This episode is for every human who’s ever thought: “Am I actually into men… or am I just addicted to their validation?” 😳 …or “I think I might be queer, but I’m terrified of what that means.” Today I’m joined by the brilliant Inez Bye - queer content creator, business coach, and one of my real-life besties, for a no-holds-barred convo on coming out later in life, dating women for the first time, and how anxious attachment still finds a way to sneak in… even when you finally feel like you’ve met “your people.”We’re talking:• That moment when you realise you might be queer (and what happens when you suppress it for years.)• Dating women after only ever dating men and why it can actually bring up more anxiety, not less.• The fantasy of queer dating vs. the reality.• Pedestalling queer women, ignoring red flags, and confusing emotional chaos with connection.• The surprising way dating women changed Inez’s relationship with her body (and why it might do the same for you.)• Rewriting your standards and detaching from the male gaze for GOOD!🎧 Tune in now—and if it speaks to you, send me a DM on Instagram, I would love to hear what landed for you.CONNECT WITH INEZ!Follow her on TikTok: @nezzysparklesFind her on Instagram: @inezbyeMIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) over on Instagram here!Got something you'd love me to record an episode on? DM me and let me know!

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