Why high-achieving women abandon themselves, and how attachment theory explains itWhat if the very qualities that made you successful are the same qualities keeping you disconnected from yourself?For many high-achieving women, independence is celebrated. You're the capable one. The dependable one. The woman who always finds a way. You build the business, lead the team, hold the family together, and carry responsibilities that most people wouldn't dare take on.But beneath that strength lies a question few women ever ask:Is this really freedom… or is it survival?In this episode, I explore the hidden cost of hyper-independence and how attachment theory offers a powerful lens for understanding why so many successful women struggle to receive support, set boundaries, rest without guilt, or feel truly fulfilled despite their achievements.This isn't a conversation about blame or labels.It's a conversation about awareness.Together we'll explore:Why hyper-independence is often an adaptation—not a personality trait.How early attachment experiences can shape the way we lead, love, achieve, and receive.The four attachment patterns and how they commonly show up in ambitious women.Why people-pleasing, perfectionism, over-functioning, and emotional self-reliance are often survival strategies rather than character traits.The hidden relationship between self-abandonment and burnout.Why success starts to feel heavy when it's built from a version of you that no longer fits.What it truly means to move from survival to sovereignty.If this episode is hitting ... it's not random.You're ready for the next version of you. Start here: https://yulianafrancie.com/embody/

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