5 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship & 3 Signs You’ve Found “The One”
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What are the signs of an incompatible relationship?
Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast. You and I are going to tackle one of the most agonizing questions that every single human being on this planet grapples with at some point. You might be grappling with this right now. What is the question? It's am I with the right person? is this the right relationship for me or is there someone else that's better out there? Well, today, here's what we're going to do. I have dug into the research on relationships. I have also looked at my 30-year marriage. I've looked at the toxic dating patterns that I was engaged in before I met my husband. And I have three mistakes that I'm going to reveal to you today. These are three mistakes that people make that either have them stay with the wrong person or end it with the right person. And then I'm going to teach you this relationship assessment tool. It's called the ABC loop.
And by the time you and I are done with our conversation today, you're either going to have the courage and the conviction to finally end something that you know in your gut is wrong for you, or you're going to realize, holy cow, I am with the right person. And now I know what I need to do to move forward and make it even better. One of the most important relationships in your life is the one that you have with your partner. I guarantee you there is so much more excitement waiting for you both. And I have something very simple and surprising that I want to share with you thanks to Celebrity Cruises because they've sponsored this awesome and amazing bonus segment at the end of the episode. So listen all the way to the end and I'll see you there. You can learn more at CelebrityCruises.com. Visit Celebrity.com for details. Ships registry Malta and Ecuador. Hey, it's your friend Mel. I am so thrilled that you tuned in today. I'm just unbelievably fired up for our conversation because I have so much to share with you.
And in fact, the topic that we're going to dig into, which is this question, that we all grapple with at some point in our relationships. And I don't care if you've just been on a first date, if you're single, if you've been married for 28 years like I have, at some point, you're going to have this agonizing question, am I with the right person? This is normal. And there are things that you need to do and mistakes you need to avoid when you start to ask yourself this question. And we are going to unpack all of that. And I have so much to share with you because I've just spent the last two years writing a book called The Let Them Theory. An entire section of this book is about this topic. Knowing whether or not you're with the right person or in the right relationship and unpacking the tools and the science that applies here, that is going to help you make the right decision for you. And I promise you, you're going to leave the conversation so empowered. And so thank you for hitting play. If you're brand new, welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast family.
And one of the things that I know about you, because you chose to listen to this episode, is that you are interested in creating a better life. that you do know that you deserve happiness and that you deserve to be in a mutually loving, amazing relationship that brings out the best in you. And so whether somebody who loves you forwarded you this, and now you're hitting play and you're listening to this episode and to this podcast for the first time, whether you have been on a first date, or a string of breakups, or you're an empty nester, or something that's very common, if you're somebody that is now really focused on improving yourself, becoming happier, when you start to change, your relationship changes. And so as you're changing, if your partner's not changing, you're probably starting to question, is this the right person for me? Is this person supporting me?
Am I in the right relationship? Now that I'm an empty nester, now that I'm this, now that I'm that, this is normal. And so we're going to normalize this question that we all grapple with, which is, am I with the right person or the bigger one we don't talk about? Is there somebody better out there?
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