Sips & Smacks
Episodes
Sips & Smacks - Ep 135: An Unscripted Life w/ Ami
01 Apr 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Life is full of twists and turns, but these are often for the best when we discover our true selves...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 134: Spanko Startles pt 2
18 Mar 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us in Part 2 of our spanko startles brought to you by our very own Smack Pack! And always rem...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 133: Spank Startles Pt 1
18 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Ever been caught off guard? Dive into the world of unexpected spanko startles in! For the month of...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 132: Discipline Fic 101
04 Feb 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )What's your favorite fanfic trope?We love the thrill of the inevitable and knowing that no mat...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 131: Netiquette (But Make It Kinky)
21 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )It can feel so intimidating joining an online community! There are different ways to interact and w...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 130: The Art of Vintage Hairbrushes w/ Marie
07 Jan 2026
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )As spankos, we are all about the aesthetic. Whether you are a top or a bottom, you probably have th...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 10: Gifts that make an impact!
24 Dec 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Yeah, we know Christmas is tomorrow, but what if you still need a gift for that special someone? Or...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 129: Punishment vs Funishment
26 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We've mentioned funishments before, but what makes them different from a punishment? Let&apos...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 128: An Oasis In The Desert w/ Bri
12 Nov 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We like big parties and we cannot lie! This week's guest help's plan one of the biggest n...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 127: Breaking & Making Habits With DD
29 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Sure, we could maybe make or break these habits without a spanking, but where is the joy and fun? (...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 126: Unpeeling the Onion
15 Oct 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Onions might be one of the most delicious foods made, but when we're unpeeling our own onion i...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 125: Spanko Archivists w/ Mija
30 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Sometimes, there are people you meet with a wealth of knowledge about our community and one of thos...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 9: Release Update & Drop Tips!
17 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )With the craziness of life, we need to slow down our release schedule to every other week. There wi...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 124: The You You Are
10 Sep 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Why do we like what we like? We reached out to our Smack Pack to learn about their journey and how ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 123: Butt Care 101 w/ Maura
27 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )** ALERT!! There will be no new episode next week! We literally couldn't find time to record 😭...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 122: A Little Polyamoury w/ Stephanie
20 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Stephanie joins us on this episode to talk about her kink journey from knowing she was a spanko to ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 121: Smack With Vibes
13 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Since we're spankos (surprise!), we like to over-analyze every aspect of this fetish... includ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 120: Spanking & Sexuality
06 Aug 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )In this episode, we reach out to our Smack Pack for their views on how spanking intersects with the...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 8: Summer Break + You might be a spanko if...
02 Jul 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We're taking a month off to enjoy our summer! But we've decided to end June with a fun li...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 119: The Parent Trap
25 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )But this has nothing to do with Lindsay Lohan... Instead, a lot of us who practice domestic discipl...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 118: Become Enlightened Or Else w/ Kiara
18 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Kiara joins us on this week's episode to talk about her spanko journey, love and loss, and the...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 117: Living a Double Life
11 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )When we actively practice domestic discipline, it can sometimes feel like we aren't able to li...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 116: Invasion of the Tops Pt 2
04 Jun 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Our tops join us in this episode to answer your burning questions! Join us for the laughter and fun...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 115: Grab Bag (of pain)
28 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Let's talk about all the different types of spankings and which ones are our favorites! We lov...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 114: Gender Identity & TTWD
21 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )How does That Thing We Do change or reinforce how we see ourselves, specifically with gender? Insp...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 113: The SQUIRM!
14 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We like to think of "the squirm" as the spanko form of flirting! Is there anything better...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 112: The "A-HA!" Moment
07 May 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )This week, Adalia asked our listeners what their “a-ha moment” was - the moment they realized t...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 111: Which Switch is Which?
30 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )May we have your attention please! Please welcome the lovely switch couple, LeatherKitten and Alex!...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 110: BDSM Spectrum
23 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we go through the BDSM test! Where do we stand on sex, polyamory, romance, and pain? Tak...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 109: Vulnerability
16 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Being vulnerable with a partner is both amazing and really really hard. We go through some things...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 108: Punishment Negotiation
09 Apr 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Everything we do comes down to communication and that includes punishments! How do you negotiate th...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 107: Downsides
19 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )It can feel freeing to finally accept ourselves for who we are, but there are some downsides to it ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 106: Mixing and Matching Kinks in a Relationship
12 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Sometimes our kinks don't match our partner's kinks and that's okay! But it can take...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 105: Bella's Journey w/ Bella
05 Mar 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Bella joins us on this episode to talk about her journey through finding her fetish almost accident...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 104: Time Machine w/ Our Listeners!
26 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )If you could go back in time & talk to your earlier self about your kink, what would you say?Ou...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 103: Sexy Spankings
19 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We talk a lot about how we often like to keep sex and spankings separate especially for discipline!...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 102: Navigating the Spanko-verse w/ BerkeleyGirl
12 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )BerkeleyGirl joins us to talk about her experience entering the spanko world as an older adult! Lis...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 101: Act Your (Inner) Age
05 Feb 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Our inner age might have some memory loss because we realized we had covered this topic 95 episodes...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 100: Celebrate Good Times!
29 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )What else is there to say but THANK YOU for listening and engaging! We wouldn't have it made i...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 99: Keeping Yourself Safe in Hard Times
22 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )If you're like us, we know this week is hard for you, but in anytime, you need to do what&apos...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 98: "Babygirl" Review ** SPOILERS **
15 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )THIS EPISODE CONTAINS SPOILERS FOR BABYGIRLIt can be both exciting and scary when "our thing&q...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 97: Talkin' Dudes Spankin' Dudes w/ Scott
08 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we talk to Scott from the podcast Dudes Spankin' Dudes on his experience in the kin...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 96: 24/7 Dynamics
01 Jan 2025
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Ever wondered what it was like being in a 24/7 dynamic? Or maybe you are in one and you're won...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 7: Holiday Break!
04 Dec 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )It's that time of year where the weather gets colder and our schedules get a lot tighter... (a...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 95: Spilling The Kinky Beans w/ Hels
27 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Does kinkery run in the family? Have you ever mentioned your fetish to your family? Well, Rex told ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 94: How Not To Pray the Spanko Away
20 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We asked our patrons how they went about praying the spanko away and how it clearly didn't wor...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 93: Consensual (Ethical) Non-Monogamy Pt 3
13 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )It's almost as if we can't stop talking about spanking and how it impacts (pun intended) ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 92: Inside Out
06 Nov 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Why do we like being disciplined? Why do we like being spanked?? It's complicated, but it come...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 91: A View from the Top
30 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )This week we're joined by our partners, Dan & C! They answer some questions about how they...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 90: Spanko Porn and Daddy Switches w/ Alex Reynolds
23 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Alex Reynolds joins us on the podcast this week to talk about working both as a model and producer ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 89: Defending Your Life...style
16 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )If you've ever tried to explain our kink to someone who doesn't "get it," you m...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 88: Putting the Play in Roleplay
09 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Roleplay (role play? role-play? who knows) can be an intimidating venture when it comes to DD or an...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 87: The Nitty Gritty of Communication
02 Oct 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Trust us, we know that communicating with a partner is hard. We are right there with you! But we ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 86: Gender Identity And Kink w/ Margot
25 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Our dear friend Margot joins us on the podcast to talk about her journey and how discovering her tr...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 85: Fighting Imposter Syndrome
18 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Sometimes we don't feel like the "perfect" spanko. Maybe we didn't look up &quo...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 84: Listener Questions Pt 2
11 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Another one (as DJ Khaled would say)! Join us as we answer more listener questions and Rex enjoys a...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 83: The Story of Jim w/ Jim
04 Sep 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Jim, Jimothy, Jimbo. There are many versions of the name but there is only one Jim. And Jim, partne...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 6: Hot Spanko Summer (Vacation)!
07 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Rex took a break from Supermarket Simulator just to edit this minisode for you all!In this episode,...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 82: Answering Listener Questions Part 1
01 Aug 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )** Apologies for the late episode! I published this earlier this week and messed up the audio! It&a...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 81: What Bottoms Want From Their Tops
24 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )As always, bottoms are not a monolith and these ideas are not what every bottom wants from their ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 80: Bottom Friends
17 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )No, we don't mean friends at the bottom of your list. We mean friends who are also bottoms! Ou...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 79: Starting DDLG w/ C
10 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG) can be a divisive kink even among kinksters. But we're here to sh...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 78: Starting DD w/ Dan
03 Jul 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Are you a spanko in a non-spanko relationship? Have you ever thought about bringing up with your pa...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 77: Spanking And Sexuality From Listeners Like You
26 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We had a great conversation with listeners about where fetish and sexuality intersect, if at all. J...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 76: Fantasy vs Real-Life
19 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We all have our secret fantasies and sometimes we want those fantasies to stay as fantasies. And th...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 75: Sexuality Revisited
12 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Happy pride!! (I know, I'm a few days late...)Today we revisit a topic we've talked about...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 74: Busting Punishment Myths
05 Jun 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Raise your hand if you've heard any of the following: punishments should make the bottom cry, ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 73: Domestic Discipline On Vacation
29 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )So you have a vacation coming up... Yay! But it makes it harder to do DD... Boo! But fear not beca...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 72: Finding A Relationship Through Spanking w/ Melinda
22 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Melinda joins us this week to talk about her transition from a vanilla marriage to a relationship w...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 71: Ethical Non-Monogamy Pt 2
15 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We know, we know... We've talked about this before. BUT! We haven't talked about it from ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 70: Common Spanko Mistakes
08 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We've all been there... we made a mistake. But we learn and we grow. So learn from our own mis...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 69: Mixing Kinks
01 May 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )A lot of us who listen to this podcast are spanking fetishists, but for many of us, our fetish mixe...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 68: The Art Of Making And Breaking Rules
24 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Not all DD relationships look the same and some of them include rules! How do you make rules? Are t...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 67: Planning Spanko Parties w/ Drew
17 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Have you ever wanted to host a spanko party? Well, Drew has you covered! Join us as we talk about t...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 66: Our Favorite (Spanking) Things
10 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens are both great things, but what about our favorite spank...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 65: Battling The Green-Eyed Monster
03 Apr 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Jealousy arises in many aspects of life and it's not just limited to intimate relationships. J...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 64: That's The Power Of (Spanking) Love w/ G
27 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we welcome G to the podcast to talk about her relationship with her husband, Roger from ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 63: To Be Or Not To Be... Out
20 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We all just want to be accepted for who we are and spankos are no exception to this. Join us as we ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 62: Hurts So Good
13 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Spanko pain tolerance is something brought up a lot in our podcast and in the community! But does h...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 61: Domestic Discipline Fantasy vs Reality
06 Mar 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Domestic Discipline looks so different for every single relationship and oftentimes we have to she...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 60: Real-Life Punishments Pt 2
28 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Because we're fetishists, we like to talk about spanking... a lot. Join us as we wonder again ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 59: Talking Nonsense And Spanking Tests w/ Abbey
18 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Abbey joins us to talk about her life growing up as a spanko, an unfortunate catastrophe during her...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 58: Ebbs And Flows
11 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Unfortunately, we experience ebbs and flows in all aspects of our lives, even spanking! What do you...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 57: Sipping Wooter and Talking Topping w/ Carrie
04 Feb 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we talk to Carrie about her experience finding herself as a top leaning switch, writing ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 56: Is Spanking Sexual?
28 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Come one, come all, as we do our best to parse through if spanking is sexual! Is it the act of it? ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 55: Born This Way
21 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )What is it like to grow up with a spanking fetish? A lot of us have common experiences like looking...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 54: Fifty Shades of Fucking Around and Finding Out
14 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )On this week's episode we discuss everyone's love to hate series: Fifty Shades of Grey. W...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 53: Why Spanking Is Good For You
07 Jan 2024
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )...or is it...? (Just kidding, you know what we're going to say, though Rex has her doubts...)...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 5: Happy Holidays/A Brief Update
03 Dec 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Hello, dear listeners! Coming at you with another minisode with a short update about the podcast. ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 52: A Spanko Love Story w/ Reyna
26 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we talk to Reyna - a lifelong spanko, spanking model, and now married to a former S&...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 51: Open & Honest Communication
19 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Any type of relationship requires open and honest communication, but in our experience, domestic di...
Sips & Smacks - Minisode 4: A Long Overdue Thank You
12 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Life got in the way for us once again and we couldn't get together to record, but we did want ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 50: Anniversary Special
05 Nov 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Welcome to a Very Special Episode! It's been one whole year since we've started this podc...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 49: Love Yourself, Baby
29 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Today we talk about body positivity and what our expectations were when entering the spanking scene...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 48: Brats, Brats, & More Brats (Or: Bratting 101)
22 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Do you consider yourself a brat or a brat tamer? What have you done that you're especially pro...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 47: Finding Joy In The Journey w/ Sylvia
15 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Sylvia joins us to tell her story how she found herself as a spanko! Patreon Good Girls & Boys...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 46: Immersive Roleplay
08 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )We're talking the types of roleplays that last hours or days! DD Bootcamp, Housewife Training,...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 45: Spanko Seeking Spanko
01 Oct 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )What is love? Baby, don't hurt me!But really... how does a spanko find a spanko? What are some...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 44: Domestic Discipline & Common Misconceptions
24 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Can people who like spanking actually be disciplined? Who's really in charge? Are we actually ...
Sips & Smacks - Ep 43: A Tale Of Two Fetishes w/ Emma
17 Sep 2023
Contributed by Lukas
Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( )Join us as we welcome Emma to the podcast to talk about her journey with two fetishes: spanking and...