Strawberry Letter

He's Old Enough To Know Better

15 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married over 20 years and thought everything was going well in my marriage. My husband and I are in our late 50s a...

My Neighbor Wants To Borrow A Few Things

14 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old male who is currently dating a female that lives 200 miles from me. We make an effort to meet 3 times a mon...

You Are Not As Fine As You Think You Are

13 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, recently, I've noticed that there are lots of women that think they got it going on and don’t mind bragging on how fine they...

My Parents Are Freaks

12 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old college graduate and I recently moved back in with my mother to save some money and get my own place. My pa...

Me and My Man Have A Little Situation

09 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's...

I Can't Wait For School To Start

08 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently found out that my 17 year old son had sex for the first time. He's entering his senior year in high school and his ...

I Can't Believe How Naive I Am

07 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for the past 5 years to a very controlling man. He worked offshore so he was gone from the home a lot and ...

His Goal Is To Please Me

06 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single 46 year old, 6 foot tall black woman. I became single about 4 years ago and until recently, I’ve been enjoying...

My Fiancé Is Looking Like A Bum

05 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 29 year old newly engaged mother of 2. My fiancé is smart, loving, caring and crazy, just how I like it. The problem is ...

Is He My Kids Daddy or Grandaddy

02 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley as Nephew Tommy would say buckle up and hold on tight. There is no easy way to explain my situation. I am a 28 year old married...

Two-Faced Best Friend

01 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and were really close for 10 years. We were more like sisters and we told each other all of our secrets. Last y...

What Kind Of Freaky Stuff Is This

31 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 40 year old mother of an eighteen year old son and I need your opinion. We have a computer in our den and recently, I c...

Old Lying, Cheating THOT!

30 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 58 year young woman and I have been involved with this man since 2007 and he is a lying cheating thot! We are not toget...

I'm A Cute Christian

29 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 32 year old newly divorced mom of a one year old. I haven’t dated in a long time, so I decided to join an online Chris...

I Think My Mom's A Sidepiece

26 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley. Hey Tommy. My mom is 52 years old and she's been dating this guy for ten years. It's very good to her He wines and dines her a...

He Loves Me But He Dates Other Women

25 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old single mother of two beautiful girls and I’m in the US Army. I’ve been casually dating a gentleman for ...

My Wife Wants To Be A Supersized Model

24 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 40 year old man and my wife is 36. After my wife had our two sons, she gained a lot of weight. I love her so much and I’...

My Relationship Is Going Up In Smoke

23 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my lady and I have been dating for three years. We met at work… She’s a nurse and I am an administrator. We love working t...

My Man Wants To Play Follow The :Leader

22 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been living together for three months. He prides himself on being the man of the house and he enjoys p...

I Tried But I'm Not Being Satisfied

19 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Miss strawberry. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year and I love him so much. We hardly ever argue or fight because we live ...

That Thing Terrifies Me

18 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old white female and I am proud to say that I am still a virgin. Five months ago, I met a very nice 33 year old...

My Champagne Dreams and His Beer Budget

17 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have heard Steve Harvey and an elder in my family say that you can train a man to do anything you want him to do. Well, I ha...

There’s No Way He Can Meet My Family

16 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old woman and I've been dating a 29 year old man for a year. We met in graduate school and immediately hit it ...

I Need My Husband's Permission To Have Sex

15 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in my late 40s and I’m married to a wonderful man.We had a very normal sex life until he had a car accident and became d...

Something Ain't Right with My Fiancé & His BFF

12 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I reconnected with an old high school flame in January and we got engaged a couple of weeks ago. Well before he asked me to ma...

My Man Or My Kids

11 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been living together for a year, but we’ve been together for 9 years. I have 3 kids that live with u...

She's Ready For Marriage, I'm Not

10 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m dating a woman that is 36 years old and I’m 26 years old. The age difference doesn’t bother me much but she has a so...

My Best Friend Is Either Sprung Or She's Slow

09 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, three years ago, my best friend and my older brother started dating. I was against it from the start and I told her that my br...

This Woman Is Making Me Nervous

08 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old man and my wife and I have been married for 4 years. Our marriage got off to a rough start and we separated...

My Ex-Girlfriend Is A Huge Problem

05 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a big problem. Two years ago I relocated for work. Before I moved I had a special lady that I enjoyed spending time wit...

She's Doing Too Much On The Gram

04 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my wife's image on social media. My wife has an Instagram account and I feel like the picture she posts a...

Let's Get It Started

03 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I am I am darn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We've been married for almost ten years and have two children both under th...

Can A Menage A Trois Save My Marriage

02 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my husband for 20 years and we've been married for three years. He cheated on me multiple times with multiple wom...

4 Years Later I'm Still His Girlfriend

01 Jul 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm stuck. I've read your book Steve and I've been with my boyfriend for four years. In the four years we've bought a home and...

My Lover Calls Me Mom

28 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am 50 year old divorced lady with a 28 year old lover. We’ve been together for two years but I met him when he was...

Somebody Has A Secret Admirer

27 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice for this issue I’m having. I have fallen for someone that I have never met in person. I have heard...

My Husband Is Such A Dummy

26 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 20 years and it’s been the longest 20 years ever. Neither of us have been perfect in the marriage, b...

Can You Turn A Ho Into A Husband

25 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old woman and I had a one night stand with a 29 year old very sexy Brazilian guy. He gave me the best sex of m...

He's Handsome and So Is She

24 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old mother of 3 handsome boys. My youngest son is getting married, but I have an issue with his fiancé and I f...

Maybe I Should Hang Out With My Ex Too

21 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married and my wife and I have a five year old daughter. My wife’s relationship with her ex-boyfriend is not normal an...

My Man Wants To Make America Great Again

20 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old white woman and I am dating a man who is half black, half Latino. He is 32 years old, a great provider, has...

Your Child Is Too Darn Big

19 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice. I am a 30 year old babysitter at my church’s daycare and I’m really concerned about one child at the d...

A Father Should Never Have To See That

18 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Mr. Harvey and Ms Strawberry, I am a 22 year old guy and my girlfriend is 21. She still lives at home and she’s a virgin, so we’ve been takin...

My Man Loves Being In The Dog House

17 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman, dating a 34 year old man. We were together 9 months and waited almost 5 months before we started hav...

Our Modern Day "Full House" Isn't Working

14 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 48 year old female and I live in my childhood home with my 2 older sisters, older brother, my son, my son’s girlfrie...

I'm Not Letting Him Go Without A Fight

13 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 23 year old woman and one of my closest friends turned out to be a dirty skank that stole my man. Two years ago, my best...

I Gave The Teacher An Oral Exam

12 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m an elementary school teacher with a big problem. I graduated from college two years ago and it’s my first year teachin...

There's Turmoil In My Congregation

11 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, since you help everyone, I hope you can help me too. I have been the Senior Pastor of my congregation for 13 years and lately,...

I Hope My Wife Will Have An Open Mind

10 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my wife over 20 years and I’m still deeply in love with her and still find her very attractive and desirable....

Steph and KD Get More Attention Than I Do

07 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been seeing this amazing guy for a few months. We would go out 3 to 4 times a week and I really like spending time with...

Keeping It All In The Family

06 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your advice but I pray that you are not too stern with me. I am a 31 year old successful and beautiful woman with two c...

The Second Child Could Ruin My Relationship

05 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 22 years old and I have a 3 year old daughter with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for 6 years but we’ve been off a...

My Husband Is An Embarrassing Butthead

04 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband acts like an absolute child at times and I can’t deal with it. It’s like having a third child and I am so tired...

My Vows Are Weighing Heavy On Me

03 Jun 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 16 years and my wife and I were headed for divorce 6 years ago because of her infidelity. She cheated ...

I Need Him To Go A Little Bit Longer

31 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband is a great provider and what I love most about him is the way that he loves the Lord. We dated for 3 years before w...

Do I Choose My Man Or My Friends

30 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young, healthy and wise beyond my years single woman, that is a leader to my peers. At my young age, I have found the m...

My Sister Can't Have My Girlfriend

29 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have some news to share with you and I need your input. I am a 33 year old woman and I have a female friend that everyone th...

You're Never Too Old To Get Played

28 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have dated a man for the past several months and you will not believe what happened over the holiday weekend. He told me tha...

I Left In The Middle Of The Night

27 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I need your honest advice here because I don't know how to handle this situation. I'm in my late 40s and in a good relationship...

My Husband Is Not Handling His Business

24 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hi Steve and Shirley, I really need your advice. I'm a 32 year old woman and my husband is 37. When we first got married, our sex life was amazing. Ab...

Good Things Do Not Come In Small Packages

23 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a mother of 2 beautiful kids and have been married for 8 years. When I met my husband, life was great and out of nowhere, ...

My Doctor Has Great Hands

22 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 33 year old single mom of three beautiful children. We recently moved to another state and I had to find a new everythi...

You Can't Have Your Cake And Eat It Too

21 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a guy for six months and he’s one of the sweetest men that I have ever met. This weekend, he disclosed so...

Locked Up and In Love

20 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 33 year old single female and for the past year or so, I have been having a romance with an inmate that has been in pri...

My Man Wants To Share His Goodies

17 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 27 year old female and my man is slightly younger than I am. He's an underwear model for several online magazines and th...

I Wish I Didn't Trust Her So Much

16 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 26 year old man with 2 children and a wonderful wife of 4 years. My wife recently graduated from medical school and she...

Is A Good Heart And Good Personality Enough

15 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating someone special for four months and so far, he is amazing. He loves the Lord and he has a great personality...

My Lady Acts Like A Man And Thinks Like A Man

14 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a beautiful, strong, talented woman and everything was okay in the beginning, until we had sex for the first time....

He Can't Get Rid Of His Hood Mentality

13 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old married woman and my husband just turned 30. We have a great marriage, but I need you to help me settle an a...

My Freaky Old Man

10 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a distinguished retired man and after our second date, he told me that I needed to have an open mind about sex bec...

I Want To Call It Quits

09 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My life could not be more complicated. I'm a 36 year old woman and I've been dating the same man for 21 years. Yes that's righ...

My Ex-Girlfriend Is A Huge Problem

08 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a big problem. Two years ago I relocated for work. Before I moved I had a special lady that I enjoyed spending time wit...

We're Just Friends, But We Could Be So Much More

07 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in a bad situation and I need your advice. A few months ago, I was in a great relationship and my man and I were happy. ...

20 Years Later, He Still Wants MGP

06 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 46 year old single lady and I am ready for the next chapter in my life. In 1999 I dated a man off and on for a while, b...

An Unattractive Man's Plea For Help

03 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing you for advice since I have heard you guys talk about this on the show before. I’m in my mid 30s and I’m an e...

He Can Leave And Take His Son With Him

02 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for over 20 years and we have 4 children, 3 daughters and 1 son. My husband is a truck driv...

The Outcome of My Threesome

01 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a five month old son who was conceived during a threesome. I had an affair on my boyfriend of three years with a guy th...

He's Turning Me Into His Mama

30 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 39 year old engaged woman and my fiancé is terrific, but I need your advice. My fiancé and I met in the Emergency Roo...

Drunk Dialing Dilemma

29 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a situation that has become a huge frustration in my life and I need advice on setting healthy boundaries with a good f...

I Wish This Old Man Would Leave

26 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, 5 years ago, I got involved with an older   married man that was my boss. In the beginning, it was strictly business and I me...

He's Got Mulitiple Women and Babies

25 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and I met five years ago and we had a lot of mutual friends. I had just gotten a divorce and she was there to c...

Am I The Wife Or The Other Woman

24 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Shirley and Steve, my husband and I have been married for two years. When we met, he told me that he and his ex-wife have a great system of co-pa...

My Son Caught Me Cheating

23 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley,  I have been married to my amazing husband for 18 years. We have 3 children, ages 18, 14, and 10. I love my husband, but his...

My Girlfriend's Husband's Baby

22 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley,I am a 31 year old female and I’ve been dating a 36 year old married woman for two years. Recently, she and her husband were ...

I Can't Get Back In Bed With Him

19 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a man that I consider to be my soul mate. We have a long distance relationship but we see each other often. He alw...

Something Wasn't Smelling Right

18 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married associate pastor and my wife is a stay-at-home mom. Two months ago, I went to Africa on a mission trip and whe...

A Huge Problem In Our Relationship

17 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been together for five years and we’ve been faced with many obstacles, but the main one started over...

I'd Rather Say I Don't Instead of I Do

16 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m getting married soon and I do love my fiancé with all my heart, but there are some things that I really do not like abo...

My Grandpa Is Lonely And Needs Some Loving

15 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 42 year old married woman and my 76 year old father-in-law moved in with us after his wife died last year. He was very...

What's Wrong With Her Chipping In

12 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a hardworking man. I work from sun up to sun down, and I do well for myself. Two years ago I met a very beautiful woman wh...

My Husband And I Were Being Filmed

11 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our early 30s and my best friend asked us to house-sit for her and her husband while they were out of ...

I Need Him To Use It Before I Lose It

10 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I both are 75 years old and we’ve been in a great relationship for about 15 years. When we met, we hit it o...

Turned On And Off At The Same Time

09 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my early forties and I have been happily married and faithful to a wonderful man for 9 years. My husband says he like...

One Splash Of Alcohol Ended Everything

08 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m the subject from one of your recent letters. I was the wife that found out at a birthday cookout that my husband cheated...

My Past Thing Is Her New Fling

05 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old happily married female with a beautiful family. I need our advice on how to handle a little situation with ...

A Piece Of A Man Or No Piece At All

04 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced 59 year old woman and I started dating a 67 year old sexy gentleman in December. Our relationship is great. We...

He Prefers Himself Over Me

03 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 29 and my boyfriend has me really confused. He’s three years younger than me and we just started having sex, or at least...

My Dangerous One Night Stand

02 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old single female in need of your help. Back in August, I ran into one of my dad's best friends at a business ...

Doggystyle Lifestyle

01 Apr 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old woman and I just moved in with my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for one year and we have a great relations...

The Cookie Drove My Best Friend Crazy

29 Mar 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I have a male best friend. Well, I had a male best friend that I had been friends with since midd...