In this episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of a very real, very recent dating experience… where I got ghosted. And not just ignored… fully unmatched. 😅What made this moment so powerful wasn’t the ghosting itself… it was what happened internally. The thoughts that came up, the stories my anxious attachment wanted to run with, and the way I caught myself before spiralling into old patterns. Doing the work doesn’t mean you never get triggered again. It means you respond differently when you do.I walk you through exactly what went through my mind in that moment, how I regulated myself, the questions I asked to shift out of anxiety, and the reframe that allowed me to move on within hours instead of days or weeks. This episode will show you what it actually looks like to embody secure attachment in real time — not just understand it.In this episode, you’ll learn:• What goes on internally when your anxious attachment gets activated, and why those thoughts feel so real in the moment• The simple but powerful shift from reacting → regulating (and how to catch yourself before the spiral takes over)• Why expressing your standards will never push away the right person, and what it reveals when someone disappears instead• How to stop making rejection mean something about your worth, and start seeing it as information about compatibility• The difference between knowing the work… and embodying it; what secure attachment really looks like in practice🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram — I’d love to hear your biggest takeaway.APPLY FOR PEACEFULLY ATTACHED:https://www.mimiwatt.com/MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) on Instagram HERE!Watch the ‘You Are The Problem’ Replay HERE: https://www.mimiwatt.com/you-are-the-problem-replay-opt-in-landing-page

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“What did the council decide on item 42?” — answered with the speaker and the moment.

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