Sexy Marriage Radio

SMR#176: Gridlock In Marriage

18 Mar 2015

Contributed by Lukas

What do you do when what you want is blocked by what your spouse wants. That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! _________...

SMR#175: Questions from our listeners

11 Mar 2015

Contributed by Lukas

We have the greatest listeners who give us all kinds of feedback and questions. Today we answer several emails that are worth discussing. That’s wha...

SMR#174: Sex Gets Better as You Get Older

04 Mar 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Sex through the ages. Have you feared that sex may dwindle when you’re older? That’s what Shannon and Corey talk about in this episode. Enjoy! _...

SMR#173: Exploring BDSM

25 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

The world of BDSM. What do you know about it? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at f...

SMR#172: Tips to spice up sex

18 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Need some ideas to help add a little spice to your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? E...

SMR#171: Thoughts on 50 Shades of Grey

11 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Planning to see 50 Shades of Grey? Here what we think. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email u...

SMR#170: Investing in your marriage

04 Feb 2015

Contributed by Lukas

Many times people wait too long to address issues in life and marriage. Please don’t. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! _...

SMR#169: Physical Issues Women Can Face in Sex

28 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things women can struggle with in sex. Some of these are physical issues … like vaginismus, lubrication, anorgasmia. Dr. Carol Tanksl...

SMR#168: Collaborative Alliance

21 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

To have sex there has to be some level of an alliance. The same thing happens throughout marriage. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episod...

SMR#167: Challenging Stereotypes

14 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

We live in a world that involves stereotypes. But are they true? That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a questio...

SMR#166: Remembering 2014 on Sexy Marriage Radio

07 Jan 2015

Contributed by Lukas

There’s benefit to looking back and reflecting on the past year. That’s what Shannon and Corey do in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a quest...

SMR#165: Where’s Your Focus In 2015

31 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

New Years Day is tomorrow. Welcome to 2015. Where’s your focus going to be in this coming year? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episo...

SMR#164: Create an environment for sex

17 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What does the physical space where sex happens most look like for you? What gets in the way? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. E...

SMR#163: Moving beyond awkwardness and growing

10 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Change makes things uncomfortable. Change can also feel awkward. So how do you move beyond this feeling? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in thi...

SMR#162: How to find help

03 Dec 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are times when help is necessary in married life (and life for that matter). So how do you find the best help possible? That’s what Shannon a...

SMR#161: Who Initiates

26 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Fact is, someone has to initiate sex for it to occur. So who does this in your marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy...

SMR#160: How sex reveals your self

19 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things uncovered in sex. But the biggest thing is actually your self. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __...

SMR#159: Sex as a deity, part 2

12 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Let’s go deeper on this idea of sex as a deity. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us a...

SMR#158: Can sex be a deity?

05 Nov 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Sex is a big part of life, society, and our world … but can it play too big a role and become a deity? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in thi...

SMR#157: Sex after a betrayal

29 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many marriages that have experienced a betrayal of some kind. Affair, both physical or emotional, porn, and the like. When do you reintroduc...

SMR#156: Barriers to Connection

22 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things that get in the way of our connecting. And there are many ways to overcome these barriers. That’s what Shannon and Corey cove...

SMR#155: Sex Is Who You Are

15 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Sex isn’t just what you do … it’s who you are. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email u...

SMR#154: Sexpectations

08 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What are your expectations when it comes to sex? Put another way, what are your sexpectations? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode....

SMR#153: Self-sabotaging your sex life

01 Oct 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How do you get in the way of your sex life? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feed...

SMR#152: Mercy sex

24 Sep 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Today we revisit the idea of “mercy sex” What if it’s all part of a process in married life? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this epis...

SMR#151: I Can’t Go For That

17 Sep 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things that happen in marriage and sex that are completely up to the people involved. In this show, we discuss what happens when one of...

SMR#150: Sex for Baby Boomers

10 Sep 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Every one of us will be old at some point. So how do you address the challenges that come with aging and your sex life? Shannon and Corey are joined ...

SMR#149: Dressing For Sexual Success

03 Sep 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How do you dress for success? What about dressing for sexual success? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a ...

SMR#148: Reflections on our journey

27 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Today we look back on Sexy Marriage Radio thus far – what stands out most to you? Enjoy! __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriag...

SMR#147: Money and Sex

20 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

One of the major stressors in marriage is sex … another is money. These often play off each other. That’s what we discuss in this episode. Enjoy! ...

SMR#146: Spice Up Things By Opening Your Eyes

13 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

We have done several shows about how to add some spice to your sex life. This time we go deep and encourage you to open up your eyes and connect. Love...

SMR#145: Dealing With Your Past

06 Aug 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Our past can haunt us for years, or a lifetime. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode as they are joined by Sexy Marriage Radio liste...

SMR#144: What You Want Or Your Spouse Wants

30 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Have you ever realized that often what you think your spouse wants is what you want? You touch them or do things for them during sex the way you want ...

SMR#143: Guilt surrounding sex

23 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Too often there is a tremendous amount of guilt surrounding sex and our sexuality. Where does this guilt come from and what can you do about it? That’...

SMR#142: Comfort sex

16 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Tough times happen in life and marriage. So do times of grief and sadness. Can sex actually become a source of comfort during times like this? That’...

SMR#141: Talking to your sexually active teenager

09 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What do you say to your teenager who may be already sexually active? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a q...

SMR#140: Seven Minute Marriage Solution

02 Jul 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Ever wondered if seven minutes could dramatically improve your marriage? It can. Steve Arterburn joins Shannon and Corey in this episode. Enjoy! ___...

SMR#139: Your Sexual Vocabulary

25 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

How do you talk about sex? What about during sex? In other words … what’s your sexual vocabulary? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this e...

SMR#138: Dealing with PE and ED issues

18 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many problems that can happen in marriage and sex. Specifically, premature ejaculation(PE) and/or erectile disfunction (ED). That’s what ...

SMR#137: Gender Differences

11 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Today we continue with Dr. William Struthers and move the conversation to the idea of gender differences and our brain. That’s what Shannon and ...

SMR#136: Brain Sex

04 Jun 2014

Contributed by Lukas

In today’s show we are joined by Dr. William Struthers to discuss the idea of brain sex. What if sex isn’t as much what is happening between your...

SMR#135: The High Desire Wife

28 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

We talk a lot about high desire and low desire when it comes to sex. But this is a different issue when the high desire spouse is the wife. This isn’...

SMR#134: Foreplay

21 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Foreplay. A big part of sexual intimacy, and sometimes overlooked. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! As an added bonus: I...

SMR#133: How Kinky is Too Kinky?

14 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Last week we talked about sex toys. Which makes some people uncomfortable. One reaction may be this is too kinky. So … that leads to this question: ...

SMR#132: Sex Toys

07 May 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There’s already a lot of tension around the topic of sex in marriage. Let’s ramp it up and talk about sex toys. That’s what Shannon and Corey c...

SMR#131: Rejection Anxiety, Revisited

30 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

In Episode #77, Gina and Corey talked about how you can handle rejection better. But what’s Shannon’s take on this topic? That’s what Shannon a...

SRM#130: Wedding Night Tips for Virgins

23 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many people who experience wedding night “jitters.” So what are some ideas and tips that will make this night one to remember forever? T...

SMR#129: The Payoffs for Sex

16 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many benefits for sex. And sometimes it’s easy to loose site of the payoff this aspect of your marriage can have for your life. That’s w...

SMR#128: Attachment styles

09 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

When you can understand more of your core approach to life and love, you can better seek and receive all life has to offer. That’s what Shannon and...

SMR#127: Answering our critics

02 Apr 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There have been a lot of shows on Sexy Marriage Radio, and a lot of feedback. Most of the response has been great, some has been critical – which is...

SMR#126: Second marriages

26 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Reality is that many people experience more than one marriage. Regardless of the reasons, prior relationships do influence current ones. So how can yo...

SMR#125: Sex through the seasons of life

19 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Things change as life unfolds. And each season of life brings with it new challenges … and pleasures. This same concept holds true for our sex life ...

SMR#124: Oral Sex

12 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

What role does foreplay play in your sex life? How about oral sex? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Got a que...

SMR#123: Masturbation

05 Mar 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Did we just do a show about the M Word? Yes we did! So how does this play out in your life and marriage? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in thi...

SMR#122: The Sexless Marriage

26 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There are many marriages where sex is an issue. And those that experience a marriage where sex is limited or non-existent are often really struggling....

SMR#121: Q&A from listener emails

19 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

We love receiving emails from our listeners – Sexy Marriage Radio listeners rock! In this show we cover several emails. From how do you get sex goin...

SMR#120: Tips For Valentines Day

12 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

While Valentines Day is a big deal, so is every day in married life. But Valentines can be a great time to demonstrate your love for your spouse. That...

SMR#119: The Physical Side of Sex

05 Feb 2014

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a side of sex that includes the physical aspects of us. Things like preparation, grooming, cleanliness, and the like. That’s what Shannon...

SMR#118: Your Emotions and Sex

29 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Life can sometimes be an emotional roller coaster. So can sex. But our emotions can also really help us and our sex life. That’s what Shannon and C...

SMR#117: Your Brain and Sex

22 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Some times we overlook the most potent sexual organ we have … the brain. It’s vital to have your mind on board with your sex life. That’s what ...

SMR#116: Spirituality and Sex

15 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Often, we recognize things as spiritual in life. We can also recognize things as sexual. But what about both together? That’s what Shannon and Core...

SMR#115: Expectations and Sex

08 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

Expectations run rampant in life … and marriage … and definitely sex. That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode. Enjoy! __________ Go...

SMR#114: Talking to your kids about sex

01 Jan 2014

Contributed by Lukas

You’ve heard of the “big talk.” But talking to your kids about sex is actually many different conversations. And it starts … right now. That’...

SMR#113: Kids Getting In The Way Of Sex

23 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Kids are a blessing, but they can also get in the way of your sex life. But have you ever thought that your sex life can be a gift you give to your ki...

SMR#112: Change Up A Sexual Rut

18 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Routine and schedule can rule the day, week, month and year. So what are some ideas to change up the rut our sex life (and life) can fall in to? That’...

SMR#111: Sexual Confidence

11 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Every one of us struggles at some point with our image, shape, wrinkles, cellulite, etc. Put another way, every one has moments when we lack confidenc...

SMR#110: The space between you

04 Dec 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Can you share too much with your spouse? What’s the difference between secrets and fantasies? That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in this episode...

SMR#109: The G Spot

27 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Considered by some, the Holy Grail of female orgasms. While some others say it doesn’t exist. But in this episode, Shannon and Corey lead you down t...

SMR#108: Intended For Pleasure

20 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Ever get the feeling that sex is just burdensome or just for procreation? It’s intended for so much more! That’s what Shannon and Corey cover in t...

SMR#107: Sexy Marriage Radio 2.0

13 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Today I’m thrilled to welcome Shannon Ethridge as my new co-host for Sexy Marriage Radio! In this episode you’ll hear Shannon’s story and more...

SMR#106: My Spouse’s Sexual Fantasies

06 Nov 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What happens when the person you married shares a fantasy that makes you nervous or flat out repulsed? That’s what I discuss today with Shannon Ethr...

SMR#105: Sexual Fantasy

30 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a certain taboo-ness often associated with fantasies. Particularly sexual fantasies. That’s what I discuss today with Shannon Ethridge and...

SMR#104: Minimalism as a way to better sex

23 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Minimalism. It can mean several different things. But it can also be a path to better sex and married life. That’s what I discuss with Joshua Becker...

SMR# 103: Intentional Intimacy

16 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Intimacy means lots of different things to different people. But, we all can agree it plays a role in our married life. That’s what I discuss with T...

SMR#102: Long Distance Relationships and Dealing With Baggage

02 Oct 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There are seasons in some relationships that require times a part – job transfers, school, travel. So how can you more successfully navigate these s...

SMR#101: Recovering from affairs

25 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Sadly, affairs are all too common in the marriage world. So what’s the best way forward? What can the betrayed spouse do? What can the betraying spo...

Episode 100: Our takeaways

18 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

EPISODE 100! – And Gina’s final show. In this episode we discuss our takeaways from 100 shows together. Enjoy. __________ Got a question? Email us...

Episode 99: Sexual communication style

11 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

When it comes to your sex life – how you talk about it, initiate it, etc. – what’s your default set on? That’s what we cover in this episode. ...

Episode 98: The best of Sexy Marriage Radio

04 Sep 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Due to a scheduling mix-up – this episode we take our very best show to date (according to number of downloads) and look back at some Tips for Initi...

Episode 97: Growing through mercy sex

28 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Mercy sex is usually not enjoyable, for both spouses. But what if it is actually part of the process of growing to better sex? That’s what we cover ...

Episode 96: When the wife wants no sex

21 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a high desire and a low desire for sex in every marriage. But what about when the wife takes the stance of “no sex”? That’s what we co...

Episode 95: Honeymoon Sex

14 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What are some thoughts that will help us as we begin our married life? Specifically, sex. That’s what we cover in this episode. __________ Got a que...

Episode 94: The feminine’s initiation for sex

07 Aug 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Women do initiate sex, it’s just that many times her attempts go unnoticed by her husband. So head’s up husbands, be on the lookout for her attemp...

Episode 93: Every night is date night

31 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

A popular marriage tip is to be sure you set aside time for date nights. Often this is thought of as once a month, or once a week. But why not every n...

Episode 92: Your Brain and Porn

24 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Pornography can mess up lives and relationships. And this is beyond just a moral or ethical issue. Gary Wilson runs the website YourBrainOnPorn.com ...

Episode 91: What’s your fear?

17 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

What are you afraid of? It’s a common question, but not often deeply explored. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What’s underne...

Episode 90: The Nice Guy/Nice Girl

10 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Too many men are Nice Guys. And it’s damaging sex and marriage. But women are not immune as well as there are many Nice Girls out there as well. Tha...

Episode 89: Sexless marriages, past trauma, and more

03 Jul 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There are many sexless marriages today. Plus there are lots of people with major trauma in their past, specifically sexual trauma. That’s what we co...

Episode 88: Self limiting beliefs

26 Jun 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Many times, the only thing in our way to creating what we really want in life, marriage, and sex is ourselves. More specifically, our beliefs. That’...

Episode 87: My spouse doesn’t like to kiss

19 Jun 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Kissing is a big part of physical intimacy, for many people. But not everyone. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Gridlock Speaking ...

Episode 86: Your role

12 Jun 2013

Contributed by Lukas

A system is something that is co-created. And our role in the creation of things can be something we don’t easily notice. That’s what we cover in ...

Episode 85: Love Languages

05 Jun 2013

Contributed by Lukas

A popular book in the marriage world is Dr. Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages. While it’s helped a lot of people, we have a slightly different ta...

Episode 84: Body image and shame

29 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Our self-image really does affect our life. Especially our sex life. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Shame How the spouse can hel...

Episode 83: Too fast or too slow

22 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

For some, sex is over too fast. For others it’s too slow. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: It’s a relational issue Let go of a...

Episode 82: Grooming and others issues with oral sex

15 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Oral sex. One of our more popular topics on Sexy Marriage Radio. But not everyone is interested in it, and there are some hurdles that get in the way ...

Episode 81: Leaking sexual energy

08 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

We’ve made the comment before that our belief is 100% of your sexual energy needs to be directed toward your marriage. What if you’re married to s...

Episode 80: Having sex because you’re supposed to

01 May 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There are many things in life that we do … and sometimes we do them simply because we’re supposed to. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show...

Episode 79: How do you initiate?

24 Apr 2013

Contributed by Lukas

There’s a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That’s w...

Episode 78: Do this, Not this

17 Apr 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there’s a fine line between the two. That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Enviro...

Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety

10 Apr 2013

Contributed by Lukas

Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That’s what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Re...