There’s a quiet pressure many people carry: the feeling that they’re running out of time. Time to find love. Time to settle down. Time to make it all happen before the clock says otherwise. In this episode, Julie & Yue are joined by therapist and advocate Beth Gulotta to explore how societal timelines—especially around love, fertility, and partnership—shape our anxiety and decision-making. Through the lens of psychology, Beth breaks down how social comparison and time pressure can distort our choices, and why meeting love later in life often comes with more clarity, emotional maturity, and intention. This conversation invites a redefinition of what it means to be “on time,” while still honoring real biological and emotional realities.In this episode, you’ll learn:• Why societal timelines create stress and rushed relationship decisions• How social comparison fuels anxiety around love and fertility• What psychology says about partnering later in life• How to balance biological realties with value-aligned choices• Ways to reclaim agency over your relationship and life timelineTo learn more about Beth Gulotta, follow her @bethgulotta and visit https://www.bethgulotta.com/ Want to feel more connected to your partner? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/PORSHOWAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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