Today, we are joined by Jaeleen Bennis, creator of Bondassage and Elysium by Bondassage, who invites us to think of sexual exploration as a path to self-discovery and healing. In this conversation, we explore Bondassage and Elysium, compare them with a traditional BDSM session, and talk about Jaeleen's mission of making kinky play accessible for everyone. Jaeleen spoke about her passion for educating and de-stigmatizing this type of bodywork and, at the same time creating unforgettable sensual, blissfully pleasurable and provocative experiences in her clients' lives. What You Will Learn In This Episode: - What Bondassage and Elysium are, and how they are utterly different from BDSM - Bondassage can be an excellent way to reconnect with our bodies - Why trust is one of the most important factors to perform Bondassage - Why Bondassage must be an unscripted and spontaneous session to reach its full potential - The impact of Bondassage on heterosexual men, who perhaps may be surrendering and receiving for the first time in their lives During a Bondassage session, the practitioner does not receive any verbal feedback from the client and they focus on nonverbal clues the person tied up gives, like their breath and the energy changes. It is not like the practitioner does whatever they want, they observe the reactions, and when the person receiving demonstrates pleasure, the one giving expands on that. To summarize, Bondassage is an excellent, safe and fun way of dipping the toes in kinky waters. Resources: - The Festival of Sexuality: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/festival-of-sexuality - Bondassage http://bondassage.com/ - Learn Bondasagge http://learnbondassage.com/ - Bondassage for Couples http://bondassageforcouples.com/ - Jaeleen Bennis website http://jaeleenbennis.com/ - 50% off the Art of Bondassage Courses (normally $395) with this link: https://www.bondassage.com/50off/ - Festival of Sexuality: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/festival-of-sexuality - Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training - Book: Rebecca Lowrie - The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen - The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop - Sign up for bi-weekly(ish) Love Letters straight to your inbox https://self-alchemy.activehosted.com/f/11 - Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/ - My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/ - My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/ - Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/ - Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/ - Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1 - Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

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