Strawberry Letter

He Can Leave And Take His Son With Him

02 May 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for over 20 years and we have 4 children, 3 daughters and 1 son. My husband is a truck driv...

The Outcome of My Threesome

01 May 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a five month old son who was conceived during a threesome. I had an affair on my boyfriend of three years with a guy th...

He's Turning Me Into His Mama

30 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 39 year old engaged woman and my fiancé is terrific, but I need your advice. My fiancé and I met in the Emergency Roo...

Drunk Dialing Dilemma

29 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a situation that has become a huge frustration in my life and I need advice on setting healthy boundaries with a good f...

I Wish This Old Man Would Leave

26 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, 5 years ago, I got involved with an older   married man that was my boss. In the beginning, it was strictly business and I me...

He's Got Mulitiple Women and Babies

25 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and I met five years ago and we had a lot of mutual friends. I had just gotten a divorce and she was there to c...

Am I The Wife Or The Other Woman

24 Apr 2019

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Dear Shirley and Steve, my husband and I have been married for two years. When we met, he told me that he and his ex-wife have a great system of co-pa...

My Son Caught Me Cheating

23 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,  I have been married to my amazing husband for 18 years. We have 3 children, ages 18, 14, and 10. I love my husband, but his...

My Girlfriend's Husband's Baby

22 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I am a 31 year old female and I’ve been dating a 36 year old married woman for two years. Recently, she and her husband were ...

I Can't Get Back In Bed With Him

19 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a man that I consider to be my soul mate. We have a long distance relationship but we see each other often. He alw...

Something Wasn't Smelling Right

18 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married associate pastor and my wife is a stay-at-home mom. Two months ago, I went to Africa on a mission trip and whe...

A Huge Problem In Our Relationship

17 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I have been together for five years and we’ve been faced with many obstacles, but the main one started over...

I'd Rather Say I Don't Instead of I Do

16 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m getting married soon and I do love my fiancé with all my heart, but there are some things that I really do not like abo...

My Grandpa Is Lonely And Needs Some Loving

15 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 42 year old married woman and my 76 year old father-in-law moved in with us after his wife died last year. He was very...

What's Wrong With Her Chipping In

12 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a hardworking man. I work from sun up to sun down, and I do well for myself. Two years ago I met a very beautiful woman wh...

My Husband And I Were Being Filmed

11 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our early 30s and my best friend asked us to house-sit for her and her husband while they were out of ...

I Need Him To Use It Before I Lose It

10 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my boyfriend and I both are 75 years old and we’ve been in a great relationship for about 15 years. When we met, we hit it o...

Turned On And Off At The Same Time

09 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m in my early forties and I have been happily married and faithful to a wonderful man for 9 years. My husband says he like...

One Splash Of Alcohol Ended Everything

08 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m the subject from one of your recent letters. I was the wife that found out at a birthday cookout that my husband cheated...

My Past Thing Is Her New Fling

05 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old happily married female with a beautiful family. I need our advice on how to handle a little situation with ...

A Piece Of A Man Or No Piece At All

04 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced 59 year old woman and I started dating a 67 year old sexy gentleman in December. Our relationship is great. We...

He Prefers Himself Over Me

03 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 29 and my boyfriend has me really confused. He’s three years younger than me and we just started having sex, or at least...

My Dangerous One Night Stand

02 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 31 year old single female in need of your help. Back in August, I ran into one of my dad's best friends at a business ...

Doggystyle Lifestyle

01 Apr 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old woman and I just moved in with my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for one year and we have a great relations...

The Cookie Drove My Best Friend Crazy

29 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I have a male best friend. Well, I had a male best friend that I had been friends with since midd...

That's Not What Steve Harvey Said In That Book

28 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my best friend and I have been really close for 17 years but now we are constantly bickering over her twisted ideas of love an...

Married and Celibate

27 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 23 years, I’ve been married to the nicest guy in the world and I have always tried to be the perfect wife and m...

I Just Can't Do Church

26 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing you because I need your advice on how to talk to my mom. My mother is a very religious church-going woman and I d...

All Eyes On Me

25 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 33 year old married woman with a great body, pretty face, long healthy hair and a lot of confidence. I got married four...

She Is Making Me Want To Fight Her

22 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a wife and a mother of two children. I've been married for 11 years to my wonderful husband, but I recently found out he ...

My Wife's Cooking Is Going To Kill Us

21 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, please help me handle an issue with my wife. We are in our 30s and have been married 12 years and we have two children. We hav...

I Have A Little Issue With My New Man

20 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 41 year old divorced woman and to be honest, I’m waiting for my knight in shining armor. I am in no way a picky pers...

I Have A Little Issue With My New Man

20 Mar 2019

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He Claims He Got A Divorce For Me

19 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 53 year old single woman and I was dating a guy from my past. We reconnected five months ago and he told me that he wo...

Never Trust Your Man's Female Friends

18 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 27 year old woman and I’ve had a few relationship issues because I just can't seem to pick the right man. Maybe it’s...

I Am Sick Of My Daughter

15 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m tired of motherhood.  Sorry, but I am no longer interested in being a mother.  I am 28 years old and I have a 5 year o...

I Never Suspected She Had A Crazy Side

14 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I just broke up with a great woman that I had planned to spend my life with. I got a ring and proposed and we were planning ou...

Should I Ask For Permission Or Forgiveness

13 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married to a great man and I am truly blessed to have him in my life, but there is one issue. He is a very proud man and ...

I'm Looking Forward To Living In My Car

12 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a hard working female that’s ready to  put my belongings in storage and live in my car, because of the problems I’m h...

It's My House And I Will Smoke If I Want To

11 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my wife and I have been married for 5 years and we live in a 5 bedroom home. My parents recently moved to the city we live in,...

I Was Willing To Settle For A Loser

08 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I was attracted to a very sweet, tall, dark, and handsome guy and I was dying to meet him, so I made the first move and I aske...

Is She Delusional Or Am I A Hater

07 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m writing you for advice on how to deal with a female family member. I believe that all women should be confident, regardl...

Thundercat On The Prowl

06 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a divorced, 44 year old single mom.  As an attractive, curvy, and educated woman, I have no problems meeting men, it’s...

He's Scared To Sleep With Me

05 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married woman in my mid 30s and I want to have children, but my husband does not. From the time we got married till now...

I Can't Keep Living A Lie

04 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I married my husband by mistake. He is in law enforcement on a special drug task force, but I'm starting to think that he is i...

It's Not My Business But I Want To Tell It

01 Mar 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am writing this letter as a concerned third party. I have two friends that have been married for over 15 years and I thought...

My Fiance Is Jealous Of My Bromance

28 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been engaged to my fiancé for a year and I love her dearly. When we met, I had a lot of female friends and I let those...

When Role Playing Goes Too Far

27 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my early twenties and I’m dating a guy that I've known this since high school. He was my high school crush and I alw...

My Ignorant Lover Calls Me Boujee

26 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a guy that I am embarrassed of. He and I met in college about 8 years ago and we lost contact initially because he...

He's The Daddy But I Am The Father

25 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single man and I had a special lady that I dated for 4 years. Over the years, we had our differences, so we...

A Quickie That Will Last A Lifetime

22 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 38 year old single mom and my daughter is a sophomore at a local college. She lives on campus, but she comes home to wa...

What's With All The Nude Pictures

21 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 65 year old grandmother that has recently got back on the dating scene. After dating a few losers, I met a really nice...

Grinding and Grabbing Might Get Me In Trouble

20 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old happily married man. I’ve been married for 17 years to one of the finest women in the world, but six mont...

My Housewife Misses The Streetlife

19 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am married and have been with my wife for many years. We were good friends before we became lovers and I helped her work thr...

He Wants Me, But Not The Children

18 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old female married to a 49 year old man. I have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem. My c...

Can a Cheater Ever Change

15 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 19 years but we are not married. I stayed in this relationship because I do really love my g...

Menage or Nah

14 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I need your help. We want Nephew Tommy’s opinion too. We met in college and we’ve been married for 12 years...

Hate Comes In Small Packages

13 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 62 year old African American grandmother and this past weekend, I took my 5 year old grand daughter, who I call “Bab...

Get The Funk Out Of My Face

12 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a guy for close to three years and I need some advice on a major issue I’m having with him. I love this man...

If You Lost Your Underwear Please Call Me

11 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a married man that drives part-time as a Lyft/Uber driver for extra income for my family. Last week, I got home late one ...

My Husband's Drinking Buddy

08 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for 3 years, but my husband and I have been together for 13 years. Our relationship has had its challenges a...

My Ex-Wife Ran My Fiance' Off

07 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in desperate need of advice. I was engaged to be married, but my fiancé and I recently split up after my ex-wife caused ...

My Husband and I Want Our Girlfriend Back

06 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley,I’m a 37 year old married woman and I found out that my husband was sleeping with my girlfriend, when Shirley read my girlfri...

Could Her Ex Be My Next

05 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a single 38 year old female and I like dating older gentlemen. I’m open to online dating and I have met some nice men ...

Should I Do It For The Culture

04 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old single female and my family moved to the states when I was 15 so we could have a better life. In my culture...

I Want A Real Man, Not This Man

01 Feb 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my husband for 13 years, but we have been together for a total of 23 years. We have one son and my husb...

Your Online Friend Is Overstepping Boundaries

31 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice, although this may not be your area of expertise. I'm a 27 years and I met my partner on a nationwide Faceb...

You Have To Take The Good With The Bad

30 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I need some advice on a different kind of double standard with men and women. My ex-boyfriend has a lot of flaws and I overloo...

My Husband's Supportive Secretary

29 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for 14 years and we have two sons. My husband is a middle school principal and I work full time in an offi...

I Gave Her Life But She Can't Have My Man

28 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm 46 years old and last year I married a man that's 18 years younger than I am. We met at the gym and the initial sexual att...

My Husband Is Not Carrying Her Casket

25 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, here’s my ordeal. My husband and I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 beautiful children. One of my husband’s lon...

Neither One Of Us Can Be Trusted

25 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I are in our late 30s and have been married for 15 years . We’ve had some hiccups in our marriage and we went...

So You're The Only One That Can Cheat

23 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have known my partner for 5 years and we have a child together. In the beginning, my partner cheated on me multiple times an...

Ain't Nothing Holy About His Behavior

22 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my family has a church that they’ve been going to all their life and I recently joined. I decided to devote my life to fello...

All In The Family

18 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am keeping a secret from my sweetie and I need your advice. When I was 18 years old and a senior in high school, I was in lo...

I Don't Want To Be This Type Of Movie Star

17 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my girl and I have been together for three years and I instantly knew she was the one when I met her. She cooks, watches sport...

If You Don't Get Yo Mama, I Will

16 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have found the man of my dreams and we have been together for 5 years. We have one child together and I’m pregnant with ou...

She's Falling In Love With A Liar

15 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 55 year old black man and I’ve been divorced for two years and I feel that I’m a great catch for a nice single woma...

Variety Is The Spice Of Life, Right

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father...

Variety Is The Spice of Life, Right?

14 Jan 2019

Contributed by Lukas

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a guy that I thought would be the man of my dreams, when we first met. He is a man of God and he would be a great father...

I'm All Gassed Up About Losing Weight

11 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband and I have been married for a year now, and since then, we have both gained a considerable amount of weight. I've g...

I Thought I Found The Perfect Man

10 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hardworking, educated, financially secure, good looking mature woman with a lot to offer, but since my divorce, I had b...

You Ever Heard Of An Old Fool

09 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, do you think that dating rules for seniors are different than those for younger people? I need to know cause I am trying to fi...

Am I Trifling and Ungrateful

08 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 42 year old single mother and I have two teenage children that live with me. At my age, I wanted to become a homeowner ...

My Wife Is Living Like She Is Single

07 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my childhood sweetheart for 8 years and we have two wonderful children. Early on, we had problems in ou...

They Don’t Make ‘Em Like They Used To

04 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I want your honest opinions. I'm young and I have a great job, my own place and I'm happily single for now. Here's my issue. I...

A Step-Mom That Needs To Step Away

03 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for 11 years. My husband has three grown children from his previous marriage, two sons and ...

I Can't Keep This Secret Much Longer

02 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My fiance and I met in college and we've been together for three years. She is perfect in every way. She has the looks a great...

My Sexy Neighbor

01 Jan 2019

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Dear Steve and Shirley, You're not going to believe this. I'm a married man and my wife and I just purchased our first home in a new community. To cel...

A Stinky Situation

31 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very nice man three months ago and we hit it off pretty quick. He's been taking me on a lot of nice dates and we have ...

My Freaky Friend And His Wacky Wife

28 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm still best friends with my high school sweetheart. He's happily married now and his wife and I are good friends too. Here'...

Closer Than Close Best Friends

27 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a male best friend that I want to be more than friends with. I was taught that the man is supposed to pursue the woman ...

Whose Is It

26 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, This past Valentine's Day started out as the most amazing day with the man of my dreams. We planned to go out to dinner. So af...

You Can't Get Anything For Free From Me

24 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I used to be a working girl, but I've been out of the game for five years. Since I made this big lifestyle change, I have only...

Why Is Her Ex Still Checking On Her Re-enactment

21 Dec 2018

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Why Is Her Ex Still Checking On Her

21 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year. When I met her she had just ended a relationship with a wealthy man t...

He Chose His Wife Over Me

20 Dec 2018

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My Marriage Is Stable But Stale

19 Dec 2018

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Should I Overlook His Trust Issues

18 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old divorced mother of five. Recently I met the man that I am now in love with. The chemistry was bananas from t...

Me And My Man Have A Little Situation

17 Dec 2018

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Dear Steve and Shirley I met a gentleman seven months ago. I'm 45 and he's 37 when we met he lived 3 hours away so he decided to move to my area. It's...