Have you ever looked like the picture of confidence on the outside, while secretly battling feelings of self-doubt or imposter syndrome on the inside? If so, this episode of Speaking with Confidence is for you. Hey, it’s Tim Newman. On this week’s episode, I explore what it really means to “feel confident,” not just look confident, and how we can bridge the gap between external appearance and our internal belief. I’m joined by the fantastic Joanna Zhang—international speaker, award-winning entrepreneur, and founder of The Operations Genius. Joanna has an incredible story of personal and professional transformation, having not only led her business to multiple international awards, but also overcome her own struggles with the imposter syndrome that so many high achievers face. Joanna and I dive deep into the journey from external validation to authentic self-assurance. We get honest about what it’s like to achieve on paper but still be wracked with self-doubt, and how that pattern shows up for so many high achievers. Joanna shares her firsthand experiences with winning big awards but initially not feeling “enough” on the inside, her transition into genuine self-celebration, and how she began to recognize and embrace her own strengths instead of endlessly comparing herself to others. We reflect on why it’s so hard for so many of us to accept compliments, celebrate wins, or acknowledge our growth—and how to start shifting that mindset. Joanna introduces some practical strategies (including the genius idea of a “happy fund” to reward yourself!) for building and maintaining real, lasting self-confidence. We also dive into: The trap of comparing your weaknesses to others’ strengths The pivotal shift from “doing” to “being”—and why slowing down is essential for real growth Recognizing the signals that your external confidence isn’t matched internally How to celebrate small wins and why it matters so much for long-term fulfillment Joanna’s journey from operating in a masculine leadership and communication style, especially in a male-dominated field, to finding balance and power in feminine energy and self-acceptance Why skills are only part of being an effective communicator: how your inner state and intention drive impact, connection, and influence Letting go of judgment and perfectionism to speak “from the flow,” and simple exercises to help you break free from fear and just get started (spoiler: you’ll surprise yourself!) The biggest confidence wounds facing the younger generation, and the influence of social media and family on self-worth Concrete actions you can start taking now to build up your authentic confidence, no matter where you’re starting from Whether you’re a leader, entrepreneur, creative, or simply someone seeking a more confident presence, Joanna’s approach is all about acceptance, celebration, and letting go of old patterns that no longer serve you. If you’ve ever wondered why outer confidence and inner confidence don’t always match—and what practical steps you can take to finally align the two—this episode will give you encouragement, actionable ideas, and a supportive reminder that you absolutely have the power to change your relationship with yourself, your work, and your communication. Thanks for joining Joanna and me on this powerful conversation. If you’d like to connect with Joanna, she’s easily found on LinkedIn—just search “Joanna Zhang Operations.” Be sure to visit speakingwithconfidencepodcast.com for more resources, including our free ebook, “Top 21 Challenges for Public Speakers and How to Overcome Them.” Until next time—keep celebrating your wins, inside and out. Your voice has the power to change the world! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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