Strawberry Letter

Married and Celibate

27 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 23 years, I’ve been married to the nicest guy in the world and I have always tried to be the perfect wife and m...

I Just Can't Do Church

26 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing you because I need your advice on how to talk to my mom. My mother is a very religious church-going woman and I d...

All Eyes On Me

25 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 33 year old married woman with a great body, pretty face, long healthy hair and a lot of confidence. I got married four...

She Is Making Me Want To Fight Her

22 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he ...

My Wife's Cooking Is Going To Kill Us

21 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, please help me handle an issue with my wife. We are in our 30s and have been married 12 years and we have two children. We hav...

I Have A Little Issue With My New Man

20 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 41 year old divorced woman and to be honest, I’m waiting for my knight in shining armor. I am in no way a picky pers...

I Have A Little Issue With My New Man

20 Mar 2019

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He Claims He Got A Divorce For Me

19 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 53 year old single woman and I was dating a guy from my past. We reconnected five months ago and he told me that he wo...

Never Trust Your Man's Female Friends

18 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 27 year old woman and I’ve had a few relationship issues because I just can't seem to pick the right man. Maybe it’s...

I Am Sick Of My Daughter

15 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m tired of motherhood.  Sorry, but I am no longer interested in being a mother.  I am 28 years old and I have a 5 year o...

I Never Suspected She Had A Crazy Side

14 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I just broke up with a great woman that I had planned to spend my life with. I got a ring and proposed and we were planning ou...

Should I Ask For Permission Or Forgiveness

13 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married to a great man and I am truly blessed to have him in my life, but there is one issue. He is a very proud man and ...

I'm Looking Forward To Living In My Car

12 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a hard working female that’s ready to  put my belongings in storage and live in my car, because of the problems I’m h...

It's My House And I Will Smoke If I Want To

11 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for 5 years and we live in a 5 bedroom home. My parents recently moved to the city we live in,...

I Was Willing To Settle For A Loser

08 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was attracted to a very sweet, tall, dark, and handsome guy and I was dying to meet him, so I made the first move and I aske...

Is She Delusional Or Am I A Hater

07 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m writing you for advice on how to deal with a female family member. I believe that all women should be confident, regardl...

Thundercat On The Prowl

06 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced, 44 year old single mom.  As an attractive, curvy, and educated woman, I have no problems meeting men, it’s...

He's Scared To Sleep With Me

05 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married woman in my mid 30s and I want to have children, but my husband does not. From the time we got married till now...

I Can't Keep Living A Lie

04 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I married my husband by mistake. He is in law enforcement on a special drug task force, but I'm starting to think that he is i...

It's Not My Business But I Want To Tell It

01 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing this letter as a concerned third party. I have two friends that have been married for over 15 years and I thought...

My Fiance Is Jealous Of My Bromance

28 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been engaged to my fiancé for a year and I love her dearly. When we met, I had a lot of female friends and I let those...

When Role Playing Goes Too Far

27 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my early twenties and I’m dating a guy that I've known this since high school. He was my high school crush and I alw...

My Ignorant Lover Calls Me Boujee

26 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a guy that I am embarrassed of. He and I met in college about 8 years ago and we lost contact initially because he...

He's The Daddy But I Am The Father

25 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single man and I had a special lady that I dated for 4 years. Over the years, we had our differences, so we...

A Quickie That Will Last A Lifetime

22 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old single mom and my daughter is a sophomore at a local college. She lives on campus, but she comes home to wa...

What's With All The Nude Pictures

21 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 65 year old grandmother that has recently got back on the dating scene. After dating a few losers, I met a really nice...

Grinding and Grabbing Might Get Me In Trouble

20 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old happily married man. I’ve been married for 17 years to one of the finest women in the world, but six mont...

My Housewife Misses The Streetlife

19 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married and have been with my wife for many years. We were good friends before we became lovers and I helped her work thr...

He Wants Me, But Not The Children

18 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old female married to a 49 year old man. I have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem. My c...

Can a Cheater Ever Change

15 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 19 years but we are not married. I stayed in this relationship because I do really love my g...

Menage or Nah

14 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I need your help. We want Nephew Tommy’s opinion too. We met in college and we’ve been married for 12 years...

Hate Comes In Small Packages

13 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 62 year old African American grandmother and this past weekend, I took my 5 year old grand daughter, who I call “Bab...

Get The Funk Out Of My Face

12 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a guy for close to three years and I need some advice on a major issue I’m having with him. I love this man...

If You Lost Your Underwear Please Call Me

11 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married man that drives part-time as a Lyft/Uber driver for extra income for my family. Last week, I got home late one ...

My Husband's Drinking Buddy

08 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for 3 years, but my husband and I have been together for 13 years. Our relationship has had its challenges a...

My Ex-Wife Ran My Fiance' Off

07 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in desperate need of advice. I was engaged to be married, but my fiancé and I recently split up after my ex-wife caused ...

My Husband and I Want Our Girlfriend Back

06 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I’m a 37 year old married woman and I found out that my husband was sleeping with my girlfriend, when Shirley read my girlfri...

Could Her Ex Be My Next

05 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single 38 year old female and I like dating older gentlemen. I’m open to online dating and I have met some nice men ...

Should I Do It For The Culture

04 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old single female and my family moved to the states when I was 15 so we could have a better life. In my culture...

I Want A Real Man, Not This Man

01 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my husband for 13 years, but we have been together for a total of 23 years. We have one son and my husb...

Your Online Friend Is Overstepping Boundaries

31 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice, although this may not be your area of expertise. I'm a 27 years and I met my partner on a nationwide Faceb...

You Have To Take The Good With The Bad

30 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice on a different kind of double standard with men and women. My ex-boyfriend has a lot of flaws and I overloo...

My Husband's Supportive Secretary

29 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 14 years and we have two sons. My husband is a middle school principal and I work full time in an offi...

I Gave Her Life But She Can't Have My Man

28 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 46 years old and last year I married a man that's 18 years younger than I am. We met at the gym and the initial sexual att...

My Husband Is Not Carrying Her Casket

25 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, here’s my ordeal. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 beautiful children. One of my husband’s lon...

Neither One Of Us Can Be Trusted

25 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our late 30s and have been married for 15 years . We’ve had some hiccups in our marriage and we went...

So You're The Only One That Can Cheat

23 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my partner for 5 years and we have a child together. In the beginning, my partner cheated on me multiple times an...

Ain't Nothing Holy About His Behavior

22 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my family has a church that they’ve been going to all their life and I recently joined. I decided to devote my life to fello...

All In The Family

18 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am keeping a secret from my sweetie and I need your advice. When I was 18 years old and a senior in high school, I was in lo...

I Don't Want To Be This Type Of Movie Star

17 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my girl and I have been together for three years and I instantly knew she was the one when I met her. She cooks, watches sport...

If You Don't Get Yo Mama, I Will

16 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have found the man of my dreams and we have been together for 5 years. We have one child together and I’m pregnant with ou...

She's Falling In Love With A Liar

15 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old black man and I’ve been divorced for two years and I feel that I’m a great catch for a nice single woma...

Variety Is The Spice Of Life, Right

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father...

Variety Is The Spice of Life, Right?

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father...

I'm All Gassed Up About Losing Weight

11 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for a year now, and since then, we have both gained a considerable amount of weight. I've g...

I Thought I Found The Perfect Man

10 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hardworking, educated, financially secure, good looking mature woman with a lot to offer, but since my divorce, I had b...

You Ever Heard Of An Old Fool

09 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, do you think that dating rules for seniors are different than those for younger people? I need to know cause I am trying to fi...

Am I Trifling and Ungrateful

08 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 42 year old single mother and I have two teenage children that live with me. At my age, I wanted to become a homeowner ...

My Wife Is Living Like She Is Single

07 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for 8 years and we have two wonderful children. Early on, we had problems in ou...

They Don’t Make ‘Em Like They Used To

04 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue. I...

A Step-Mom That Needs To Step Away

03 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 11 years. My husband has three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons and ...

I Can't Keep This Secret Much Longer

02 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I met in college and we've been together for three years. She is perfect in every way. She has the looks a great...

My Sexy Neighbor

01 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, You're not going to believe this. I'm a married man and my wife and I just purchased our first home in a new community. To cel...

A Stinky Situation

31 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very nice man three months ago and we hit it off pretty quick. He's been taking me on a lot of nice dates and we have ...

My Freaky Friend And His Wacky Wife

28 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm still best friends with my high school sweetheart. He's happily married now and his wife and I are good friends too. Here'...

Closer Than Close Best Friends

27 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a male best friend that I want to be more than friends with. I was taught that the man is supposed to pursue the woman ...

Whose Is It

26 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, This past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing day with the man of my dreams. We planned to go out to dinner. So af...

You Can't Get Anything For Free From Me

24 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I used to be a working girl, but I've been out of the game for five years. Since I made this big lifestyle change, I have only...

Why Is Her Ex Still Checking On Her Re-enactment

21 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

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Why Is Her Ex Still Checking On Her

21 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. When I met her she had just ended a relationship with a wealthy man t...

He Chose His Wife Over Me

20 Dec 2018

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My Marriage Is Stable But Stale

19 Dec 2018

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Should I Overlook His Trust Issues

18 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old divorced mother of five. Recently I met the man that I am now in love with. The chemistry was bananas from t...

Me And My Man Have A Little Situation

17 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's...

Love Is Not Enough For Me

14 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I are not compatible at all and I am not sure why I keep trying to make our relationship work. He says he lov...

I've Been With A Few Of His Buddies

13 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old female and I’ve been dating a 40 year old guy for a year. I am madly in love with him and I believe he’...

Our Friendship Has Turned Into A Threesome

12 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice on a situation with my best friend and her husband. My friend and I have known each other since high schoo...

I Wish My Boyfriend Was Bigger

11 Dec 2018

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You Can't Hide A Beautiful Body

10 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single woman without any children and I am dating a 41 year old man that has 3 young daughters. We’ve bee...

I'd Rather Watch Him, Than Talk To Them

07 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my friends and family say that I have a problem. I don’t think I do. Here’s the issue at hand… I'm in love with a marrie...

The Minister Wants More Than My Tithes

06 Dec 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single female and my dad is a well-known pastor. I moved back home after college and I’ve been a big part...

One Big Happy Family Or Nothing At All

05 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 3 years and we get along great. We’ve talked about getting married, but we have to work out a f...

My Girlfriend's Husband's Baby

04 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old female and I’ve been dating a 36 year old married woman for two years. Recently, she and her husband were...

My Neighbors Are Ghetto Fabulous

03 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old, single, black man. I am a college professor and I just bought my first condo in a nice new development in...

I Don't Want To Share My Cookie

30 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my wife for 15 years and we have two beautiful kids. We grew up in the church and we abstained from sex...

Torn Between My Daddy And My Man

29 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old single mom of a 16 year old and I still live at home with my 84 year old father. I have never moved out bec...

I Can't Call Her Husband Daddy

28 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old female and I have a 57 year old male mentor that I work with. He has given me great advice and helped me t...

Thanks For Having A Child For My Man

27 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, let’s get right to it. Here's my dilemma… I’m a 38 year old woman and I've never wanted to have children. Five years ag...

My Old Man And His Old Lady

26 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

I am 33-year-old woman that is madly in love with a 63-year-old man. We have been dating for over a year and we spend a lot of time together. I am hea...

He Chose His Wife Over Me

23 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley. I need your advice because I really want to kick my dad's wife’s behind. I am a 42 year old single mother of two kids. My ch...

He Had Me Fooled

22 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a guy for a year and he treats me really nice. We live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour ap...

Childless Manless Clueless and Hung Over at 40

21 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve Harvey and Shirley. Currently I am separated and over 40 can't have any children. Main reason for my divorce anyway. I met a man Mr. Man wh...

My Man Is Bugging Me

20 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley. I have a problem. I met a guy and I consider him a good friend and I want to get to know him better. He has taken me on a few ...

He Won't Keep Doing Wrong For Long

19 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a successful 32 year old woman that got caught up with a 45 year old man. Before dating him, I’ve only had one serious ...

I'm Whipped In More Ways Than One

16 Nov 2018

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Dear Shirley and Steve, I've been married to my wife for over ten years and we have five kids. Before we got married, my wife was in an abusive relati...

We Fit Together Like a Lock and Key

15 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been in a relationship with a married man for ten years. People think that all mistresses have low self-esteem. However, ...

I'm Not Sure If I Can Do This

14 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in a fairly new relationship with a great guy. Everything was going great the first 90 days of our relationship, so we w...

My Wife and Kids

13 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make. I have two teenage children and their mother and I separated 10 y...

My Old Man Is Up To Some New Tricks

12 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have a beautiful blended family. We worked hard to provide a great life...

Do You Think He Can Stop Cheating

09 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I can’t trust anybody these days, so I’m coming to you for advice. Four years ago, my husband and I were married and we re...