Have you ever had a desire, a fantasy, or the urge to ask for something during sex that sounded like a weird thing to ask for, or perhaps made you feel that you're not normal? In this episode, I'll address why many men experience feeling not normal regarding their fantasies, desires and fetiches. I'll talk about what normality means, how it's interpreted and how you can determine whether you want to be labeled as normal or not. What You'll Learn In This Episode: - An example of how even the wildest fantasy can be totally normal - What is considered normal, and how it molded the way you understand normality in sex - External factors that influence what is considered normal in the environment you grow up in and experience your sexuality - Some of the questions most men ask to find out if they are normal - Why every interaction and experience in the sex realm is normal as long as it is consensual Most of us understand normal as acting as expected, established, or even imposed by cultural, religious and social norms. Instead of worrying about being "normal," you should focus on being true to your desires. As long as you do your thing in a consensual relationship, you can consider yourself and your inclinations completely normal. Resources: - 056 Chat with DK Green, What is Taboo?: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/the-sexual-alchemy-podcast/episode-56 - The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self https://www.amazon.com/Sexual-Alchemy-Journal-Men-Discovering/dp/B09NJHN24M/ - Check out my FREE Training, Reclaiming Your Intuitive, Confident, and Sensual Self https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-training - Book: Rebecca Lowrie - The Sexual Alchemy Journal for Men: 6 Weeks to Discovering and Embracing Your Full Sexual Self: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop/p/sexualalchemyjournalformen - The Sexual Mastery Activation Cards for Men https://www.sexualalchemy.com/shop - Sign up for bi-weekly(ish) Love Letters straight to your inbox https://self-alchemy.activehosted.com/f/11 - Free resources: https://www.sexualalchemy.com/free-resources/ - My book "101 Meditations for Life, Business and Bedroom Success" https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Life-Business-Bedroom-Success/dp/0993207626/ - My website https://www.sexualalchemy.com/ - Find me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/s_xualalchemy/ - Find me on Twitter https://twitter.com/rebeccalowrie/ - Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/rebecca.lowrie1 - Find me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccalowrie/

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