In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple's sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect. 00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways. 01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple. 02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help. 05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time. 08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together. Resources: Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504 Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PostAffairSexuality #RelationshipRebuilding #SexualDysfunctionTherapy

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