8 Micro Habits of Women Who Always Get What They Want
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Why do some women always get what they want?
Does it ever seem like some women just get everything they want? The love, the success, the money, the opportunities. It's like things just always work out for them. Well, it doesn't just seem like it. It is actually happening. But I promise you this, it is not luck. and it's not because they are working harder than you and it's definitely not because they're better than you.
What is the first micro habit of successful women?
It's because they're moving through the world differently. So today I want to share with you the eight micro habits of women who always seem to get what they want so you can start showing up in your life this way too. And make sure to stay till the very end because I'm saving the most unlikely and surprising one for the last. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Thanks for tuning into the conversation today. If you haven't already, it would mean so much to me if you'd take a minute to just click that five-star rating on your podcast app, leave a review and subscribe so you never miss one of my episodes. And if you're enjoying this podcast, please consider sharing it with a friend because if you like it, they will probably like it too.
Okay, so let's get into it. There is definitely a way of being in the world that attracts what you want. And the women who seem to always get what they want and the things just always seem to work out for them, they know this and they operate in the world like this. And the difference is their presence. It's what they think and how they feel and what they believe about themselves. And this translates into their behaviors. And it's a vibe that is just truly magnetic. So let's break it all down to micro habits. So habit number one, they don't give just anyone access. One of the biggest shifts that I had to make myself and that I teach all my clients is this, be discerning. Be discerning with who gets access to you.
How do clear boundaries contribute to success?
These women who always get what they want, they understand that their time, their energy, and attention is a valuable and finite and highly desirable commodity. And they don't make themselves available to everyone. And they don't make themselves available to just anyone. It's not just doing this, but it's knowing it. in your soul, in your very being that makes the difference. Believing this about yourself is where it all begins. And then that translates to the behavior. You must know that your time, your heart, your concern, your thought, your capacity to give of yourself is so valuable that you carefully curate the inner circle of those who get access to it. You don't just hand out a backstage pass to everyone.
Why is owning your worth important?
For me, I will do anything for those people who are closest to me. But if someone I hardly know or don't have a close relationship with is asking to pick my brain about business or someone who wants my two cents about their relationship, that's a no. It's not because I don't care about them. It's just that I care more about me. It is not my job to hand over my hard-earned wisdom, my years of investing time and money into developing myself in every way as a skilled clinician, as an eight-figure business owner. So I don't have to hand that over to anyone for free just because they're asking. I value myself and I know my worth. So I know this may be hard for some of you who just want to help everyone all the time.
And it's kind of the bleeding heart do-gooder mentality. Bless you for that. But no, this is pick me energy. It's scarcity energy. It's seeking energy. And it's let me help you so I can feel good about myself energy. The women who always get what they want take good care of themselves and they gatekeep access to them. So this isn't about not caring.
How can focusing on what you want change your life?
It's about valuing yourself and not being fully available to anyone and everyone. It makes it easier to show up more fully, freely, and wholeheartedly to the people who have earned their way in. So when these women show up, they show up all in and fully available to those who are in their innermost circle, those who actually deserve to be there and have that access.
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Chapters
10 chapters
1
Why do some women always get what they want?
0:00–0:20
2
What is the first micro habit of successful women?
0:20–1:53
3
How do clear boundaries contribute to success?
1:53–2:42
4
Why is owning your worth important?
2:42–3:57
5
How can focusing on what you want change your life?
3:57–5:10
6
What promises should you keep to yourself?
5:10–5:57
7
What does radical self-responsibility look like?
5:57–7:14
8
How to embody abundance in your daily life?
7:14–9:02
9
What does it mean to 'be her now'?
9:02–11:08
10
How can you practice receiving what you want?
11:08–25:32
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