fluent in the four types, we can expand our repertoire to more effectively please our pa...
How to Relationship Better w/ John Kim & Vanessa Bennett
09 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Dating as an adult is exhausting. While experience comes with age, actually applying that experience is easier said than done…even for professionals...
Big Pegging Energy
06 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
To peg, or not to peg? That’s the question we’re going to push into today… and yes, pun intended. Pegging, which typically involves a penis owne...
Bolder Self, Better Sex
02 Sep 2022
Contributed by Lukas
How can you be bold in the bedroom? I’ve got the boldness queen herself, Jen Cohen of the “Habits & Hustle” podcast, to tell us how to design th...
Alternative Relationships w/ Nico Tortorella + Jason Ellis
31 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a sexually fluid relationship? As in, you and your partner discuss bisexuality openly…either yo...
Conscious, Casual Sex
26 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Casual sex gets a bad rap. We associate it with hookup culture, with disposability, with mindless Tinder swipes. But it doesn’t have to be that way:...
3 Ways to Boost Your Sexual Confidence
23 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
What’s holding you back in bed? We’ve all got our pain points: body image, not being able to tell your partner what you want, feeling embarrassed ...
How to Build a Sex Room w/ Melanie Rose
19 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you build a sex room, they will come. That’s the idea behind the new Netflix show “How to Build a Sex Room,” and on today’s episode I’ve ...
Boss in the Streets, Sub in the Sheets
16 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s get sexually adventurous, people. On today’s hotline calls show, you’re bringing the novelty, and I am one hundred percent here for it. ...
Live, Laugh, Stop Being Codependent w/ Adam Ferrara
12 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Gotta love relationship advice delivered in a thick New York accent. I’ve got Adam Ferrara on the show today, and we’re healing your emotional tri...
It’s Open (Relationship) Season w/ Dr. Wednesday Martin
09 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Let’s talk about non-monogamy! In the nearly two decades since I’ve been doing the show, I’ve never gotten so much interest in this topic as I...
All About Anal
05 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Have you ever tried anal play? Anal sex? Because if not, here’s my question to you…what’s holding you back? For most folks, the answer is fear. ...
Babe, Let’s Talk About Our Sex Life
03 Aug 2022
Contributed by Lukas
If you’ve never talked about your sex life with your partner before, there’s a good chance they’ll push back. Why? Because most of us go into fi...
Break Your Bad Dating Habits
29 Jul 2022
Contributed by Lukas
Do you always have sex on the the first date? Do you always swipe right on people who aren’t good for you? What are your bad dating habits – and h...