What happens when anxiety, creative pressure, and everyday stress leave you feeling five minutes from completely losing your shit? G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with Author David Meyer for a funny, thoughtful conversation about burnout, overthinking, empathy, self-care, and why making art can remind us that we’re not alone. Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health), 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), and 2026 NYC Podcast Award Audience Choice Winner (Best Hosts), with over 4.5 million downloads and listened to in over 160 countries. Feedback We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “If it touches one person, make the art.” — David Meyer Episode Description David Meyer knows what it feels like to live five minutes from a meltdown. The author, screenwriter, poet, and cooking-show producer joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a brutally relatable conversation about anxiety, burnout, creative pressure, and the strange little habits that keep us functioning when our brains refuse to calm the hell down. David shares how a collection of hundreds of comedic poems became his book, Five Minutes From a Meltdown, and why humor has always helped him acknowledge emotions that might otherwise stay buried. For David, laughter is more than entertainment. It creates connection, offers relief, and reminds us that someone else has probably felt the exact same messy thing. The conversation also gets real about the basics of mental health care: eating, sleeping, drinking water, exercising, resting, and admitting that the annoying advice often works. David opens up about balancing a demanding creative career with his well-being, managing the fear of disappointing people, and learning to create without waiting for perfect confidence. He also introduces the idea of “sonder”—the realization that every person is living a life as complicated and meaningful as our own. That awareness can be overwhelming, but it can also make us kinder, more patient, and less likely to judge someone based on one difficult moment. This episode is funny, thoughtful, and deeply human. It’s a reminder that nothing has to be perfect to have value—and sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is laugh, make the art, drink some water, and keep going. Keywords: David Meyer, Five Minutes From a Meltdown, anxiety, burnout, mental health, emotional wellness, creative pressure, humor and healing, overthinking, self-care, empathy, resilience, perfectionism, stress management, creative confidence Meet Our Guest — David Meyer David Meyer is the author of Five Minutes From a Meltdown, a candid and funny exploration of stress, resilience, and life near the edge of burnout. A writer and producer based in Los Angeles, David uses poetry, screenwriting, storytelling, and sharp observation to help people find humor, meaning, and connection inside life’s everyday chaos. Website: https://davidmeyerwriter.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cubsdem Email: [email protected] Key Takeaways Humor can help us acknowledge difficult emotions without letting them completely take over. Burnout often gets worse when basic needs such as food, sleep, movement, water, and rest are ignored. You don’t need perfect confidence to make something meaningful. Creative work can help people feel seen, understood, and less alone. Remembering that everyone has a full, complicated life can build empathy and reduce judgment. Your work does not need to change the entire world to matter to one person. Actionable Items Before labeling yourself unmotivated or overwhelmed, check the basics: Have you eaten, slept, moved your body, rested, and had enough water? Create something imperfect this week—a poem, journal entry, voice note, sketch, or story—and resist the urge to judge it. When someone frustrates you, pause and imagine one compassionate explanation for what they may be experiencing. Important Chapters 00:00:37 – Meet David Meyer David joins G-Rex and Dirty Skittles to talk about writing, producing, books, movies, and the creative work that keeps him busy. 00:06:00 – From Buying Groceries to Producing a Cooking Show David explains how a short six-week job turned into a major production role and what he has learned from working with a small, driven creative team. 00:08:01 – Becoming a Writer and Accidental Published Poet David shares how he started writing as a child, discovered screenwriting in college, and turned hundreds of comedic poems into a published collection. 00:11:41 – Humor as Mental Health Medicine The conversation shifts to laughter, emotional release, and why art can make people feel recognized and less alone. 00:15:38 – A Good Childhood and an Anxious Brain David talks honestly about having a loving upbringing while still experiencing mental health challenges—and why pain does not always need a dramatic origin story. 00:17:23 – Creative Pressure, Burnout, and Basic Self-Care David describes the demands of producing a show and the frustrating truth that sleep, food, water, exercise, and rest really do help. 00:22:37 – What David Wants to Write Next From serious poetry and plays to screenplays and horror-comedy, David discusses his creative ambitions and the uncertainty of building a career in a changing industry. 00:24:48 – Confidence, Mortality, and Making the Art Anyway David explains how accepting that life is temporary helps him take risks, release perfectionism, and create work that may connect with even one person. 00:29:17 – Building a Sustainable Writing Practice David reflects on being an inspiration-driven writer and why he is learning to treat creativity as a skill that requires routine and consistent effort. 00:33:20 – Advice for His Younger Self David shares the message he would give his younger self: people probably see more value in you than you currently see in yourself. 00:35:20 – Sonder, Empathy, and Everyone Else’s Full Life David explores the realization that every stranger is the main character of a complex life—and how that awareness can make us kinder. 00:39:48 – The Theme Song for David’s Anxiety David chooses Johnny Cash’s version of “Hurt” and opens up about his fear of disappointing or emotionally hurting other people. 00:41:48 – Favorite Words, Swearing, and the Mental Load of AI David explains why “fuck” is his favorite word, why AI is currently his least favorite, and how language reflects the pressures of modern life. 00:44:33 – David’s Book and Charitable Mission David shares how listeners can find his work and explains that proceeds from his remaining books support charitable causes. 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