Sexy Marriage Radio
Episodes
Dry Spells #775
08 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam answer and email from a husband who has noticed he and his wife have had regular seasons of dry spells in ...
No O #774
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complex factors affecting male and female sexual health, including hormonal therapy, mas...
Weaponized Insight #773
25 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the dynamics of higher and lower desire in marriage, focusing on how these roles influence s...
A Father and Daughter Talk About Relationships #772
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our daughter Sydney joins me as we explore relationship dynamics across generations -- from a 20-year-old coll...
Keep The Important Important #771
11 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly Ti...
Be The Adult In The Room #770
04 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Everyone gets the full show … In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of differentiation in parenting, emphasizing the...
Cringeworthy Marriage Advice #769
25 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore various pieces of cringe-worthy marriage advice often found on social media, particularly Ti...
Mind Mapping in Sex #768
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of mind mapping and its implications for communication in marriage. We explore ...
Best of SMR: Attraction and Desire | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #767
11 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
We go back into the vault and hear a regular guest again today, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, as we dive into the relational dynamic of attraction and d...
Covert Contracts #766
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the concept of covert contracts in marriage, exploring how unspoken agreements can lead to f...
Conflict Can Refine The Marriage #765
28 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of conflict in marriage, particularly in the context of parenting and manag...
Masturbation: A Path to Intimacy? #764
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I answer an email from a listener about how she can seek her own pleasure after orgasm troubles have a...
The Power Of Vacations #763
14 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss how vacations can serve as a vital reset for relationships, allowing couples to reconnect an...
Your Fantasy Life Is Not Just Yours #762
07 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of how our fantasy life, desires and sexual practices are not just ours. W...
Best of SMR: Reclaiming Women’s Sexuality | Francie Winslow #761
31 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this Best of SMR conversation, Francie Winslow shares her transformative journey from the constraints of purity culture to embracing a vibrant and ...
Exit Strategies #760
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing communication shutdowns in relationships. They ...
My Husband’s ED #759
17 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the holiday season and the tradition of setting three words to guide the upcoming year. We...
Sex For Rewards #758
10 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual relationships within marriage, particularly focusing on the idea ...
Best of SMR: Better Oral Sex #757
03 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit the most popular episode of SMR in 2025. Pam and I explore the complexities of sexual intimacy with...
Holiday Survival Guide #756
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the challenges couples face during the holiday season, including managing family dynamics, setting ...
How Placating Hurts Marriage #755
19 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, our conversation explores the dynamics of conflict in relationships, focusing on defensive responses and commu...
Before You Say I Do (For Real) #754
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the the importance of preparing for marriage, character development, navigating conflict, understan...
Post Menopause And I Can’t Orgasm #753
05 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of relationships, emphasizing the need to retune both sexual and marital systems t...
Talk About Sex With Your Kids #752
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of teaching children about sex and sexuality in a healthy and age-appropriate manner...
Solo Sex #751
22 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, let's have a conversation about solo sex (i.e. masturbation). And this episode it's Dr Corey solo, as he cove...
I Want To Slow Down #750
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I dive into the complexities of communication in marriage, particularly around sexual dynamics and des...
In My Head #749
08 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss a listener's email regarding premature ejaculation and the psychological factors that may co...
Whose Pleasure Is It, Really? #748
01 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore a complex email from a listener struggling with intimacy and respect in her relationship. W...
The Five Senses In Sex | Gary Thomas #747
24 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Gary Thomas joins me as we explore the intricacies of married intimacy, focusing on the importance of emotional connection and t...
Love In Action #746
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complexities of love in action within marriage, addressing the common phrase 'I know he ...
I know he loves me, but… #745
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into the complexities of marital intimacy and emotional disconnect, sparked by a listener's email. We...
Can I Get My Spouse To Care? #744
03 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the complexities of marriage, focusing on health, sexuality, and the impact of personal choices on ...
The Intersection of Sexuality and Spirituality | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #743
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins me as we explore the intricate relationship between sexuality and spirituality, emphasizing the...
Stop Outsourcing Desire To Your Spouse #742
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the concept of outsourcing sexual desire within marriage. We explore how individuals often hand ove...
Initiation Takes Two #741
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of sexual initiation within marriage, focusing on the dynamics between higher and ...
My Body Shuts Down Right Before Orgasm #740
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore into the complexities of vaginismus and its impact on sexual relationships. We explore the emotiona...
Marriage Advice That Isn’t Helpful #739
30 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common phrases and beliefs about marriage that may not hold true. Phrases like 'You complete me,' ...
Best of SMR: Anxiety As A Smoke Signal | Dr John Delony #738
23 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
An episode from the vault - Dr. John Delony joins me as we talk through the concept of anxiety as a smoke signal, indicating that something is amiss i...
Surrendered Sexuality | Dr Juli Slattery #737
16 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Dr. Juli Slattery joins me as we dive into the complexities of Christian sexuality, exploring themes of trust, identity, and the inte...
Willingness vs Intent #736
09 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we answer a listeners question about how to address an issue that has come up now that his wife has had a partial hysterectomy and ge...
Too Much Focus On The Beginning – Live from the Getaway #735
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, we explore how spending too much focus on the beginning of a sexual encounter...
Sex Quiz – Live from the Getaway #734
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, recorded live from the 2025 Sex Marriage Radio Getaway, I quiz Pam and the audience on what they know about various aspects of sex. ...
Grief and Infertility #733
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we address the complexities of navigating new relationships after experiencing loss. We discuss the challenges...
The Problem With Love Languages #732
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio we explore the Love Languages from Gary Chapman. Specifically we dive into how there are some problems with the...
Best of SMR: Obligation Sex | Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #731
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we revisit an archive show with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife. We dive into the topic of obligation sex. Is it a ...
Desire For Sex Or For Your Spouse #730
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive into an email from a listener wanting help with the complexities of desire and connection in marriage....
Mistakes We Make In Sex #729
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore common mistakes that couples make in their sexual relationships. They categorize these mistakes int...
Best of SMR: Mutual Masturbation #728
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
We go back into the archives to one of the Best of SMR episodes. An email from a wife who has discovered the eroticism and freedom that can happen wh...
Understanding Our Functioning Is The Key To A Better Marriage #727
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we explore the complexities of relationships, focusing on the concept of regressions and how they affect emoti...
Radical Living | Marni Battista #726
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, Marni Battista shares her journey from blaming her husband for her dissatisfaction to embracing change and personal growth within her...
Wanting To Be Wanted #725
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we explore the complex dynamics of wanting to be wanted in relationships, emphasizing the universal nature of this desire. What's th...
My Husband Gets No Pleasure From My Pleasure #724
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this call-in episode, Anne discusses her experiences with her husband's lack of interest in her pleasure, she's guessing it is stemming from his ba...
The Higher Desire Wife | J Parker #723
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, J. Parker joins me as we talk through the dynamics of desire within relationships, particularly focusing on the experiences of h...
I Want To Feel Desired #722
02 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this call-in conversation, Ashley from North Carolina discusses her experiences with desire dynamics in her marriage, particularly as a higher desi...
Revisiting the Lower Desire Wife | Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife #721
26 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation from the Archives, we revisit an episode with Dr Jennifer Finylason-Fife. TWe dive into the complexities of desire dynamics withi...
Reclaiming Women’s Sexuality | Francie Winslow #720
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Francie Winslow shares her transformative journey from the constraints of purity culture to embracing a vibrant and fulfilling s...
Conflict Resilience | Bob Bordone and Dr Joel Salinas #719
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Dr Joel Salinas and Bob Bordone join me as we explore the often misunderstood nature of conflict in relationships. They discuss...
Sex Every Day #718
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this call in show, Kyla and Adam discuss the challenges they face in their marriage regarding intimacy and sexual desire. They explore how their r...
Better Oral Sex #717
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I explore the complexities of sexual intimacy within marriage, emphasizing the importance of meaningfu...
Intentional Living | Jillian Johnsrud #716
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Julian Johnsrud, a coach and expert in intentional living and mini retirements, shares her journey of discover...
Masturbation and Marriage #715
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I dive into the complex topic of masturbation within marriage. Our conversation explores initial reac...
Obligation Sex #714
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
The 2025 Sexy Marriage Married Getaway is June 19-21, 2025. Register now. On the Regular version … In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we dive ...
Men’s Health Is Vital | Dean Pohlman #713
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Dean Pohlman of Man Flow Yoga joins me again as we discuss the importance of self-care for men, particularly through yoga and ex...
When Is She Ready For Sex? #712
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of understanding readiness for penetrative sex. What are the biological markers, co...
Best Of SMR Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #711
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation pulled from the vault, we revisit a conversation with John Eldredge as we discuss the impact of busyness and unhealed trauma on r...
Great Sex In 2025 #710
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
This week we discuss the nuances of married life and sex, emphasizing the importance of reframing conversations around intimacy. We explore practical ...
Let’s Talk 69 #709
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities oral sex and the impact of past trauma. A listener emails about the challen...
Is Sex An Acceptable Christmas Gift? #708
25 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this Christmas Day episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss a particular nuance of marriage and sex - focusing on the idea of sex as a gift. We e...
Marriage Is Pressure #707
18 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of pressure in marriage, focusing on the nuances of desire dynamics and the importance of collabora...
I Like Naked People #706
11 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual desires within marriage, particularly focusing on the impact of pornography. We explore t...
Lust and Desire | Sam Jolman #705
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I'm joined again by Sam Jolman as we explore the complexities of male sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embo...
Best of SMR: Unilateral Moves #704
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week revisit a Best Of epsiode from the vault. A husband and wife will usually incorporate the use of a vibrator during their sexual encounters t...
Oral Sex and Trauma #703
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week Pam and I discuss the complexities of intimacy, particularly focusing on oral sex and the impact of past trauma on current relationships. Th...
Intimate Desire | Alex and Kadi Dutton #702
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, I'm joined by Alex and Kadi Dutton, founders of EveryLove Intimates. We talk about their journey in creating their company aimed at...
Anatomy Of Desire | Dr Emily Jamea #701
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Emily Jamea joins me as we discuss her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' focusing on the concept of flow state in sexual experiences. She outlines fi...
Celebrating 700 Episodes With Hugs From Behind #700
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this milestone 700th episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we reflect on the journey of the podcast, celebrating its impact on relationships and personal...
Navigating The Depths | Dr Dave Jenkins #699
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, I'm joined by a colleague and friend Dr. Dave Jenkins as we dive deep into the concept of regression, particularly in the contex...
Problems Are Fixable | Casey and Meygan Caston #698
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode I'm joined by Casey and Meygan Caston of Marriage 365 - we discuss the challenges couples face in maintaining healthy marriages. We di...
Making Time For Each Other #697
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode, we get a little personal and discuss the challenges and dynamics of maintaining a strong marriage amidst life's transitions and pre...
How Do I Initiate In A Sexless Marriage? #696
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this call-in show, I address the challenges faced by Julie - who has been married for over 30 years but have lost intimacy in the relationship. We ...
Power Moves #695
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey and Pam discuss the dynamics of power in marriage, exploring how couples navigate desires and tensio...
Is Sex a Need or Want? #694
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we dive into two listener emails and explore the complexities of intimacy and communication in marriage. We discuss the balance between the pres...
Best of SMR: Secrets of Sex and Marriage #693
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we revisit one of the best of a recent episode of SMR. In it, I'm joined by Shaunti Feldhahn and Dr Michael Sytsma as we talked through their ne...
Power and Oral Sex #692
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we dive into two listener emails on the topic of oral sex within a marriage and the dynamics of power that can be associated with it. Everyone ...
Highly Sensitive People | Irene Fehr #691
28 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Dr. Corey and Irene Fehr discuss the concept of highly sensitive people (HSPs) and how it relates to sexual desire in long-term relationshi...
My Spouse Is The Problem #690
21 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we dive into two listener emails, one about the lack of intentionality in a husband and its impact on the marriage, specifically the attraction ...
Sensuality vs Sex | Sam Jolman #689
14 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week, Dr. Corey chats with Sam Jolman, a fellow counselor and the author of The Sex Talk You Never Got. We talk about the importance of sensual...
Enhance Your Health and Performance | Dr Elliot Justin #688
07 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. Elliot Justin joins me to discuss the importance of monitoring nocturnal erections as a marker for sexual and cardiovascular health. He explains t...
Talking About Sex With Your Spouse #687
31 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Today we explore the importance of learning how to talk with your spouse about sex, highlighting the importance of naming your intention, remembering ...
Best of SMR: Curing Ticklishness #686
24 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week is a Best Of SMR! Our topics revolve around two main themes: ticklishness and sexual desire issues in marriage. Ticklishness and a sensitivi...
Best Of SMR: What Is Normal? #685
17 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week is a Best Of SMR! A wife calls in wanting to know how to handle her husband's struggle with pornography. A husband calls in asking for hel...
Revisiting Intimacy Anorexia Or Is It Cruelty? #684
10 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode we we revisit an old episode of SMR. Our conversation explores the concept of intimacy anorexia and the pain of love cycle of abuse...
Exploring The Meaning Of His Erection #683
03 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
On today's episode we discuss various topics related to marriage and sex. We cover two segments from previous episodes, one about a couple who stopped...
My Arousal Template Live From The SMR Getaway #682
26 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week was recorded live the 2024 SMR Getaway Q&A. We answer a voicemail from a listener who has realized that since they began listening to SMR an...
Rapid Fire Q&A Live From The Getaway #681
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
This week is a rapid fire Q&A - recorded live from the 2024 SMR Getaway. We discuss topics such as how to get turned on by seeing a partner's penis, h...
Anxiety As A Smoke Signal | Dr John Delony #680
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Dr. John Delony joins me as we talk through the concept of anxiety as a smoke signal, indicating that something is amiss in our lives. He encourages i...
Discovery Of A Spouse’s Betrayal | Tyler and Brannon Patrick #679
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Dr Corey is joined by Tyler and Brannon Patrick, also known as The Therapy Brothers, as they discuss the topic of betrayal, tr...
Turn Criticism Into Connection | Dr Jessica Higgins #678
29 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, Dr Jessica Higgins joins me as we discuss the topic of criticism in relationships. We explore how criticism can be damaging -- b...
Love Languages and Sexual Attraction #677
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr Corey and Pam discuss the importance of flexibility in marriage and how it relates to facing and dealing wi...
The Masculine In Relationship | GS Youngblood #676
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
In this conversation, GS Youngblood joins me as we discuss his blueprint for masculinity in relationships, which focuses on three elements: respond ve...