How do you actually lead yourself before you can lead others, and what does self-leadership have to do with confidence and authentic communication? In today’s episode, we’re digging deep into the idea that most of us don’t really have a communication problem — we have a self-leadership problem. You can’t speak with confidence if you don’t trust your own voice, and you’ll never lead a team until you can lead yourself. I’m Tim Newman, your host, and today I’m joined by the insightful Chip Scholz. Chip is a man of stories and craft, a long-time business and leadership coach, and the author of Every Dog Has Its Day. He’s a guy who has found lessons in everything from family conversations to unexpected detours, shaping pieces of maple in his woodshop, and recovering from major life challenges like a stroke. His reflections on craft and life show us how small, quiet moments can fundamentally change who we become and what we’re willing to let go of. In our conversation, Chip Scholz brings a wealth of experience, not only from decades of coaching top executives but also from a journey of personal transformation. We talk about the lessons he learned at the lathe, the dangers of “forcing the cut” both with wood and with people, and why being authentic is at the heart of real leadership. We go beyond the clichés why “being authentic” is so much more than a buzzword, and how most people actually get this concept wrong. Chip Scholz unpacks why most folks struggle to articulate what they truly want, and how getting honest feedback is a critical first step in transformation. We dig into some of the tough stuff like navigating 360 evaluations without spiraling into self-doubt, and recognizing the difference between companies that “weaponize” feedback versus those that use it for real growth. We walk through the kind of accountability that separates real leaders from those just going through the motions, and why actions always speak louder than words. We also hit on the transition from doing to being as you move into leadership roles, and the pitfalls of believing your own PR at the top. We also talk about the importance of reading and lifelong learning, why so many people stop reading books after college and what they’re missing by doing so. Chip Scholz shares his framework built around the 5 Cs: context, clarity, conditioning, choice, and character. We discuss generational differences, social skill development (or lack thereof), and how cycles in society shape our communication and sense of self. Not to mention, we tackle the link between self-awareness, emotional literacy, and communication confidence and why being able to name your emotions and own them is a foundational skill for any leader or speaker. Here’s what we cover in this episode: Why trusting your own voice is step one to speaking and leading with confidence The power of craft: lessons from woodturning and how forcing things rarely works What “self-leadership” and “authenticity” really mean with concrete, actionable examples How to get honest about what you want (and why most people can’t) Feedback, 360 evaluations, and using criticism for growth instead of shame The accountability gap: keeping your word, taking ownership, and building trust Transitioning from “doing” to “being” in leadership roles The value of reading, writing, and being a lifelong learner for leaders and communicators Chip Scholz’s 5 Cs framework for effective self-leadership Generational dynamics, societal cycles, and how history repeats itself in new ways Vulnerability, emotional vocabulary, and why self-awareness (not just confidence) powers great communication When confidence and preparation go hand in hand and how everyone feels nervous (even us!) Practical advice for improving your speaking game, from reps to feedback to avoiding “death by PowerPoint” How social media, ego, and chasing attention can derail self-leadership and meaningful communication If you’re ready to reframe the way you think about leadership, confidence, and the voice you bring to the world, this episode is for you. Let’s do the work together because your voice has the power to change not just your world, but the world around you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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