Coercive Control While Separated Under One Roof: How to Survive It Part 2
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What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
Are you still living with the person you've separated from and still under the same roof, sharing a kitchen, calendar, and a front door and bracing yourself every single time you have to speak to them or see them? Maybe you know it's coercive control, but you're not out of the woods yet because you're still stuck under one roof. And every single time you make a move, you feel like it's going to set them off. Are you just plain exhausted just from managing get through another day?
What is coercive control and why does it continue after separation?
If that's you, today's episode will be perfect for you because we're going to be talking about coercive control while living under separated under one roof. Because you asked and sent in so many questions about coercive control. Oh my goodness, did you send so many? So many that we had to make a six-part series so we could answer these questions for you. And this is part two.
Is living under one roof required after separation and what are the legal implications?
Navigating life while you're still in it. So if that's where you are right now and you don't want to miss out on this episode or the rest, so make sure you hit the subscribe button on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple or wherever you're listening. Or make sure you've joined our email list if it's safe, because then that gives you an opportunity to listen to the rest of this episode and also send in your own questions about coercive control.
How can I prove that my ex’s abuse is escalating while we still share a home?
It's not too late. All you have to do is jump to the divorce course. com dot au and subscribe to our newsletter. Hello, I'm Laura, Divorce Mother of Three, and I'm here with my mother, Lynnette Galvin, with 35 years experience in family law. You're listening to the Divorce Course podcast.
Are my ex’s cameras, doorbells, and other devices legal and how can I document their use?
Through our candid discussions, we hope to help you through your divorce or de facto separation. We will be answering the most commonly asked questions and covering the stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom.
What is tech‑facilitated abuse and how can everyday technology be used to control me?
Now, to help us answer all of your questions, we have a very special guest back again with us today, Krazi Kirava. Krazi is a clinical psychologist who helps people break free from worn out, familiar patterns to living a life on their own terms. Drawing from both her professional expertise and her own first hand personal experience, she has a very deep interest in supporting those who go through domestic violence.
How can I tell if my car is being tracked and what steps should I take to stop it?
control and emotional abuse. Krazi, welcome back. We're so glad you're here.
Welcome. So nice to see you as always, Lynn and Laura. It's a pleasure to be here and answer so many questions.
And of course, my amazing mum, Lynn Galvin, is also here to help us with the family law side of things. She's a family law specialist with over 35 years experience, drawing on both her legal knowledge and her own personal experience as well. As we've said, there was a thread last week about is this coercive control?
What are the safest ways to move money, set up a financial buffer, and plan my exit?
And this one, this time, is really about how do I survive it while I'm still in it? Because let's face it, we don't just break off and instantly move on. There's people who are still stuck under one roof and they're worried they're gonna lose themselves or be stuck forever. So we're gonna be talking about the money side of things, how to stay safe, boundaries and the day to day things you're dealing with. going to touch on them today and answer your questions. So before we get started, just a reminder, everything we share today is general education. It's not legal advice and it's not psychological advice. And it's also not a diagnosis of your own situation. And because we're talking about coercive control and abuse, please take this as a warning that there will be triggering questions today.
And if anything lands a little too close, please be gentle with yourself, please be gentle with yourself and reach Reach out to either one eight hundred respect or Orange Door or you can call Lifeline on thirteen eleven fourteen. If you're in immediate danger, of course, please call the local police in your area or call Triple Zero if you're in Australia, or whatever the number is in your country. Now we got so many questions, guys, so we're gonna just fully launch into it. None of the fluff stuff now that we've got that out of the way.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
0:00–0:27
2
What is coercive control and why does it continue after separation?
0:27–0:48
3
Is living under one roof required after separation and what are the legal implications?
0:48–1:10
4
How can I prove that my ex’s abuse is escalating while we still share a home?
1:10–1:25
5
Are my ex’s cameras, doorbells, and other devices legal and how can I document their use?
1:25–1:37
6
What is tech‑facilitated abuse and how can everyday technology be used to control me?
1:37–2:02
7
How can I tell if my car is being tracked and what steps should I take to stop it?
2:02–2:32
8
What are the safest ways to move money, set up a financial buffer, and plan my exit?
2:32–49:14
Speakers
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