Strawberry Letter

My Ex-Husband Is Now My Kids Uncle

08 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I've been praying over it for years but I can’t seem to get over it. I married a man when I was 26 year...

My Boss Controls Me

07 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a dilemma and I need your advice. I’m in my late 20s and I work for a non-profit organization and my boss is a fine o...

I Can't Stand A Sorry Man

06 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a problem and I've been praying over it for years but I can’t seem to get over it. I married a man when I was 26 year...

Is My Husband Jealous of My Mom

05 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married a little over a year and the consistent issue my husband and I have is, he thinks that I talk to my mom and ...

She Said She's Not Going Anywhere

02 Nov 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been in a relationship for a little over 3 years. This man treated me like a queen and I just knew that he was the one....

Teachers Pet

01 Nov 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 32 year old female and I am a part time professor at a local university. Teaching is my first love and I’m hoping to...

Maybe I Was Not Good Enough To Him

31 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have just wasted 3 months of my life with a guy. When we met, he was my supervisor at work. Shortly after we met, I got a ne...

I Want My Husband To Accept My Male Friend

30 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, in March of this year, my husband and I separated and he moved out of the house. During our separation, I started talking to a...

It's Better If People Are Watching Us

29 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Hello Steve and Shirley… and I might need to include Tommy too. I am a happily married 40 year old woman with grown children. I’m completely in lo...

I'm Too Young To Be Married

26 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 23 years old and I just got married. I am a little worried that I got married too soon because I realized I can’t do all...

My Musty Man

25 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been with my man for 3 years and we started living together 7 months ago. I’m a nurse and he does construction work. ...

Is It So Good That It Is Clouding My Judgment

24 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 43 year old single mom of two. For the past year, I have been seeing a nice 43 year old gentleman that I've met on the ...

All He Cares About Is Being Instafamous

23 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some help with one of my closest friends. He and I have known each other since middle school and he’s always been a b...

My Step Mama, Baby Mama and First Lady

22 Oct 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need help! When I was a teenager, my parents went through a horrible divorce and my mom moved to a new city to start over. I...

I Need It And I Need It Now

19 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my man for two years and we have lived together for the past year. We have a really good relationship but there...

I'm A Star But My Friends Say I Suck

18 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 49 years old, but I look 30, praise the Lord! I'm an entertainer by nature. I love life and I celebrate it every day. I'm ...

He Talks A Lot Of Trash In The Bedroom

17 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some serious advice. Steve, I’ve read all of your books and I follow many of your rules, especially the “No sex be...

I've Been A Fool For 18 Years

16 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, There is so much going on in my home. I've been with my husband for 18 years and we've been married for four years. I have thr...

I Don't Do Black and Broke

15 Oct 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a loving heart and always try to help others. That being said the other day I was in the discount store buying toiletri...

He Goes On and On and On

12 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a beautiful 38 year old female with a 54 year old man. Everything in our relationship is perfect except our sex life. The ...

I Like To Fight and Bite Because He Doesn’t Act Right

11 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. At the beginning, everything was perfect, but then I started checking his ...

My Weird Husband Is Worrying Me

10 Oct 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my husband for over ten years and we finally got married last year and moved in together. Now I'm having second...

Since She Got The Ring She Changed Everything

09 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My girl and I dated for six years. Then I proposed to her a year ago on her birthday. Since I gave her the ring her behavior h...

Can a Menage A Trois Save My Marriage

08 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my husband for 20 years and we've been married for three years. He cheated on me multiple times with multiple wom...

Hanging On To A Constant Cheater

05 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven long years and I say long because he is a constant cheater. He has a habit of wa...

I'm Losing My Flirty Wife

04 Oct 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for close to eight years and over the weekend my wife told me that she is not in love with me anymore. I'm a...

My Friend's Freaky Husband

03 Oct 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My best friend and I have been the best of friends for over ten years. I met her and her husband at the same time and we all j...

I Love Him, But I Can Do Bad By Myself

02 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiancé and I have been together for 15 years and we’ve been engaged for the last 5 years. He’s 31 and I’m 29 and we...

There Are Three Of Us In This Relationship

01 Oct 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my now fiance for three years and what I can't wrap my head around is his closeness with his older sister. When...

He Cheated and I Embarrassed Him

28 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband cheated on me two years ago, when he was away on a work related trip. I could tell he was different when he got ho...

I'm Sick Of My Daughter

27 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m tired of motherhood. Sorry, but I am no longer interested in being a mother. I am 28 years old and I have a 5 year old...

Why Can't I Date Whoever I Want

26 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some relationship advice. Here's my issue. I was dating a member of a certain fraternity for four years and we broke up...

Sassy and Sexy Sixty Year Old

25 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 61 years old and my boyfriend is 67. I thought I had met the man of my dreams three years ago when we met. When we met, w...

My Man's Daughter Saw It All

24 Sep 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for a while but we don't live in the same city so we do everything we can to keep the spice...

Is It Possible To Have Too Much Sex

21 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my late 20s and two years ago I started having sex with a guy I met in high school. We dated broke up and now we're ba...

My Husband's Drinking Is No Longer A Secret

20 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 15 years and we have two children. My husband is a functioning alcoholic. He can work a...

Happily Engaged And Ready To Walk

19 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I have been together for six years. He's 50 and I'm 35 and this will be the first marriage for both of us. When ...

My Wife Cheats Way More Than I Do

18 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My wife and I have been together since 2009 and married since 2015. We have three sons and I love them all dearly. I'm not try...

4 Years Later I'm Still His Girlfriend

17 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm stuck. I've read your book Steve and I've been with my boyfriend for four years. In the four years we've bought a home and...

I’m Grown And Still Having Daddy Issues

14 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Shirley and Uncle Steve, I am having a hard time dealing with a situation with my family. I traveled around the world, got a couple of degrees, m...

He Wants Me But Not The Children

13 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old female married to a 49 year old man. I have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem. My c...

My Best Friend Cannot Be Ok

12 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I've lost my best friend. We've been best friends for over 15 years. Thee best of friends. We were thick as thieves and nothing...

A Step-mom That Needs To Step Away

11 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 11 years. My husband has three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons and ...

How Important Is Intimacy Before Marriage

10 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a young single female. I recently had a conversation with a close male friend about relationships and sex. He told me tha...

My Marriage Is Stable But Stale

07 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a testimony and I need some solid advice. In the past, my husband was a scam artist and I am an ex stripper and call gi...

Why Is Her Ex Still Checking On Her

06 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. When I met her she had just ended a relationship with a wealthy man t...

Concerned Father or Jealous Ex-Boyfriend

05 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a recently divorced man with joint custody of my children. On the day that our divorce was final my ex-wife and I we went...

I Want The Car, But Not The Ring

04 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

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Why Is My Son In Law Watching Me

03 Sep 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm writing you for advice on a family matter. When my daughter had her first child, she and her husband asked me to move in w...

If She Doesn't Work It Out We Won't Work Out

30 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, When I met my wife five years ago she was all that I wanted and more. She was beautiful, sweet, driven, short and thick. Just ...

Seems Like He Has Been Waiting On Me To Leave First

29 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are now 50 years old. We have five grown sons and four grandchildren. Ten years ago my husband had a fling at...

My First Major Dating Mistake With Brothers

28 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Uncle Steve and Aunt Shirley, I am a young female that graduated from high school two years ago. Yeah and I am in a sticky situation. You see aft...

I Cheated Twice And Had Three Outside Children

27 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My wife and I met when we were 12 years old and we got married when we were 20 years old. We've been married for 15 years and ...

This Dummy Messed Up A Good Thing

24 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiancé and I have been together for six years. We like to have fun in the bedroom, which often includes a third person joi...

I Think My Husband Wants My Sister

23 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my husband for 19 years. Recently my younger sister spent the night at my house when she was in town. I usually...

How Well Do You Know Your Neighbors

22 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married to a wonderful man for almost 30 years. He's an excellent father and provider. But over the years I've spent...

I Can't Keep This Secret Much Longer

21 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I met in college and we've been together for three years. She is perfect in every way. She has the looks a great...

My Landlord Is Getting More Than The Rent

20 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 38 year old female and I've been married for three years. My husband and I met 28 years ago in middle school. I love him...

I Don't Believe What She Believes In

16 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old Hispanic man and I am dating the most amazing woman. I am ready to share the rest of my life with her. She ...

Is It Time For Me To Move On

15 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been in a relationship with my fiancé for three years. In the beginning everything was great but things have taken a tur...

I Don't Want To Be A Player No More

14 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been listening for years and decided it was time for me to get some advice. I'm a young brother in my early 40s. I have a...

Is My Husband The Real King Of Pranks

13 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old female and in a relationship with a 35 year old male. We've been dating about a year and we have a four mon...

My Sexy Neighbor

10 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, You're not going to believe this. I'm a married man and my wife and I just purchased our first home in a new community. To cel...

His Son Is Not My Responsibility Right

09 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old single mother with a 10 year old son. My boyfriend and I recently purchased a house together. He works out ...

My Husband Thinks I'm A Nagger

08 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for 25 years and we've been married for 18 years. He's a great father and provider and we ...

So Is This What We Are Doing Now?

07 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm an older female with old school ways of doing things. After many years of marriage I'm now divorced and back on the dating...

He's Double Tapping Her Sexy Pictures

06 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 30 year old woman and I've been dating a 35 year old man for a little over a year and I need your advice about an issue....

I Want A Little Extra Too

03 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, This one is short and sweet. I actually want Tommy's opinion too if that’s ok. I've been married to a wonderful man for the ...

I Want Karma To Come Sooner

02 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met 14 years ago. We both were young adults when we met. Through the years we’ve had many ups and downs. Ou...

My Girl Was Intimate With Another Brotha

01 Aug 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, Two years ago I met the most amazing woman. I'm from the hood and she is from a small country town and we are very different i...

Cheaters Never Win Except In This Case

31 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My former best friend won't speak to me. Here's what happened. My best friend and her boyfriend have been in an on and off rel...

I Starred In A Steamy Video And Didn't Know It

30 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help. My fiance and I have been in a great relationship for four years and things were great until recently when I...

Should I Overlook His Trust Issues

27 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old divorced mother of five. Recently I met the man that I am now in love with. The chemistry was bananas from t...

No Kissing and No Loving

26 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, Let me start off by saying that I love my wife but I just can't be intimate with her. My wife and I dated for two years and we...

Does Size Really Matter

25 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 33 year old man and my girlfriend is 31. We have been together for over five years and when I met her she was a single m...

My Man Is Acting Brand New

24 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our 50s and all of our grown kids are finally out of the house. We had a great normal married life unt...

My Lover Needs To Be More Patient

23 Jul 2018

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He Had Me Fooled

20 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been dating a guy for a year and he treats me really nice. We live in neighboring states but we're less than an hour ap...

I Gave My Husband a Hall Pass

19 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 22 year old married woman. My husband and I have been together for over five years but we've only been married six month...

My Husband Is A Wimp

18 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for five years but my husband is missing a P. He provides for the family and he professes his love for me bu...

Working Overtime With My Boss

17 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old married woman. I work hard and I feel very accomplished since I've worked my way out of the hood. I love my...

The First Lady Special Offering

16 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a happily married man and I need your advice. Last summer I loaned a female friend three hundred and twenty dollars for a...

She's Making Me Want To Fight Her

13 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he ...

My Fiance Might Need To Go Back To His Ex

12 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an engaged 33 year old female. I don't have any children but my fiance has two children aged 17 and 14. When the children...

I Need Way More Than He Is Giving Me

11 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our early 30s and he is the most amazing man I've ever been with. He is my best friend and we have the...

I'm Addicted To My Best Friend's Girl

10 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 35 year old hardworking single male. I'm tall dark and handsome and the ladies love me, but there is one lady in particu...

I Want a Sexlationship

09 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley I'm a 31 year old single mom fresh out of a nine year relationship with my child's father. After we broke up, I focused on scho...

Let's Get It Started

06 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley I am I am darn near 50 years old and my wife is 40. We've been married for almost ten years and have two children both under th...

They Don't Make 'Em Like They Used To

05 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue. I...

Don't Hold My Past Against Me

04 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a question and I need your advice. When should I tell a new love interest that I have been to prison? I'm not the avera...

My Husband Lives With My Brother

03 Jul 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for five years but my husband moved out three years ago and moved in with my brother after he got into a b...

Lots Of Mess No Sex

02 Jul 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley I am a 25 year old woman. I married my husband when I was 19 years old and I am starting to believe that it was a mistake. We b...

She Won't Get In My Bed

29 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steven Shirley, I've been dating a beautiful woman for about five months. Everything is great. She's special and she does a lot for me. Here's th...

Without A Doubt

28 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old that is married and together my husband and I have three kids. About 2 years ago, my in-laws and their 21 y...

Why Do I Need A Man

27 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old divorced female with no children. I work full time and I am in school full time. I am finally able to pursu...

Too Many Bodies In One Bed

26 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a man for six months now. He is divorced and has two kids, a 12 year old daughter and a 10 year old son. I ha...

She Should Not Have Two Good Men

25 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 45 year old single black female. My best friend is a 55 year old married female. She and I are on the same dating websi...

I Have Been With Both Of Them

22 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for 17 years and I've been divorced for six years. After my divorce, I was buckwild for a little bit dating many...

My Husbands Ex Is So Disrespectful

21 Jun 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for 13 years and we've been married for five years. Before we got married, we broke up for...

We Both Did It But Now She Is Mad

20 Jun 2018

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need the code cracker. I am a 31 year old man who's been dating this girl for over a year now and everything is going great....