Sex With Emily

Summer Sex Vibes

10 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What would the world be like if we didn’t have shame about sex? Can you imagine how different your life would be, if you were told that sexual pleas...

You’re Kinkier Than You Think, Part 1

07 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you hear the words “BDSM” and “kink,” what comes to mind? Leather? Whips? The truth is, all of us are a little kinky – you may just not...

Penis Problems, Solved

03 Jun 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation or a slight penis curve, it’s common to have penis questions – especially when they’r...

How to Talk To Teens About Sex

31 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you’re a parent or caregiver, should you talk to your child about masturbation? Yes. You absolutely should, even if it’s awkward, even if your ...

Become a Wordslut w/ Amanda Montell

27 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

On any given day, how do you talk about sex? Do you bone? Screw? Make love? According to my guest Amanda Montell, author of Wordslut, Cultish, and hos...

Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 2)

25 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How exactly does masturbation help a sexual partnership? Let me count the ways… It’s Part 2 of our Masturbation Pro Tips series, and in today’s ...

Make Missionary Sex Hot

20 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Missionary gets a bad rap. I’ve seen it called the “comfy sweater” of sex – and can we talk about the name? Not sexy. Almost…anti-sexy. But ...

Radical Confidence is Sexy w/ Lisa Bilyeu

17 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Housewife turned billion-dollar co-founder Lisa Bilyeu is the picture of confidence: she’s got a thriving business, a partner she adores, and basica...

The Truth about Sex Addiction w/ Marnie Breecker

13 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

So listen: is sex addiction real? We’ve all heard stories of infidelity followed by explanations of sex addiction as the reason for the behavior. Bu...

Masturbation Pro Tips (Part 1)

10 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Did you know that masturbation helps you sleep better? Tones your pelvic floor? And – surprise – boosts your immunity? But let’s be honest: thes...

Sex Hacks for Moms w/ Dana Myers

06 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a misconception out there, that once women become moms, their sexiest years are OVER. But as my guest Dana Myers explains, that’s nonsense...

Sex Fantasies Turned Sex Realities

03 May 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a million times: communication is a lubrication. But today I’ve got the receipts: previous callers who took m...

Best of: Audio Porn w/ Caroline Spiegel

29 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Audio porn is one of the most brilliant sex tech innovations of the past few years. It’s immersive, discreet, and super intimate – you literally f...

Therapy: The Relationship Game-Changer

27 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Just like going to the gym improves your body, going to therapy improves your mind. And bonus: couple’s counseling can radically improve your relati...

Hottest Hotline Calls

22 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you’re desperate to fix your sex life with your partner, what do you do? (You call me, of course.) Maybe the sex started hot, but got real bori...

Sex and the Senses

20 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to sex, a lot of us have a movie in our head about the way it “should” go down. I should look a certain way. They should kiss me a c...

Best Of: Boundaries Are Hot W/ Dr. Jennifer Freed

15 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

To create our hottest, most fulfilling sex life, there’s one critical thing we need – and no, it’s not flavored lube. We need boundaries, and th...

Best of: Coming Together w/ Celeste and Danielle

13 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

What do you actually want to feel during sex? On today’s best-of episode, my friends Celeste Hirshman & Danielle Harel, co-authors of Coming Togethe...

Intimacy & Infidelity

09 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Here’s something wild: nearly half of people in monogamous relationships report they’ve had affairs, according to recent research. Half! And that’...

How to Date These Days

06 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

So you’re ready to date. Fantastic! But are you feeling a little rusty on flirting? Making the first move? And, real talk: how’s your dating app p...

Best of: Network & Chill w/ Jordan Harbinger

02 Apr 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to relationships across the board – from sex, to work, to friendships – do you actually know what impression you’re having on othe...

A+ Oral Sex for Vulvas

30 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Is there a vulva owner in your life you’d love to treat? By giving them the best oral sex of their life? You’ve come to the right place. Whether o...

The Breakup Bounce Back

25 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Breakups completely, fundamentally suck – full stop. Especially if you’re still connected to the person: you still live together, you share friend...

Best of: Big Mouths and Better Sex (Talks) w/ Gil Ozeri

23 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

If you are someone who had substandard sex ed as a young person (all of us?), you are going to love this throwback episode with Gil Ozeri, comedian, a...

Daddy Issues w/ Violet Benson

18 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

I am joined by Violet Benson, host of the new podcast Almost Adulting and creator of the wildly popular Instagram account  @DaddyIssues_. Over the la...

Best Blow Job Ever

16 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’re talking about blow jobs. It’s an oral sex masterclass, and you’re invited.On today’s episode, I’m sharing everything you need to know ...

Your Guide to Sexting

11 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

A great sext is all about anticipation…kind of like foreplay: And as the 21st century way to talk dirty, sexting — when executed well — can be s...

Orgasm with a Capital O

09 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let the pulsations begin, because today’s episode is a love letter to your orgasm – and all the ways we can dose your body with pleasure. First, w...

Friends With Benefits: A Guide

04 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Are you cut out for friends with benefits? If you crave regular sex, but don’t have capacity for a full-on relationship, an FWB arrangement could be...

Best of: Sex Tips I Wish I Knew In My 20s

01 Mar 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual wisdom (like all wisdom) is self-awareness plus lived experience. But I hear from people in their 20s all the time who are shockingly self-awar...

The Secrets to Happier Sex w/ Dr. Amen

25 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve probably heard that the brain is the largest sex organ in your body. But can you really hack your brain for happiness? Or better sex? Psychia...

How to Build Sexual Tension

23 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk sexual tension and seduction, people. Maybe you’re single, and trying to brush up on your flirting skills. Or perhaps you’re in a lon...

Fire Up Your Fantasies w/ Elle Chase

18 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those peo...

Unf*ck Your Relationship w/ Gary Bishop

15 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you keep running into the same relationship (or sex) problems over and over again, what’s the one common denominator? Brace yourself…because ...

The Secrets of Sexual Attraction

11 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Today’s show is all about exploring sexual attraction; what it means and how does it fit into romantic love. By the end of today’s episode, you’...

Anal Tips & Prostate Play: A Beginner’s Guide

09 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s talk anal play! If you’re a booty newbie, where do you begin? What feel-good nerve endings are you looking for? Should you start alone, or w...

Adrenaline & Arousal

04 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

How do you kickstart sexual arousal? Would you believe me if I told you that sometimes, the best ways to get turned on have nothing to do with sex its...

Say Goodbye to Awkward Sex

02 Feb 2022

Contributed by Lukas

As much as we’d like sex to be seamlessly hot all the time, sometimes…it gets a little awkward. Too much teeth during a blowjob. An erection that ...

Top 10 Most Popular Sex Topics

28 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Nothing makes me happier than people taking pleasure into their own hands, so my team and I have assembled the 10 MOST popular articles on SexWithEmil...

Hotter (Solo) Sex

26 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When you hear the phrase “self-care,” what comes to mind? Bubble baths? Booking a massage? Those things are all lovely (I’d argue essential), bu...

Best of: Doggy Style Tricks & Performance Tips

21 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s cut right to the chase: doggy style is hot-looking, but is it hot-feeling? I can’t tell you how many questions I get about this position, mo...

Talk Tantric Sex To Me

19 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Here in the 21st century, we’re fascinated by something that was invented in the 7th century: tantra, and more specifically, tantric sex. But it’s...

Take Your Sex Life from Stale to Sexy, Part 2

14 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to sex in longterm relationships, why do they start hot, then go lukewarm? Why does our eroticism go dormant, once the newness of a rela...

Take Your Sex Life from Stale to Sexy, Part 1

11 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the #1 question I get as a sex educator: “our sex life is stale, how do we make it hot again?” For long-term couples, this issue is so comm...

Your Guide to Squirting

07 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

Squirting during sex: how, exactly, does it happen? Which body part controls it? And what the hell is it made out of? For vulva owners, squirting is a...

Relationship Red Flags & Green Flags

04 Jan 2022

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve all heard of red flags in relationships, but let’s be honest: sometimes, they can be terribly hard to spot. Especially when you really want ...

Sexy Self Improvement

31 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Anything worth having takes time, whether that’s a better sex life, a deeper relationship, or an awesome relationship with your body. But staying co...

The 10 Hottest Moments of 2021

28 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

2021, we hardly knew ya. Just kidding, we totally did, and we’ve got the FaceTime sex to prove it. All year long, we’ve been saving up the very be...

Boys, Sex and Masculinity w/ Peggy Orenstein

24 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Where do men get their earliest messages about sex and intimacy? Why do they talk about banging / pounding / hitting it (like they’re at a construct...

Body Confidence, Bisexuality & Better Sex

21 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

To get our needs met, we first have to be able to articulate our needs – and be brave enough to share them out loud. But it’s easier said than don...

Best of: Women, Lust & Infidelity w/ Wednesday Martin

17 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

“Women cheat for emotional connection, men cheat for sex.” “Men are horn dogs, women are frigid.” Heard any of this before? Did you know these...

So You Wanna Have a Threesome

15 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Welcome to the wide world of alternative relationship models. Opening up, threesomes, and swinging are increasingly becoming more mainstream, so natur...

The Deal with Divorce w/ Laura Wasser

10 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You may think of her as divorce attorney to the stars, and Laura Wasser is certainly that. But Laura is also a sharp thinker on marriage and communica...

The Secret to Better Sex: Trust

08 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

In order to feel turned on, we first have to feel safe. And that’s the funny thing about trust: once it’s broken, it has a way of quietly shutting...

Best Of: The S(ex) Factor w/ Sheila Kelley

03 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sheila Kelley is a moment, a mantra, and the founder of S-Factor: a feminine movement practice that offers classes in strip, pole dance, and erotic da...

What’s Your Sexual Fantasy?

01 Dec 2021

Contributed by Lukas

So you’ve got a sex fantasy...and you’re ready for it to become reality. That’s great! But let me be the first to tell you: this process is part...

Best Of: Sexy & Self-Aware w/ Lewis Howes & Lisa Bilyeu

26 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

I like to think of Lewis Howes and Lisa Bilyeu as leaders in the self-awareness world, especially when it comes to relationships. Both Lewis and Lisa ...

Ready to Get Naughty?

24 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s frustrating but true: sex isn’t a button that we can automatically turn on and off. In fact, “sex” is a catch-all term for arousal, body ...

Sexual Spark and Relationship Arcs

20 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Before we’re experts at anything, we’re all humble beginners. And whether we’re learning how to date, learning how to talk about sex, or learnin...

Maximize Your Orgasm w/ Dolly Josette

17 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone is talking about breathwork these days. But for PleasureMuse Dolly Josette, breath opens an entire world of erotic sensation -- and it’s a ...

Trust vs. Lust

13 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Trust: it’s the glue of relationships, even the more casual ones. Can I trust that this person is safe? That they aren’t going to hurt me? Can I t...

Jealousy and Juicy Phone Sex w/ Menace

10 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve heard this one before: the sexiest quality in the world is confidence. And that’s true...but...it’s not always easy to muster. Confidence...

Strengthen Your Sex Muscles

06 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When you hear the words “pelvic floor,” what comes to mind? A visit to the OB-GYN, maybe? The truth is, the pelvic floor is a hidden superstar of ...

Sex Positions Made Easy

03 Nov 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Sex is play, but certain sex positions feel more like work, right? Whether it’s reverse cowgirl or 69, you might feel a bit awkward...you don’t ex...

Top 5 Sex Myths Debunked

29 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s be honest: there are certain myths about sex that are SO common, they seem like truth. Things like: what it means to be wet, what it means to ...

Relationship Reset

27 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who can read your mind, anticipate your needs 24/7, and fulfill them perfectly? Yeah...me neither. T...

Sex, Love & Gwyneth Paltrow

23 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

You know Gwyneth Paltrow: actor, CEO of goop, bestselling cookbook author, and cultural conversation starter. But now, Gwyneth’s got a new show on N...

Connected Sex

20 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to sex, do you have a growth mindset? Whether you’re a new parent and your sex drive has tanked, or you’re trying to break free from...

Foreplay Everyday

16 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

To lots of folks, “foreplay” is shorthand for...hand stuff. But foreplay - or outercourse, as I call it - is actually way more about emotional int...

More Pleasure, Please!

13 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

There are wants, and then, there are needs -- sexual needs, to be precise. On today’s Ask Emily show, everyone has that one need that they’re long...

Your Top 5 Sex Questions, Answered

09 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to your most pressing sex issues, have you ever wondered: “ugh, is it just me?” I promise: it’s not just you! To prove it, I’m t...

Everybody Loves Oral

06 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s the holy grail of sexual connection -- a quality oral sesh. Or...is it? On this best of mashup episode, I’m sharing some top shelf advice on ...

Communication Is A Lubrication

01 Oct 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not...

The Gottmans on Compatability, Conflict & Conversation

29 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

No one goes to relationship school, so Dr. John & Julie Gottman created the Gottman Institute to find out what makes relationships work. As today’s ...

Introducing Sex w/ Emily

25 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/askemily. For...

Sex w/ Comedians

25 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Comedians are paid to be funny, but on today’s throwback show, four of my four guests are getting real about sex - while, of course, being hilarious...

Don’t Google This, Ask Emily

22 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s show, it’s all about finding answers to your trickiest questions and unleashing your full pleasure potential. How do you orgasm when yo...

Arousal & Erotic Energy w/ Pamela Madsen & Court Vox

18 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Most of us think of arousal and desire as spontaneous, even a little mysterious. But on today’s show, I’m joined by the incredible Pamela Madsen, ...

Where Did My Orgasm Go?

15 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Attention: the orgasm has left the building. What does it mean when you can orgasm with one partner, but not another? Or when you can squirt, but not ...

Kink & Casual Sex w/ Justin Lehmiller

11 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you suddenly feeling a little...kinkier? According to my guest, social psychologist, and Kinsey Institute researcher Justin Lehmiller, a lot of us...

Hotline Calls: Micropenis, Deal Breakers & Sexsomnia

08 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

So you want sex on the daily, but as for your partner? Not really. Not to worry! Today’s hotline calls episode takes a look at mismatched sex drives...

Best Of: Sexually Fit w/ Mind Pump

04 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s throwback show, I’m joined by Sal, Adam, and Justin from the Mind Pump health and wellness show. We discuss how your mindset can get yo...

Turn Yourself On w/ Esther Perel

01 Sep 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating thinkers today on issues of desire, sex, and relationships. As an author and psychotherapist, she helps th...

Sex Tips I Wish I Knew In College

28 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you remember the sex you had in college? Or maybe you’re just now embarking on this exciting adventure and have no idea what to expect? While col...

Seducing the Booty w/ Alicia Sinclair

25 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Are you curious about anal play, but don’t know where to get started? It’s Anal August, so we’ve invited certified sex educator and B-Vibe CEO A...

The Lies of Monogamy w/ Dr. Shefali

21 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

How has culture shaped your sexuality? According to my guest Dr. Shefali Tsabury, culture has conditioned us to suppress, cheat, and lie to ourselves....

Hotline Calls: How to Have the Sex You Really Want

18 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

So your partner is great… but you want them to bring the heat, and don’t know how to ask for it. Now what? On today’s episode, I answer calls ab...

It’s Okay to Be Kinky w/ Mistress Justine Cross

13 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Do you want a little more kink in your life, but aren’t sure how to get started? If so...you’ll definitely want to tune into my interview with pro...

Hotline Calls: Breakups, Oral & Honeymoon Sex

11 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s show, I am answering all of your pressing calls from the Sex with Emily hotline! We get into some great topics like how to start enjoying...

Chemistry, Attraction & Connection w/ Matthew Hussey

07 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

It’s part two with one of the world’s most sought-after dating and relationship experts, Matthew Hussey. We continue the conversation and dive int...

How to Be a Master Dater w/ Matthew Hussey

04 Aug 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On this show, I’m joined by relationship and life coach, author, and YouTube personality Matthew Hussey. We discuss whether or not “casual dating”...

Erotic Tension & The Power of Yes w/ Dr. Jennifer Freed

31 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s show, I’m joined by psychological astrologer and returning guest Dr. Jennifer Freed. We answer your questions on how to spot a sensual ...

Sex w/ My Ex

29 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever had sex with an ex? Or tried to be friends with your ex? On today’s show, I am joined by MY real-life ex-boyfriend and opening up abou...

Sex Up Your Love Language

24 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Everyone wants to feel loved. But what if there was a way to give love, that could also lead to hotter, more connected sex? On today’s show, I share...

Best Of: Multiplying Orgasms & Pleasure

21 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s show, I’m throwing it back to a question on everyone’s mind: how to have multiple orgasms. Yes, it is possible! I share in-depth tips...

Best Of: Sex Drives & Relationship Vibes

17 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s Best of episode, I’m explaining how to spot red flags when you’re dating someone new, healthy ways to address conflict, and actionabl...

Ask Emily: I Can’t Orgasm Without...

14 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s Ask Emily show, I answer your sex and relationship questions. I cover what to do if you’re questioning your sexuality while married wit...

Hotline Calls: Oral Sex and Your Toxic Ex

10 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s show, I’m answering more of your questions from the Sex with Emily hotline. Topics include: how to tell your partner you want more oral...

Best Of: Stop, Drop & Cuckold

07 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

On today’s throwback show, I’m discussing the ins and outs of a fantasy that has become a lot more popular: cuckolding or “hot wifery”. I shar...

Sexually Confident w/ Serena Kerrigan

03 Jul 2021

Contributed by Lukas

Confidence is everything. It affects the way we perceive ourselves, how we interact with others, and definitely shapes our sex life. On today’s show...