Strawberry Letter

His Ex-Wife Is Willing To Share Him With Me

15 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was in a relationship with a man for 6 months, but we fell in love quickly and we were living together. He is 36 and I’m 3...

He Stole My Heart And A Few Other Things

12 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, a while back I met a man on a dating app and it was supposed to be just a one-night stand. He came over and we had the most ex...

He Is Taking Performing In Bed To A Whole Another Level

11 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I’m a 32 year old married woman and I’d normally never write in to you, but I heard you cover a topic that I’m going thro...

I Want To Have Multiple Women But I Love My Wife

10 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 40 year old black man with a lot of weight in my community. I’m a very well-known businessman and former professiona...

He Made A Lifetime Committment To Another Woman

09 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 29 years old and my boyfriend is 30 and he’s an idiot. We have been together for 4 years and his ex-girlfriend and I w...

I'm Falling In Love With A Big Baby

08 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 40 years old and my boyfriend is a 45 year old, successful businessman. He’s divorced and has one kid from his marriag...

I Found Out That I Married A Drunk

05 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I got married in January and I relocated to be with him, after the wedding. We dated for 2 years in a long-dist...

My Man Treats Me Like An Afterthought

04 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship for almost two years and when I think about the things this man has shown me sexually and mental...

I've Fallen In Love With Her Boyfriend

03 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single female and I moved to a new city 3 years ago, for a new job. I did not have any family or friends in the city, ...

I Am The Only One That Can Have Sex In My House

02 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 37 year old divorced man and I'm in a one hell of a situation. I have a 5 year old son that has a lot of health issues,...

The Two Women That I Love Most

01 Jun 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 37 year old man and I’m in love with the perfect woman and I want to marry her. I am financially secure and I love t...

My Boyfriend And I Sleep In His Ex's Driveway

29 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 29 year old female in a confusing dating situation. We’ve been dating for almost 2 years but I waited for 4 months be...

I Can't Even Get Drunk In Peace

28 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 45 year old black man. My fiancé is 56 and she’s a great woman, but I’m worried about marriage. We like to kick bac...

Two Is Company, But Is Three Always A Crowd

27 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 5 years with a man that thinks we are exclusive. I’m in my late forties and my sex drive h...

Noisy, Naughty New Neighbor

26 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 38-year-old married woman and my husband and I have lived downtown in a nice condo for the past six years. We get alon...

Is A Good Heart And Good Personality Enough

25 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating someone special for four months and so far, he is amazing. He loves the Lord and he has a great personality...

You Can't Have Your Cake And Eat It Too

22 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a guy for six months and he’s one of the sweetest men that I have ever met. This weekend, he disclosed so...

PYT with A Scary Old Man

21 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am the pretty young thing that wrote you about my lover that is the same age as my father. I took Shirley’s advice and ask...

Her Husband Was My Best Friend

20 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old single female and I’m in need of advice. I’ve had a male best friend since high school and he is an ac...

I Don't Have A Good Feeling About This

19 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m ready to call off my engagement but I need your advice first. My fiancé and I are both divorced and our first marriages...

He Has Two Wives And Two Separate Wives

18 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 22 years old and I recently graduated from college, so I’m quarantined at my parents’ house. They have been married ...

COVID-19 Caused My Husband To Confess

15 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are having some real marital issues right now and I blame it on Covid-19. We haven’t been stuck together fo...

My Husband Likes Pictures of Big Butts

14 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for 15 years and we have 2 children. I was helping my daughter with a home school video 3 w...

My Life Is About To Be A Real Strawberry Letter

13 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I can hardly believe what I’m about to tell you and I need some advice. I have been with my girl for almost 3 years and I pr...

My Wife Is Trying To Compete

12 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

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We Both Got Busted And Can't Be Trusted

11 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am torn to pieces over my breakup. I was dating an old friend for two years. I am 52 and he is 45. We talked about marri...

Pretty Young Thing

08 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 25 year old female that has been dating a 55 year old man for 2 years. He is the same age as my father and he’s very ...

My Husband Is Obsessed With An Ex

07 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I hope my husband is listening today because I have a problem with him and he thinks it’s no big deal. My problem is that my...

I Have A Video Vixen In My Garage

06 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30-year-old man and my wife is 28. I was recently laid off due to the pandemic, so money has been a little tight. Beca...

I Maybe Falling For A Liar

05 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old divorced female and I’m working on my master’s degree in nursing so I wasn’t focused on dating after...

She’s Been A Cheater Since High School

04 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in love with a woman that has carried herself like a garden tool all of her life. In other words, she’s been “loose”...

Can You Outgrow Being Ghetto

01 May 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 28 year old engaged female and my wedding was put on hold because of the pandemic. My fiancé and I are living togethe...

She Gave Him Exactly What She Wanted

30 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my boyfriend for eleven years and he’s eleven years younger than I am. When we met, I had two children from...

My Neighbor's Daughter

29 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 52 year old widower. I lost my wife 4 years ago and I’ve recently started dating again. I live in a great neighborho...

He Has The Mama And The Daughter Hooked

28 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m writing for my friend because she has lost her mind and I need her to realize what she’s doing is wrong. My 28 year ol...

I'm Just Trying To Stay Out Of Jail

27 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a relationship with a cheater and I need your advice. Last week my man was cutting the yard and he left his phone in t...

He Is Treating Me Like A Bad Business Deal

24 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 34 year old divorced, former model and beauty pageant winner. 5 years ago, I met and married the most perfect man. My ...

She's Taken Care Of and I'm Not

23 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we had a normal relationship, having great sex on the regular, until tw...

She Will Not Take My Man From Me

22 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 29 year old workaholic and I don’t have time to date, so I met my boyfriend on Tinder. We met two years ago and were g...

Wives, Submit To Your Husbands

21 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 28 years old and my fiancé is 35. We have a baby on the way and I recently moved across the country to be with him. Now...

When The Shoe Is On The Other Foot

20 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my mid 30s. I’ve been married 13 years and we have 4 kids. In the beginning of our marriage, I was hardheaded and I...

He's 70, Single and Ready To Mingle

17 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single female and last year, I moved back to my hometown. I got an apartment in a nice area of town and my ...

This Young Man Has Me Weak In The Knees

16 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 63 year old black woman and I’ve never been married and I don’t have any children. I was raised to believe sex outs...

Mo Money, Even Mo Problems

15 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m back… after listening to all the advice you guys had, it lifted my spirits a little bit. Even J. Anthony Brown and Tom...

I Have Two Perfect Boyfriends

14 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 49 year old, divorced woman with 2 grown children. Two years ago, I prayed that God send me a real good man and life part...

Mo Money Mo Problems

13 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 56 year old man with lots of swag and I’ve had fine women all my life. Eight years ago, I decided it was time to get...

Her Hoodrat Mentality Is Bad For Business

10 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a married man but I have not been happily married in a while. I have no intention of leaving my wife and I’m not a cheat...

I Don't Like Wearing Panties

09 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I truly embarrassed myself and I want to pack up and move out of town. I live alone in a quaint little area of town and I am t...

My Mom Needs To Get A Life

08 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

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I'm Way More Stupid Than Tommy

07 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 37 year old married man with the most perfect wife a man could ever ask for. She accepted me with all my flaws and we ne...

Keep Yo Eyes Off My Booty

06 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 24 year old woman who’s dating a 28 year old man. Our relationship is great, but I’m holding a secret that could st...

He Had A Real Wife And A Fake Wife

03 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with a liar for 7 years and I thought we had been married for 3 years. When we first met, he told me that he is an...

My Feet Look Better Than Hers

02 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old man and I have been dating a new girl for about 3 months. Intimacy came after we had known each other for a...

My Man Belongs To The Streets

01 Apr 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married woman in my mid-forties and my husband is too. We’ve been together a total of five years and we’ve been mar...

I Walked In On My Son

31 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a happily married woman in my mid-thirties and my husband and I have a son and a daughter. My son is 15 years old and my ...

My Mind Is On The Otherside Of Town

30 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 57 year old married woman and I have been married for 25 years. It’s been an agonizing marriage because my husband ha...

My Fiance's Friend Could Get It

27 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my fiancé for five years and I’m looking forward to a fabulous fall wedding with him. I have one problem t...

Men and Women Can't Be Friends

26 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an old friend that I’ve been holding a grudge against for 3 years. She was one of my best friends until she ended up ...

I'm Starving And I Need A Larger Portion

25 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship for a little over a year with a wonderful man that I met online. We’re both in our forties and...

We Have A Big Problem Sis

24 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been divorced for four years and my 7 year old child is caught up in a dysfunctional mess with me and my ex-husband. Afte...

Her Family Is Ghetto And She Doesn't Know It

23 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I grew up in a two-parent home and both of my parents earned college degrees and worked hard to provide a good life for me and...

I Don't Want To Be Quarantined With Him

20 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old single mother of a nine year old son. I love my son with all of my heart and I’ve done the best I can to ...

His Mouth May Be A Deal Breaker

19 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 45 year old woman and I've finally met Mr. Right, or so I thought. He has a steady job, a nice home and treats me like a...

My Boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend Has Moved In

18 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a man for almost 4 years and I’m trying to do the right thing by not living with him before we are married....

My Man Should Keep Somethings To Himself

17 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have dealt with an older guy off and on for about 7 years and he meets all of my physical needs and we enjoy spending time t...

He's Had A Busy Year And It's Only March

16 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my fiancé and I have been together for 10 months and I just had a baby girl two months ago. My man’s phone is a constant so...

I'm Too Old For These Games

13 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 57 year old very attractive widow. I started back dating four years ago, after giving myself time to deal with the loss...

You, Me, She And This Baby

12 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 35-year-old lovely woman and my husband and I are having a dilemma. Four years ago, my husband of 10 years cheated on m...

He Won't Let Me Touch It Or See It

11 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy online 2 years ago and we hit it off pretty good and have great chemistry. We hang out a lot and I’m ready to ta...

He Wants Tell My Fiancé About Us

10 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem that I hope you can help me sort out, because I’m really confused. I have had a fiancé for 8 years. She an...

Sanctified and Saved Swingers

09 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a black man in my mid-thirties and I’m married to the woman of my dreams. We moved back to my home state a few years b...

I'm Going Down, 'Cause He Ain't Around

06 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced female and I am crushed and lonely without a man in my life. That’s why I’m writing you and that’s my on...

Stuck Between Two Women That I Love

05 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my lovely wife for 8 years and we have three children. My wife is great and we have a normal marriage a...

My Wife Is Way Too Relaxed Now

04 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for 24 years and my marriage started out great. My wife was beautiful and kept herself up and this was what ...

I Need My Wife To Reinstate My Hall Pass

03 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 28 year old married man. I’ve been married for two years and it’s been a rocky two years so far. Right after I marri...

Single and Satisfied or Married and Miserable?

02 Mar 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married twice and I believe my second husband was the man of my dreams, but I truly didn’t see it at the time. D...

My Love Life Took An Ugly Turn

28 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I really need advice from the guys on the show, but Ms. Shirley, you can take a stab at it too. I’ve be...

You're Not As Sexy As You Think You Are

27 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 30 year old married woman and my husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and since I had ...

He Is Playing More Than The Organ

26 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My mother is 70 years old, but she is the new 70s woman. She’s a size 8 and her skin is as smooth as can be and she doesn't ...

A House Divided By Politics

25 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for 17 years and have always considered ourselves to be a politically conscious black couple. ...

She Loves Me She Loves Me Not

24 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a real big problem. I'm a 32-year-old single father of two kids and I fell in love with my doctor who's 6 years older t...

My Man Lies Like A Rug

21 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my child’s father is a habitual liar. We’ve been dating for three years and he has lied to me about the most stupid stuff....

My Husband Is Not A Good Cheater

20 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for almost 30 years. We both have professional jobs and we make a good living. My husband i...

Over 60 And Full Of Stamina

19 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 31 year old married woman and I’ve been married for 8 years and we have four kids. In the beginning, our sex life was ...

When Being Backwards and Bougie Collide

18 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 29-year-old black man and I'm sick to death of my racist family. No matter what I do, I am not "black" enough for them a...

My Man Told Me To Listen To Steve

17 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my man and he told me to listen to Steve, so I’m writing for advice. The issue with my guy is that he’...

She Needs A Shot But Not By Cupid

14 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married man and I work a few part- time jobs. I make really good money, so my line of work has never been an issue in ...

I Didn't Feel Respected Or Protected That Day

13 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old, women's lightweight MMA fighter and I’ve been fighting for the past 13 years. I’ve had the same coach ...

He's Our Type of Man

12 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating my boyfriend for the past 4 months and I thought things were getting serious with us, so I told my brother ...

His Wife Was Very Calm On The Phone

11 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, six months ago I met a man and I had no idea that he was married when I met him. We waited a month to have sex and a week afte...

Not During Black History Month

10 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old, Republican black man and I can’t find a woman to call my own. I have dated all kinds of women but I can...

My Man Has One Tiny Flaw

07 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very handsome man a year ago. In the beginning, things seemed perfect. He has a great job and his own house in a very ...

Anywhere Except The Bedroom

06 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I truly need your advice on this one. I’m 28 years old and so is my girlfriend. We have been together six months and I reall...

Should I Just Hush And Stay On The Main Line

05 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 11 years to a very religious man. When I say my husband loves the Lord, he loves the Lord! He is 5 yea...

Is My Wife An Undercover Gold Digger?

04 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for over 15 years and we’ve come close to getting a divorce a few times in the past few year...

My Man Told Me To Listen To Steve

03 Feb 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have an issue with my man and he told me to listen to Steve, so I’m writing for advice. The issue with my guy is that he’...

There's No Way To Bless This Mess

31 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been kicked out of my church and I need some advice. I attended a very messy church and if you did not do things the wa...

My Husband Is Scared Of His Family

30 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married to a wonderful man for almost 3 years. It’s his second marriage and my first. Everything is fine with us...

Over Seventy And Selling Sexiness

29 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m desperate for some sound advice. I’m a 36 year old divorced female, with 2 kids. My mom is in her early 70s and recent...

I Never Wanted To Be The Other Woman

28 Jan 2020

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single mother and I met a nice guy two years ago at a local bar. I wasn’t interested at first because he is signific...