Why Is It So Hard for Men to Make Friends? And, What Actually Works?

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Previously titled “Why is it so hard for men to make friends? (and what actually works)” — renamed by the publisher on Aug 6, 2026

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Recorded25 Mar 2026

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On this episode of The Masking Tapes, Carolina is joined by Alex Vans, the founder of the ⁠Choros⁠ app and social club. Choros is the firs app designed for guys to make friends. It builds real friendships through small groups, shared activities, and repeat hang outs. This episode explores men's social connections, the role of community, and approaches to building friendships. It highlights the importance of transitioning from online to offline relationships.__________Support the pod:Follow our InstagramSubscribe to our YouTube__________Host and Producer: Carolina Hidalgo-McCabeSponsor: Root For GoodStudio: Open Gov Hub__________01:36 Building Community: The Impact of Choros02:11 The Challenges of Male Loneliness07:01 Building the App: From Concept to Reality09:28 User Experience: How Choros Works12:16 The Role of Small Groups14:35 The Friendship Recession: Understanding Loneliness17:11 The Importance of Community and Structure21:42 Building Deeper Connections Among Men23:19 The Evolution of Male Friendships25:23 The Fragility of Male Friendships28:33 Friendship Dynamics30:42 Navigating Vulnerability in Male Friendships34:00 The Importance of Purposeful Gatherings36:14 AI and the Future of Human Connection

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