Chapter 1: What brutal truth did Eric Thomas learn from living homeless in Detroit?
welcome back everyone to the school of greatness very excited about our guest if you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe then you'll be successful we've got et the hip-hop preacher in the house my man welcome back it's been a while it's been a minute i gotta say this uh congratulations man um you know i was saying when i was talking to you it's like
10 years ago. And I remember, because you were like, E, I want you on the show. And I hadn't really started doing podcasts then. So that was like one of the first podcasts. And I was like, but my mother, my godmother was dying of cancer. And so I was like, man, I can't leave and go, but I definitely want to. And you were gracious enough. Like, where you at? Eat.
Chapter 2: How did Eric Thomas take ownership of his life after facing adversity?
I was like, Embassy Suites. I like drove out there. I was like, all right, let's do this. And man, just to see your evolution, you know, over the years. And like I said, it was a lot of us that started during that time frame and to see kind of where you are today and you survived the resilience. Yeah, man. Bouncing back, getting bigger, stronger, better.
They're like, you ready to go back to sports? Let's go, baby. Let's go.
Chapter 3: What mindset shift allowed Eric Thomas to create his own opportunities?
Yeah, so congrats, man. I've seen it. I mean, I can't name all the people, but Kobe, I've seen. My girl Tab on the show. You know, just to see all the people you've had. Of course, I watch the show and learn from it. So, man, congratulations.
Thank you. Appreciate it. I'm excited about this because I feel like you haven't been out there a lot.
Chapter 4: How can someone break free from a victim mindset?
You've been doing a lot of your own stuff for a while. So I'm excited because... There's probably a lot of people who don't know your full story because you used to tell it a lot 10, 15 years ago. So I kind of want to reintroduce you to the world. And I feel like the world is at such a unique place right now as we go into 2025. And it almost feels like there needs to be a massive mindset shift.
for everyone to take back ownership of their life, to take the full responsibility of their life, to not rely on other people to give them opportunities, but to go own their own opportunities by creating and having a clear vision. And there's a few things that I wanna talk about that I've seen you share some incredible strategies around mindset. I'm gonna dive into in a second.
But for those who don't know, you were at one point living homeless a long time ago.
Chapter 5: What is the difference between fact-based and feeling-based decisions?
People probably don't even know this about you, because you used to talk about it, but it's like you had a season of life where you didn't have any money, you had no education, you had no opportunities. essentially living homeless, struggling trying to figure out what you're going to do with your life. And I don't think people remember this about you because they see the success.
They see the coaching, the speaking, the massive following, the New York Times bestseller. They see all these things now. But 20 years ago, you weren't in this space. No, I definitely wasn't in this space. And what was the space you were in back in the day when you were living – You know, without the opportunities you have now.
And what was the moment you switched your mindset that allowed you to take different actions to start creating your own opportunities?
Chapter 6: How does Eric Thomas define greatness and fulfillment?
Yeah. So I'd say it's the mindset. Like I had a victim mindset. You know, it was my mom got pregnant at 17. You know, my biological father wasn't in my life. You know, I didn't go to the best schools in Detroit. You know, I wasn't in this environment. I didn't have like everything was about somebody else. You know, it was like the outside inside theory, you know what I'm saying?
Which is terrible.
Chapter 7: What steps can someone take to become their own best friend?
It's like everything that's supposed to blow me up and take me to the next level has is somebody else's responsibility. Like it's something that is going to happen or somebody and it's going to. And it was like, yo, E. Like, why are you in this abandoned building? Like, your mom's not here. Your biological father, no, he's not in your life, but he didn't get pulled over by the police officer.
And the police officer doesn't know the counselor or the principal that kicked you out. It's like, but there's a common denominator here. That's you. There's a common denominator.
Chapter 8: How can individuals create a mental rock bottom to push towards their goals?
And you homeless. Your mom's not homeless. Your biological father's probably married with a family somewhere. Like, yo, is that right or wrong? Who cares? You are living in this abandoned building. High school dropout. You're on your way to. And so when I look back, All the anger and the frustration and the hurt, it was all blaming. Everything was about this person or that person or this person.
Nothing had anything. I never even realized I was where I was because of who I was. And I was actually getting the physical manifestations of my thoughts, of my feelings, my emotions. Like, I was creating this and didn't even realize. I thought my mom created it. I thought my father created it. I was like, no, E, you created this. And I'm going to tell you, the moment I realized,
You are the greatest common denominator. You're probably the least greatest. You're the common denominator. Once that realization hit me, it was like, oh, okay. You got some confessing to do, bruh. And I'm going to tell you the hardest thing that I've ever done. Somebody asked me the other day, what's one of the hardest things you've ever done?
The hardest thing I've ever done was look in the mirror and tell myself I was sorry. That was a hard story for what I was sorry for what I've got myself into the choices that I made, you know, okay. Yeah, you 12 years old when you find out that the person is raising you is not your biological father and your mother lie. Absolutely, bro.
That's not necessarily best circumstances, you know for a child to be born in like your mom lie about who your father is and You know your father and don't even know you know your father a while. Like, you've been around your father. But you didn't know he was your father. I didn't even know he was my father. Wow. I'm with his mother, my grandma and me like this. I'm with his sisters.
I'm with his brothers, my aunts and uncles. I'm hanging out with them every day. And so the realization of like, yo, not only did you get lied to, like, it's been manipulative. It's been deceitful. But what do I do, House? I run away from home at 12. And I'm living in garages and living in my friends' homes.
And this vicious cycle of every time something goes wrong or every time I'm confronted by this reality that's not your father, it's run away from home. It's run away from home. And at 16, it's like, OK, ma, you just flat out lied to me. Everybody told me you lied. You keep telling me you didn't lie. You go tell me when I got older. I'm like, I'm out. But it's like, ee.
When I looked in the mirror, it's like, why did you have to take? Why'd you have to leave? Your mom, you had counselors. Why when you sat down with a counselor and they tried to walk you through the tools and the strategies to get on the other side of this, why were you in? Don't talk to me. You ain't my mom. Don't talk to me. You ain't my daddy. Don't talk to me. I don't want to talk to y'all.
These are professional counselors. who are saying, yo, we get it. You're going through a lot, but we're here to help. I don't want counselors at school, principals, teachers. I'm just now insubordinate. I'm evil, mean, mad. And I looked at myself in the mirror and was like, why was that the choice? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You got to talk to me. I know why you made the choice.
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