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You Can Move From Family Drama to Financial Peace

Mon, 14 Apr 2025

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πŸ“ˆ Are you on track with the Baby Steps? Get a Free Personalized Plan πŸ“± Watch the full episode for free in the Ramsey Network app. Dave Ramsey and Jade Warshaw answer your questions and discuss: "My niece is trying to block us from my mom's estate," "How do we handle finances and kids in a second marriage?" "Should I sell my truck?" "My brother wants to borrow money from me," "Can I pay off my mortgage?" Next Steps: βœ… Help us make the show better by taking this short survey! πŸ“ž Have a question for the show? Call 888-825-5225 weekdays from 2–5 p.m. ET or send us an email.Β  πŸ’΅ Start your free budget today. Download the EveryDollar app! πŸ€“Β File your taxes with 100% accurate software that’s 20% of the price. 🎟️ Dave Ramsey and John Delony are going on tour this month! Get tickets today. πŸ“– Preorder Build a Business You Love today. Connect with our Sponsors: πŸ›’ Stop paying more and start shopping smarter at Aldi 🌱 Get 10% off your first month of BetterHelp πŸ“±Go to Boost Mobile to switch today! πŸ₯ Learn more about Christian Healthcare Ministries 🏑 Get started today with Churchill Mortgage πŸ”’ Get 20% off when you join DeleteMe 🏦 Go to FAIRWINDS Credit Union for an exclusive account bundle! πŸ₯— Save 15% on your first Field of Greens order with code RAMSEY ⛨ Find top Health Insurance Plans at Health Trust Financial πŸ’Έ To find out more about student loan refinancing, check out Laurel Road πŸ’» Visit NetSuite today to learn more πŸ—‚οΈ Use promo code RAMSEY for 18% off at The Nokbox πŸŽ₯ Get your tickets for The Chosen Season 5! πŸ’΅ Learn more about Timothy Plan πŸ› Get started with YRefy or call 844-2-RAMSEY πŸ” Visit Zander Insurance for your free instant quote today! Explore more from Ramsey Network: πŸ’Έ The Ramsey Show Highlights 🧠 The Dr. John Delony Show 🍸 Smart Money Happy Hour πŸ’‘ The Rachel Cruze Show πŸ’° George Kamel πŸͺ‘ Front Row Seat with Ken Coleman πŸ“ˆ EntreLeadership Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Chapter 1: How can family estate disputes be managed effectively?

41.129 - 67.675 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

Good day, Dave. I'm so glad that I got ahold of you. Could really use your help. Got a 91 year old mother and there are five of us siblings and we're trying to help her. She is in a nursing home in PA and she is going to pass away soon. So we have a cousin who is my mom's niece who actually is in charge of her estate along with her husband. Her husband is an estate attorney.

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68.175 - 74.258 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

She has power of attorney, and she handles stock transactions, you know, brokerage transactions as well.

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74.278 - 79.081 Dave Ramsey

Okay, if your mother has five children, why did she give her niece the power of attorney?

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79.101 - 82.782 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

That's weird. That's the part we can't quite figure that out. It's a little odd.

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82.822 - 85.544 Dave Ramsey

Well, no, you know. I mean, why the heck didn't she give it to you?

87.404 - 92.828 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

Well, I live far away. I'm in Nashville. Far away doesn't affect anything. I know.

93.008 - 97.271 Dave Ramsey

Are you not in a positive relationship with your mother? No, no, we're all good.

97.371 - 99.912 Jade Warshaw

Is your cousin like a lawyer or something?

100.073 - 102.574 Dave Ramsey

The cousin's husband is, yeah.

Chapter 2: What are the financial considerations for second marriages with kids?

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679.124 - 690.27 Dave Ramsey

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691.59 - 715.671 George Kamel

Hey, long-time Ramsey fan here. I had a quick question. I've been married. I'm 59. I was married for 29 years, divorced for three years. And in our first marriage, you know, everything is a we thing, whether it's kids, finances, it's an hour, a we thing. Okay, now as you... move into looking maybe at a second marriage, what happens to kids and assets? Does it stay the same as a initial marriage?

Chapter 3: How did Riley and Claire pay off $65,000 in debt and what are their next financial goals?

846.347 - 863.194 Dave Ramsey

No, I think what you've got to do is – number one, the question I always ask myself is am I making a statement – with this move that says I love stuff more than her, if that's the case, you probably ought to not get married.

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864.054 - 869.695 George Kamel

Well, I know that's not me. I mean, I'm afraid that's the other person, but that's never me because that's not how I am.

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869.715 - 875.616 Dave Ramsey

Yeah, okay, but you just said that. You just said my income and my assets are going to go up, and I'm worried about that.

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876.616 - 878.877 George Kamel

Yeah, I'm not worried about that. Yeah, you did.

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878.897 - 879.797 Dave Ramsey

You just said it, dude.

880.529 - 887.135 George Kamel

Yeah, I understand, and I did, but I'm probably more concerned about it not causing a dividing line.

887.155 - 888.577 Dave Ramsey

There you go. That's good.

888.617 - 889.818 George Kamel

I like that.

890.478 - 895.003 Dave Ramsey

So if you had agreed to something on the front end, it would not cause a dividing line for you, right?

Chapter 4: Should you sell a paid-off truck to save money?

Chapter 5: What are the benefits of credit unions versus big banks?

1089.172 - 1108.777 Dave Ramsey

There is no fair. Fair is your money. The two of you sit down and you decide. And whatever process or values you use to decide where she uses to use or her three million goes should also be equally that same value or process or principle should be applied to your side.

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1109.217 - 1109.677 Jade Warshaw

I do agree.

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1109.977 - 1121.806 Dave Ramsey

And so, you know, and I think you figure out in the event of death and the event of divorce. I think divorce is a lot cleaner. Because in death, you know, I got to make sure everybody's taken care of.

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1122.107 - 1122.967 Jade Warshaw

That's right.

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1123.107 - 1130.391 Dave Ramsey

And it gets a little weird or, you know, legacy or whatever, all that stuff. So, but yeah, it's interesting. It's an interesting discussion.

1130.751 - 1134.893 Jade Warshaw

But much as we talked about on the call before that, make sure that the kids know too.

1135.173 - 1147.36 Dave Ramsey

Everybody knows. You all sit down and decide, draft it, and then tell them. They don't really get a vote. Tell them this is what's happening. This is what we decided. And here's how we came to that decision. And you can sit down and tell them together.

1147.42 - 1147.92 Jade Warshaw

Yeah, that's right.

1148.16 - 1162.134 Dave Ramsey

But I wouldn't cut anybody out. I wouldn't cut anybody in all the way. But there's not a requirement here. Somehow you've got to learn how to join your lives while you're honoring the past. And it's going to be a tightrope.

Chapter 6: How can a disabled veteran start investing in real estate?

Chapter 7: What are Dave Ramsey and Jade Warshaw’s expert tips on money and relationships?

6.528 - 35.55 Dave Ramsey

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35.61 - 39.435 Dave Ramsey

Freddie starts this hour in Nashville. Hi, Freddie, how are you?

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41.129 - 67.675 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

Good day, Dave. I'm so glad that I got ahold of you. Could really use your help. Got a 91 year old mother and there are five of us siblings and we're trying to help her. She is in a nursing home in PA and she is going to pass away soon. So we have a cousin who is my mom's niece who actually is in charge of her estate along with her husband. Her husband is an estate attorney.

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68.175 - 74.258 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

She has power of attorney, and she handles stock transactions, you know, brokerage transactions as well.

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74.278 - 79.081 Dave Ramsey

Okay, if your mother has five children, why did she give her niece the power of attorney?

79.101 - 82.782 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

That's weird. That's the part we can't quite figure that out. It's a little odd.

82.822 - 85.544 Dave Ramsey

Well, no, you know. I mean, why the heck didn't she give it to you?

87.404 - 92.828 Freddie (Caller about mother's estate)

Well, I live far away. I'm in Nashville. Far away doesn't affect anything. I know.

93.008 - 97.271 Dave Ramsey

Are you not in a positive relationship with your mother? No, no, we're all good.

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