In this episode, I’m sitting down with one of my Peacefully Attached clients, Zala, who shares her journey from feeling heartbroken and stuck after a breakup… to getting her spark back and dating with confidence and self-trust.When she first came to me, it wasn’t just the breakup — it was the deeper fear that she’d never find the love she truly wanted. Old patterns were back in full force… anxious attachment, emotionally unavailable partners, and slowly abandoning herself to keep things going. Even with years of self-awareness, she still felt stuck, like nothing was actually changing.We talk about the shift that moved her out of that; learning how to regulate her emotions, rebuild safety within herself, and finally start trusting herself again. Now, she’s dating in a completely different way — clear, grounded, and no longer chasing or overthinking. The spark she thought she’d lost? It’s back. This episode is a reminder that just because you feel broken right now… doesn’t mean you stay there.In this episode, you’ll learn:• What heartbreak can bring up beneath the surface, and why it often reactivates old attachment patterns• How Zala moved from feeling stuck and defeated… to rebuilding her confidence and sense of self• Why awareness alone wasn’t enough and the piece that actually helped her create change• What it looks like to get your spark back and date from a place of self-trust, clarity, and emotional safety🎧 Tune in now! And if this episode resonates, send me a DM on Instagram — I’d love to hear your biggest takeaway.APPLY FOR PEACEFULLY ATTACHED: https://www.mimiwatt.com/MIMI SOCIAL MEDIACome say hi 👋 (or DM me your biggest takeaway) on Instagram HERE!Watch the ‘You Are The Problem’ Replay: https://www.mimiwatt.com/you-are-the-problem-replay-opt-in-landing-page

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