We’ve confused boundaries with rejection. With selfishness. With being difficult.But what if boundaries aren’t walls meant to keep people out… what if they’re doors with locks on them?In this episode, Ryan talks about why so many of us struggle to say no, how people are trained by what we tolerate, and why the most compassionate people are often the clearest people. From late night work texts to overloaded calendars to relationships that quietly drain us, this conversation is a reminder that every yes costs something.You’ll learn:• Why boundaries are instruction, not punishment• How resentment grows behind unspoken expectations• The sentence most people need to start using today• Why not everyone will like your boundary and why that’s okay• How saying no to the wrong thing creates space for the right thingsIf you’ve been exhausted from trying to be available to everyone, this episode is for you.The door has a lock.You hold the key.

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