MOST PATHETIC BREAKUPS!

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How did the hosts confront competitiveness and admit to overreacting in a podcast Patreon episode?

Specs Gonzales 0:00

he came to my house looked around and said i can get used to this he said his thoughts are loud wow he said his thoughts are loud that's scary that's scary

Specs Gonzales 0:22

Yuzuru. I'm feeling good. I'm feeling great. I messaged you earlier and said, hey, did you see Good Again? You said yes, and I was so happy. I was so happy because yesterday's recording for Patreon was- It was really good. It was really, really good. I also feel like, I said this to T, when we finished recording yesterday and I went to the other room, she was like, oh, that was a long episode. I was like, yeah, every time we do one episode a day- yeah you can go you can go because there's no holds barred bro you don't think about our energy levels blah blah blah you just crack on bro yeah so yeah i know today's gonna be good yeah today's gonna be a good episode i'm fucking excited um before we get started i would like i would not even to redeem myself so that i can sleep better at night i would like you man to shame me for shanking the bed in sng in the wild fuck you fuck oh my god

Specs Gonzales 1:09

God, oh, oh, I'm going to lose my shit. It was completely uncalled for. And I'm not proud of it. And I'm going to, I am going to, I realized it when we did that other Patreon episode the other day on the white wall. I need help with my competitiveness. I do need help. It's getting to a point where it's actually just not okay. And I do need help. So you feel like you need to rein it in? What is it that you can't take? And what's brought this on? Yeah. What's brought this on? Yeah. It was that, it was that, it was that realization on the white wall the other day. I was, I was furious. I was absolutely furious. Yeah. I don't, my thing is, I don't know how to care a little bit. You're either zero or 100. If you're asking me to care, I'm staking my life on this.

Specs Gonzales 2:05

I'm gonna bleed for this. Or I just can't care at all. I don't think there's something you can control then. Cause it's not just, I don't think that's only part of your competitive life. I think that's just part of who you are. so for you to be able to say i want to get control of this then that's going to with your ability to care about your generic things that you care about as opposed to just competition does that make sense i understand but i was screaming at you man i know i stabbed his bed i think i've known you for 17 years i've accepted you i know you have so and i appreciate it so for me it's this is just james i don't know i don't take it personally but that's enabling We can't... This is what allows it to continue, bro.

Specs Gonzales 2:46

Yeah, to be fair, let's take out competition with heroin. Okay. And I'm a habitual heroin user. And you've just accepted it because that's just what you're used to. But that's not okay.

Unknown 2:55

Yeah, it's not. Okay, cool. Okay. Fuck. That's... Yeah. I wouldn't know what else to say, but stop, bro. What? You... Okay, let's actually go back to the competitiveness. Like I can't say you need help or like I can't offer you help because I don't know how to help you. With heroin and stuff, there are fucking people, places and stuff you can go to and sort your life out. But with competition or competitiveness or like that willing to want to win or hating when you lose, everyone hates when they lose. Of course, it's a sore feeling to lose.

Specs Gonzales 3:30

But it's how you react upon losing, it's night and day. I understand. And like learning how to lose is what makes a man. So what's it say? To stop being so competitive, shift your focus to personal growth, practice and celebrate others and pause when comparison arises.

Unknown 3:51

I mean, it's easy.

Specs Gonzales 3:53

Can I be honest? That sounds like gobbledygook. Yeah, yeah.

Unknown 3:55

I mean, actionable points. They're just saying stuff, really.

Specs Gonzales 3:59

Okay, change your habits. Okay, cool. Right. Notice the trigger. Okay. When you feel a spike of rivalry, pause and ask yourself if you feel insecure or worried about being left behind. How does that first point make you feel? When you feel a spike in rivalry, pause and ask yourself if you feel insecure or worried about Liam Beth. No, I don't feel insecure about anything or worried about being left behind.