Strawberry Letter

This Dummy Messed Up A Good Thing

02 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiancé and I have been together for six years. We like to have fun in the bedroom, which often includes a third person joi...

Can't Judge A Book By It's Cover

01 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating the 6’4 tall drink of water for a few months. He is honest generous humorous and fun to be around. We decid...

Best of 2019: Sexy And Simple Minded

01 Jan 2020

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 29 year old man and three months ago, I started dating a gorgeous woman in her mid-twenties. She has the best body, smoo...

My Husband Has Lost His Mind

31 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 47 year old female in my third marriage. My husband and I have been married for five years and he treats me like a queen...

Best of 2019: Saved By The Finger

31 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I attend a prominent mega church and I’m very active in my church. The church threw a back-to-school bash for the children a...

Her Mother And Daddy Got To Go

30 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 41 year old married man. My wife and I have been married for 19 years. We've also been living with her parents for the e...

Best of 2019: I Get Excited Very Easily

30 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your help and advice with an embarrassing problem. I’m a 28 year old, healthy black male and I am single. Sinc...

Best of 2019: My Husband Has Got To Have It

27 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm newly married and my husband told me that he was a freak when we started dating. He is loving and supportive, a hard-worki...

I Wish My Boyfriend Was Bigger

27 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my mid 30s and I’m 5’1” and I weigh 128lbs. I am dating a personal trainer and he weighs 170lbs. He used to weig...

Best of 2019: My LIttle Ugly Boyfriend

26 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old single woman and I met the man of my dreams two years ago on a dating website. He lives in Tampa and I live...

You Ever Heard Of An Old Fool

26 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, do you think that dating rules for seniors are different than those for younger people? I need to know cause I am trying to fi...

Best of 2019: What Does He Have To Hide

25 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 15 months and we are in a monogamous relationship. He’s 57 years old and I’m 49 years old and...

Best of 2019: I Can't Call Her Husband Daddy

24 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old female and I have a 57 year old male mentor that I work with. He has given me great advice and helped me th...

You Can't Hide A Beautiful Body

24 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single woman without any children and I am dating a 41 year old man that has 3 young daughters. We...

Best of 2019: My Man Is Too Loving And Gentle

23 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36yr old female in a long-distance relationship with a man in his early 40s. Things are good between us, and honestly, ...

One Big Happy Family Or Nothing At All

23 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 3 years and we get along great. We’ve talked about getting married, but we have to w...

We Fit Together Like A Lock And Key

20 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

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The Minister Wants More Than Tithes

19 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single female and my dad is a well-known pastor. I moved back home after college and I’ve been a big part...

He Cursed His Own Mama Out

18 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I prayed and asked God to send me a great man. It took ten long years but my prayers were answered and I got an amazing man. W...

Should I Tell My Wife About These Women

17 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, Four months ago I married the love of my life. So far, our marriage is great. I'm a head chef at a high end restaurant and I l...

How Well Do You Know Your Neighbors

16 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married to a wonderful man for almost 30 years. He's an excellent father and provider, but over the years I've spent...

My Husband Has Got To Have It

13 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm newly married and my husband told me that he was a freak when we started dating. He is loving and supportive, a hard-worki...

My Old Uncle Is Still A Player

12 Dec 2019

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Dear Auntie Shirley and Uncle Steve, I have a problem with my real family members, so I want to be your niece instead. Here’s my problem… I’m a ...

I Need To Know Who The Other Woman Was

11 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 42 year old woman and I have been seeing a man for 6 months and we go out several times a week and we’ve started havi...

My Fiance Won't Give Me His Password

10 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for four years. When we were dating I would sneak and go through his phone to see his text ...

Why Is Her Husband So Insecure

09 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am happily married and my wife and I have two kids. The problem is I have a female friend from college. My female friend is ...

What Does He Have To Hide

06 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a man for 15 months and we are in a monogamous relationship. He’s 57 years old and I’m 49 years old and...

My Husband Had Two Affairs And Three Kids

05 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 13 years and 6 years ago my husband cheated on me and had a child by the lady he had an affair with. I...

My Husband Likes Ramps And Rumps

04 Dec 2019

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Hello Steve and Shirley, I need your advice on an issue between my husband and I. We have been married for a year and he’s a wonderful husband, but ...

My Mom Loves Taking Care Of Young'uns

03 Dec 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my mother and I are very close and live together. We recently relocated to a new city a few months ago because of my new job. ...

I Get Excited Very Easily

02 Dec 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I really need your help and advice with an embarrassing problem. I’m a 28 year old, healthy black male and I am single. Sinc...

I Can't Call Her Husband Daddy

29 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old female and I have a 57 year old male mentor that I work with. He has given me great advice and helped me th...

My Ex Husband Is Now My Kids Uncle

28 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I've been praying over it for years but I can’t seem to get over it. I married a man when I was 26 year...

Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

27 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Shirley and Steve, I am a 20 year old black woman who comes from a very loving and caring family that carries themselves in a very classy and re...

Will My Man Choose Me For The Holidays

26 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old beautiful and successful woman and I’m in love with a 44 year old, well-educated hunk that swept me off ...

My Husband Is Really Feeling Himself

25 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old wife and mother. My husband is 32. We’ve been together 10 years and got married 2 years ago. I don’t ha...

My Work Wife Is Sloppy And Messy

22 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a loving and respectable married man that likes to flirt. My wife knows I’m a flirt and she just tolerates it because ...

My Husband Is Raising My Boyfriend's Son

21 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m just going to jump right in and get to it. I’m married and he’s married. We both have families. I have 3 kids and he...

Your Baby Is Not Cute At All

20 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old married woman and my husband and I need your advice on an issue with our closest friends. Our friends are f...

I've Never Seen It Or Touched It

19 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a long-distance relationship with a great guy for the past six years. We live an hour apart so it’s not far a...

I Got More Than Her Measurements

18 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I’m in my late 50s and I’m still a bachelor. I don’t have a problem meeting beautiful women and I don’t have a problem ...

He's Gotta Have It

15 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 35 year old woman dating a 41 year old man. We’ve been dating for about 5 months and we had sex a few times before we...

Her Old Man Is Taking Care Of My Family

14 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have two children with my high school sweetheart. We both come from seriously dysfunctional families and we were all each ot...

He Wants To Keep It In The Family

13 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 7 years and we have two young children. After having my second child, my desire to have sex decreased ...

Stop Wandering All Over My House

12 Nov 2019

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I Need More Than Hugging and Hunching

11 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am engaged to a 63 year old man that acts a lot older than he is. His thoughts on sex and life in general shock me and I nee...

Living With Another Man's Wife

08 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married a little over a year now and this is my second marriage. Since the wedding, my husband and I had been sear...

Roaches Are A Dealbreaker For Me

07 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help. I am 27 years old and I have lived with my fiancé for two years. We bought our first house together and eve...

Will He Leave Her For Me Or Not

06 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve worked with a guy for over 6 years and over time, we became attracted to each other. We went out a few times and had se...

My Sugar Daddy Isn't So Sweet Anymore

05 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dealing with an older man for a year. He’s 66 years old and I’m 30 years old, so I guess you can call him my s...

I'm Dating Her Brother-in-law

04 Nov 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently met a wonderful man and we instantly had a connection. I am a widow and his wife died earlier this year. When we me...

My Man Is Too Gentle And Loving

01 Nov 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 36yr old female in a long-distance relationship with a man in his early 40s. Things are good between us, and honestly, ...

Smiling In My Face While Backstabbing Me

31 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 17 years to a man who I thought was trustworthy, honest and a good Christian man. We are both in our 4...

My Husband's Behavior Is Bugging Me

30 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem that’s bugging me. My husband has always been attracted to big butts and a smile, and his girls before me w...

Could Her Son Be My New Man

29 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old woman and I need for my best friend to have an open mind. I’ve known her for most of my life and she’s...

I'm In Love With My Best Friend's Husband

28 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a crazy love triangle and I met my man through his wife. She was supposed to be my best friend but we always argued ov...

Saved By The Finger

25 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I attend a prominent mega church and I’m very active in my church. The church threw a back-to-school bash for the children a...

Adding Insult To Injury

24 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I got a divorce four years ago and I gave myself time to heal so I would not go into a new relationship with baggage. A year a...

He Could Have Her If He Wanted To

23 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a friend that can be self-centered and a bit loose when it comes to men. We’ve been friends for 13 years but I’ve n...

This Man Has A Thing For Chocolate

22 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced 58 year old black woman dating a 61 year old white man that I met on a dating website for black people. I thou...

I Don't Think His Heart Can Take It

21 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a man at church recently when he was visiting from out of town. He lives three hours away from me so in the beginning, w...

My Little Ugly Boyfriend

18 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 31 year old single woman and I met the man of my dreams two years ago on a dating website. He lives in Tampa and I live...

I Love Getting The Mail Every Day

17 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old single guy and I have been attracted to a 27 year old beautiful woman for 4 months and I finally got the ne...

I Live Next Door To The Magic Woman

16 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 36 year old single woman and my new next door neighbor has me concerned. She's a pretty girl in her late twenties and sh...

She Needs To Get Her Kids

15 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 50 year old with 3 children and I have been married for 14 years. All of the children are grown and are on their own, s...

He Dropped The Bomb On Me

14 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,  For the past five years I've been dating a man that is nine years older than me and I really love our relationship and how w...

My Status Has Been Downgraded

11 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 8 years, I’ve been dating a 60 year old man and I am 14 years younger than he is. Everything in our relationshi...

He Chose His Wife Over Me

10 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley. I need your advice because I really want to kick my dad's wife’s behind. I am a 42 year old single mother of two kids. My ch...

I'm Too Sexy To Have Male Friends

09 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem with how men see me. I was married for 25 years and I got divorced three years ago and decided to move to ano...

I'm Raising My Children The Old School Way

08 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married father of two girls and I have a problem at home. Last week, I popped my sixteen year old daughter in the mouth...

I’m In Love With Hairy Mary

07 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I need some serious advice right now. I’m a 30-year-old and I’m dating a 29-year-old woman. She is a very sexy, sweet woman...

I Think I'm Playing With Fire

04 Oct 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm an older single man and I’m very nice looking, not your typical old cornball pops type. Dating is hard for me because mo...

I Am Not The One To Play With

03 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 54 year old black professional man who has been married for 25 years. I am 6’6” and 270 lbs and I am not to be play...

He Keeps Disrespecting My Girl

02 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young man who is in love with my girlfriend and I feel a need to protect her. We have been dating for two years and I’...

I'm In Too Deep With This Guy

01 Oct 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been seeing a guy for 8 months now and our relationship is strictly sexual. When we first met, he told me that he has a...

My Mother Is Ruining My Future

30 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a black young lady in my mid 20s and I have been in debt since I graduated from college in 2016. I assumed I would be ste...

No More Loving

27 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 54 year old married man and I have been married for 36 years. My wife and I have 12 kids, so my wife has never worked a d...

Living With All Three Women Might Be Cool

26 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single black woman with no kids and I’m writing in response to the letter “I Want to Live With All Four Women.” N...

I Can't Do The Hoodrat Wedding

25 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, this isn’t your typical letter, but just like everyone else, I need advice. I am a 37 year old female and I am professional ...

I Want To Live With All Four Women

24 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single man that’s just enjoying life and I need some advice. I have four women who all love me and want to be with me...

I Should Curse Him Out And Call His Wife

23 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for almost 25 years. My husband and I have been through a lot but we’re still together. I have a situati...

Sexy and Simple Minded

20 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29-year-old man and three months ago, I started seeing a gorgeous woman in her mid-20s. She has the best body, smooth ...

Should I Love Him or Leave Him

19 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I met and older guy and I was attracted to him, but played hard to get. He begged me for a first date and I eventually agreed...

My Husband's Play Daughter

18 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I’ve been married for 10 years. We don’t have any children together, but my husband has two grown kids and another “play ...

Stuck In An Open Relationship

17 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, Two years ago I met a guy on an online site for dating and we became close. In the beginning, he told me that he was in an op...

I'm In The Military And I Never Enlisted

16 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 57 years old and have been married to an intelligent, extremely good looking 60 year old man for ten years. We’re admir...

Show Business Isn't For Everyone

13 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 50 year old devoted wife with a big problem. I've been married to a great man for 23 years and we have two kids in colle...

How Often Should You Get A Massage

12 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30-year old man and I love working out. I started a new, very intense workout routine last month and my trainer sugges...

I'm Stressed Out In My Classroom

11 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old man and I just started a job teaching adults that are getting a GED. I'm loving it so far, but I need advice...

I Can't Help It, But I'm A Hater

10 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I love myself very much and I love most of my family but I developed this deep dark hatred for my sister. You see, my sister h...

The Private Whisperer

09 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 22 year old college student and I just started my senior year at a new school. I've joined a frat and met an awesome gir...

Six Feet Tall, A Six Pack And A Six-Figure Income

06 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 40 year old man and my wife and I have a strong marriage and a great life together. We just have one little problem in o...

He Took It Out At The Dinner Table

05 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my friend hooked me up with a great guy and before I met him, we had great conversation and he seemed to be a cool guy. He sen...

I Don't Mind Working Overtime

04 Sep 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old single woman with a great job, but I have an issue with a co-worker. I went to a local bar a couple of wee...

My Boys Can't Be Trusted

03 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been worrying about my marriage and how my past actions may threaten it. A few months ago, my friends and I went on a g...

She Does What Where

02 Sep 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life.  This beautiful woman was so perfect I could not believe she was still single. Well after dating h...

I Need To Help This New Child

30 Aug 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, thirteen years ago I became friends with a newly-married, young couple at church. They have two children and they are good God...

Boo Boo Breath's Assistant

29 Aug 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I recently started a new position as an assistant to the office manager. On my first day at work, I noticed that everyone in t...

My Baby Won't Stop Cussing

28 Aug 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old married woman with a two year old son that won’t stop cussing. Recently, whenever he gets frustrated or u...

This Bum Has Got To Go

27 Aug 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been together for ten years and he has the biggest heart. His empathy towards his fellow man is what mad...