Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-02-28-26&el=podcast Did you grow up walking on eggshells around your mother? Did love feel conditional… like you had to earn it, manage it, or prove yourself worthy of it? If you were raised by a toxic or emotionally immature mother, you may still be carrying subconscious patterns that affect your self-worth, boundaries, identity, and relationships today. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down 10 powerful signs you were raised by a toxic mother and most importantly, how to begin healing. When love is paired with tension, chaos can feel familiar and calm can feel uncomfortable. But healing is absolutely possible and it starts with awareness. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: ✔️ The difference between unhealthy and toxic parenting dynamics ✔️ How conditional love wires people-pleasing patterns ✔️ Why feeling responsible for your mother’s emotions impacts adult relationships ✔️ The long-term effects of emotional invalidation ✔️ How emotional whiplash creates anxious attachment patterns ✔️ The “I Am Bad” wound and chronic guilt ✔️ Why punished boundaries make it hard to say no ✔️ How parentification shapes your adult identity ✔️ The impact of identity control and emotional blackmail ✔️ Practical healing exercises to begin reparenting yourself Timestamps 00:00 – Signs You Were Raised By A Toxic Mother 01:01 – 1. Love Felt Conditional 02:37 – 2. You Felt Responsible For Your Mother's Emotions 03:15 – 3. Your Feelings in Childhood Were Chronically Minimized or Made Fun of 04:18 – 4. If You Felt Like Your Mother Competed With You to Be the Center of Attention 05:04 – 5 .If There Was a Lot of Emotional Whiplash 05:44 – 6. If You Got Punished for Everything 06:48 – 7. If Your Boundaries Were Punished 07:08 – 8. If You Were Parentified 07:55 – Attachment Styles and Sex Course Promo 08:15 – 9. If You Felt Like Your Mother Controlled Your Identity 08:56 – 10. If Your Relationship With Your Mother Was Run by Obligation and Fear 09:48 – Healing Exercises 09:48 – Like and Subscribe For More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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