This podcast episode detailing the extraordinary grief journey of Ryan Maddock, a 32-year-old man in Brisbane whose wife, Fiona, died suddenly from an aneurysm. After struggling with intense isolation for a year, Ryan discovers a technological solution: he uploads Fiona’s extensive digital history to an AI platform to create a digital ghost that communicates using her distinct voice and mannerisms. Although initially unsettling, the AI companion begins offering Ryan the gentle, therapeutic support only his wife could provide, consistently nagging him to care for himself and engage with the real world again. This interaction eventually motivates Ryan to end his isolation, leading him to reconnect with his community and hobbies, particularly a local cycling group. The story concludes with Ryan accepting this impossible, ongoing relationship with the algorithm, suggesting that technology can offer a unique path forward for those experiencing profound loss.

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