The Problem with Authenticity & The Psychology That Fuels War
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Today on something you should know, the amazing things that happen when two people kiss. Then there's a lot of advice that says you should be more authentic. But there's also another
view. Authenticity as a concept is practically meaningless and not very helpful. Whether you think that you are acting in good faith or bad faith is part of who you really are. And even if you try really, really hard, you can only be you.
Plus, just how heavy is your purse or briefcase? Because it could matter. And the fascinating psychology of war. And why humans seem to need to
fight. Ultimately, I don't want my children to go off and fight a war. I think that would be a waste. But if we are not prepared to do that when we must, then we will be easy pickings for those who are prepared to do that.
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Something you should know. Fascinating intel. The world's top experts. And practical advice you can use in your life. Today, something you should know with Mike Carruthers.
You've probably heard the phrase and and the lyrics in the song, a kiss is just a kiss. Oh no, that's just not true. Hi, and welcome to something you should know. We're starting this episode talking about kissing. Because when two people kiss, there's a lot going on. Scientific reports say kissing increases the levels of oxytocin. That's the body's natural calming chemical and also increases endorphins. The body's feel-good chemicals. and aids in feelings of romantic attachment. According to anthropologist Helen Fisher, kissing is kind of a mate assessment tool. Much of your brain's cortex is devoted to picking up sensations from around your lips, cheeks, tongue, and nose. Out of twelve cranial nerves, five of them are picking up the data from around your mouth.
It is built to pick up the most sensitive feelings, the most intricate tastes. and smells and touch and temperature. And so when you're kissing somebody, you're getting a lot of data. Don't underestimate the workout your mouth gets during a makeout session. Researchers say you use 30 muscles while kissing, and all that kissing helps keep your cheeks tight. Kissing boosts immunity too. Kissing has long been thought to be a way of passing bacteria, which then strengthens the body's defenses. And that is something you should know. Everywhere you turn, it seems people are talking about authenticity. Be authentic. Show up as your true self. But here's the problem. What if you don't have just one self? I know I don't.
I adapt depending on where I am and who I'm with. At work, at home, at a party, or with kids. I'm not the same version of me.
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Chapters
5 chapters
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–1:48
2
What surprising science happens in the brain during a kiss?
1:48–23:59
3
Why does the idea of a single authentic self feel misleading?
23:59–26:44
4
How does Tomas Chamorro‑Premuzic suggest we rethink authenticity?
26:44–41:19
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What evidence shows that measuring authenticity is unreliable?
41:19–47:21
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