Learn Self-love, Self-Soothing & Emotional Healing Tools to Transform Your Life. Start Here: https://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/self-love-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=/self-love-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-06-21-26&el=podcast Do you constantly give more than you receive in relationships? Do you hold things in, try to be the perfect partner, and then suddenly find yourself overwhelmed with resentment? If so, you may be caught in a cycle many Fearful Avoidant Attachment Styles know all too well. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the Fearful Avoidant Boundary Cycle and explains how subconscious beliefs about worthiness can quietly sabotage relationships. You'll learn why many Fearful Avoidants grow up believing that love must be earned, how this leads to overgiving and difficulty receiving support, and why these patterns often create resentment, emotional overwhelm, and relationship conflict. Thais explains how unworthiness core wounds fuel people-pleasing behaviors, why blocked receiving creates one-sided dynamics, and how guilt can keep the cycle repeating over and over again. Most importantly, she shares practical steps to break free from this pattern by rewiring core wounds, communicating needs directly, and learning to comfortably receive support, care, and love from others. Key Takeaways ✔️ Fearful Avoidants often believe love must be earned ✔️ Overgiving and under-receiving create relationship imbalance ✔️ Resentment builds when needs go uncommunicated ✔️ Blocking support reinforces feelings of unworthiness ✔️ Guilt often restarts the cycle after conflict ✔️ Communicating needs prevents emotional buildup ✔️ Healing begins by rewiring the unworthiness core wound Timestamps 00:00 – The Fearful Avoidant Boundary Cycle 00:45 – They Feel Like They Come From a Place of Unworthiness 01:39 – “Love is Earned” 01:51 – Overgiving in Relationships 02:15 – Blocking Yourself From Receiving 02:48 – Resentment Builds Up 03:33 – Boiling Over 04:30 – Back to Square One 05:44 – Learning to Love Yourself Course Promo 06:18 – Practice Communicating Your Needs 06:49 – Rewire the ‘Unworthiness’ Core Wound Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

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